Characteristics of Korean parents' education for their children
Attach importance to moral education
South Korea attaches great importance to the moral quality education of teenagers, and there are moral education classes from the first grade of primary school to the first grade of high school, among which etiquette education is the most impressive. Etiquette education in Korean schools includes: 1, personal life etiquette, such as sitting, standing and walking posture, intonation, eyes and facial expressions when talking to people, and etiquette when handing over things; 2. Family life etiquette, such as etiquette for parents, elders, brothers and sisters, relatives and neighbors; 3. School life etiquette, such as etiquette for teachers, seniors and classmates, meeting ceremony and farewell ceremony at school and after school; 4. Social life etiquette, such as bow and scrape, hand-raising ceremony, eye-catching ceremony, worship ceremony and various titles in social communication; 5, national life etiquette, such as national flag, national anthem etiquette, etc.
Up to now, every family in Korea has a family motto to educate children's moral cultivation in the bedroom. This makes most Korean teenagers pay attention to politeness and respect their elders. If you have the opportunity to visit a Korean home, you will find that no matter how young a child is, he knows how to hold water in his hand and respectfully give it to his guests and elders. Once I was having dinner at a Korean friend's house, and the host's son came back. He was in college. A young man in his early twenties came to say hello respectfully when he saw a guest at home. My companion invited the young man for a drink. Seeing his father nod, the young man lowered his eyes and picked up the cup. First, he held high in front of the guests to thank them, then he leaned over and covered the cup and drank it.
South Korea is a country deeply influenced by Confucian ethics in China. Koreans believe that a person who doesn't know how to respect his elders and filial parents can't be patriotic at all.
Cheap and beautiful courses
South Korea attaches great importance to early childhood education. Before the start of each semester, both public kindergartens and private kindergartens will give parents the teaching plan and specific activity content plan for that year every week. However, the most commendable thing is that Korean kindergarten education pays attention to cultivating children's quality while focusing on entertaining. I have a friend's child named Lian Mei, who is five and a half years old. She goes to a very ordinary public kindergarten in Hancheng. Kindergarten activities in April, July, October and December are spring, summer, autumn and winter respectively, mainly focusing on the teaching of these four seasons, focusing on cultivating children's observation ability. For example, the theme of 10 is:? Understand the changes in autumn? 、? Mid-Autumn Festival? 、? Fruitful? 、? Autumn in Korea? 、? Autumn on earth? .
Other months of teaching combine Korean tradition and real life to educate children. For example, May is the Family Month in Korea, and both Parents' Day and Children's Day in Korea are in this month. What is the activity theme of Lianmei Kindergarten in May? Me and my family and neighbors? . Mainly to cultivate children's self-awareness ability, feelings for family and neighbors, and cognitive ability for the surrounding environment. For example, in? My neighbor? In this activity, children are asked to introduce their neighbors, which will naturally make them exercise their communication and language skills with others and make them naturally pay attention to their families and surrounding environment? Small society? .
? Extensive? child-rearing
In China, it is often the case that parents seldom take their children out for long-distance trips. Even if you go out, you should cover yourself up and make full preparations in all aspects. And Koreans take it? Extensive? Being a parent
Koreans like to take a family trip on weekends. At this time, parents can often see a few-month-old child climbing the mountain with a three-year-old child who can walk completely on his back. Sometimes children are too tired to walk, and parents rarely pick them up, just waiting for them to have a rest before continuing to walk. I went out to play with Korean friends several times, and it is common for them to take care of their children. The children seem to have a hard time during the long journey. Later, I couldn't help asking, will the child get sick like this, and there is no old man to take care of him at home? Korean friends think this is a natural thing. They think they should take their children out whenever they have the chance. Although the road is a little hard, it is also exercise for their children.
Korean parents' methods of educating their children
1. Set an example. Song Yiguo once mentioned that having children is more tiring than before, because we should always pay attention to our words and deeds. It is said that Mr. Guo has a really good temper. He always smiles when he goes out and greets people on his own initiative. It's called. Sage Matsushima? Never heard Song's father tell the children? Call aunt? Call uncle? But triplets will take the initiative to say hello. This is the magic of words and deeds. Even the scene of triplets eating, which the audience loved, had a lot to do with dad. The triplets eat quietly, are not picky about food, and eat very cleanly, because Song's father seems to have not eaten for many years, and he is definitely his own. So, if your children are picky eaters, don't blame them for all the mistakes.
