Children are gentle and kind by nature. If a child shows cruelty, it must be that he has experienced too much cruelty in his life. It is disgusting that the media reports from time to time that parents abuse their children or the elderly. At the same time, tracing back to the growth history of criminals in some vicious crimes, we can see that they had extremely strict family education in their childhood. It can be said that almost all criminals have a childhood of serious mental or physical abuse. Children who are often beaten and scolded learn to be harsh; Children who are often threatened learn to hate; Children who are often criticized can easily become inferior; Children who are often restricted will become more and more rigid.
? Threatening education? It is only a spiritual understanding, and it is the dross of China traditional culture. Threatening children is incompetent education and shameless education. In recent years, some people have hyped threatening education as the traditional education in China, which is discrediting the traditional education in China, confusing a few parents and hurting some children. Threatening education will only make children's psychology more and more deformed.
A good educational method should be practical and realistic, and not make a mountain out of a molehill. When a child has a bad situation, we don't have to make a mountain out of a molehill. Instead, we should take the initiative to understand the motivation of the child's mistake and deal with it realistically, instead of just measuring it by adult moral standards. All children who are respected by their families and can vent their feelings at will have better personalities. On the contrary, children under the threat of parents' excessive discipline are more afraid of their parents and have a bad influence on the future.