2. Family education. In the Song family, if two children fight over toys and have a quarrel, dad will definitely let them hug and kiss after educating them. If the child makes a mistake, the father will definitely hug and kiss his father after discipline, and let the child understand that family members should love each other with intimate actions. As a result of this kind of education, when the Republic of China cried, Han Feng would take the initiative to come and hug him and help him wipe his tears; When I was in the Republic of Korea, a private school was punished by the master for leftovers. Long live Lao Yao stood up with his brothers and stood with him while crying. Will you wait for dad to eat before eating?
3. Independent education is also outside. If one of the three children made a mistake, Song's father would take the child who made the mistake to a room alone for education. Although children are young, they also have self-esteem. He should fully respect children. When shooting for the first time, children sometimes hide under the table, thinking that their father can't see them. Song's father would cooperate with them and pretend not to see them, he said? Men need their own space? He really respects his son as an adult. However, this doesn't mean that you can forget a mistake when you are playing outside or in other people's homes. When you visited the twins' home, Dad Song used Dad Li's bedroom to educate the children alone. The reason he gave was: If you don't educate other people's children, children will subconsciously think that you can make mistakes when you go out to play, and children's education is a big event and can't be delayed for a moment. I have to say that Song's father usually plays hi with his children, but the education is really strict, which is worth learning from parents in China. More such parents will reduce the number of Xiong Haizi who go to other people's homes.
4. Magic for ten seconds. When children have an argument, they often use magical magic. When I first appeared, I didn't know what Song's father did. Han was playing with the vacuum cleaner happily in the living room. He wanted it for a long time, so he started fighting for it. At this moment, Song's father came out and said? Shall we count by ten? Then Han stopped talking and started playing with the vacuum cleaner. Long live watching his brother play. When the count reached 10, Han gave the vacuum cleaner to Ulla. Hundreds of millions of viewers feel particularly amazing. Song's father didn't give a corresponding explanation, just saying that this method has been tried and tested, and it is particularly effective in families with multiple births. I went to ask Du Niang, but I didn't find out why, so everyone would know what was going on. As a result of this kind of education, once my father was not around, Wansui's spoon fell to the ground. I wanted to use the spoon of the Republic of China, but the Republic of China refused to give it. Then Wansui began to count beside him. When it was 10, the Republic of China gave him his fork, which avoided many quarrels and crying within the family.
5. Chair for thinking. When the children are older and can think for themselves, Song's father's education has played a new trick. When a child makes a mistake, he will let the child sit with the chair facing the wall and let the child sit still for five minutes. Before they leave, they will point out their children's mistakes and let them think. It's amazing that children really think about their mistakes. They must come back at the appointed time and point out the child's mistakes again. Of course, the hug and kiss with dad ended in the end, and then the child had to move the chair back to its original position by himself. He once piteously asked his father to help him move the chair, and his father refused seriously. This is Song Yiguo. He can mingle with the children while playing, and even read a fairy tale book vividly, but he will never give in on the matter of principle. He will accompany his children to do things they dare not try. He will not be angry and will not let them give up.
Popular in Korea? Natural parenting?
Korean parents began to pay attention to the natural parenting method, which focuses on returning children's life, education and games to nature and maximizing their children's growth in a natural state.
(1) Let children sleep alone from an early age.
No matter how old the child is, South Korea is used to letting the child sleep alone. This can not only enhance the intimacy between parents and children, but also be conducive to good health and cultivate children's independence from an early age.
(2) Don't restrain children from playing with mud and sand.
Whether children play with dirt, sand or water, it doesn't matter whether they are dirty or not as long as they have fun. The doctor also suggested that making children dirty properly is not only good for their mood, but also can improve their resistance. It is beneficial for them to fight bacteria and viruses and prevent various diseases.
(3) Breastfeeding, using cloth as a diaper
Breastfeeding is a natural and glorious thing in Korea.
More and more parents use cloth to make diapers. Although it will be a little troublesome to make diapers and feed with cloth, it is good for children.
(4) Don't let children take medicine casually.
90% of children's diseases are caused by viruses, so even if they don't take medicine, they will recover naturally after a while. This can also prevent other adverse reactions caused by drugs.
Some parents are upset because their children eat less. In fact, children need a certain amount. We should not only pursue quantity, but also pay attention to quality. Even if you eat less, as long as you have all kinds of nutritional values of your body.
(5) Let children grow up slowly.
Parents need to wait until their children want to learn. If they find that their children are curious about something, they can encourage them to do it, which will make them grow up faster.
(6) Encourage children to take part in adventure activities
Encouraging children to do some meaningful adventure activities can cultivate and exercise their strong will and brave spirit.
(7) Cultivate sentiment in nature.
Only nature is the richest and most comprehensive textbook for educating children. Nature can broaden children's horizons and enrich their knowledge. Let children learn to analyze and compare things slowly, and find out the relationship between different things, thus enlightening wisdom.
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