? "At the end of the period, to prepare for the exam, the teacher's requirements are particularly strict. If we do something wrong, we will be asked to "March" and "push-ups", and we will be ... "
The child did not list the teacher's "punishment" methods, but subconsciously looked up at his father's reaction. Dad asked first, then looked at the child with surprised eyes and asked?
"You girls will be punished like this, such as push-ups ..."
"Of course, everyone is equal!"
"Will you be punished often?"
"Of course! I'm not the best at learning. A few students who study well will not be punished! "
"Who told you not to listen? You deserve it!"
"oh! Is this how your teacher usually manages? "
"No, if we don't take exams at ordinary times, the teacher will leave us alone and the students will do whatever they want. He won't ask at all, that is, we did something wrong, he will just talk casually and won't punish us! Yes, we are so relaxed! Not just for everyone to have a good grade at the end of the term! "
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The school gate is crowded with children who arrive at school early and parents who send their children to school. The child waved to his father and was soon drowned in the bustling crowd in JaeHee. Dad stood at the school gate for a long time and didn't want to leave. He has a blank face.
? My son once told me what happened to one of his classmates, Wang Xiaoyong. Xiao Yong is a big black sheep in the school. Naughty is a common occurrence. He doesn't do his homework and often quarrels with the girls in his class. He will naturally enjoy the special treatment given to him by his teacher. He was always beaten, and he was afraid to say a word when he came home. As a result, I vowed to change today and return tomorrow. Of course, the majesty of the teacher has also been established. Children see the head teacher, just like mice see cats, hiding far away. Don't say pranks, even if you make mistakes occasionally, everyone will be afraid.
When education is fixed in the rough solution of "strict teachers make excellent students", it gives us an education of quick success and instant benefit, a deformed education after being squeezed, and an adult thinking under severe conditions. I can't see my children's childhood, let alone their poetic life. Many times, when our class management is in trouble, we are at a loss. We always "suppress" it in a simple and rude way, or sharply reprimand or "invite" troublemakers to stand outside the classroom and so on. In fact, such a treatment is often a temporary solution, not a permanent cure, and has no effect.
"No one has made a mistake, but if you make a mistake, you can change it." It is our nature for children to make mistakes. As long as children are brave enough to admit their mistakes and know that they can correct them, it is very valuable. They are good children. Forgiving children's mistakes and giving them opportunities for reflection and growth are far more useful than our simple preaching. This is the most educational and wise way to teach and educate people.
Feng Enhong, a famous national education expert and former principal of Shanghai Jianping Middle School, said: "In today's education, a few people stand yesterday to do education, while most people stand today to do education. Few people jump out of today and think about the demand for talents for social development in ten years to do future education. This is a pity. " Many of our schools can't see the future of the school and the development of teachers because of today's class education and even yesterday's education. It is meaningless for us to talk about children's development first and then talk about the beauty of human nature. Therefore, as educators, we should look at education beyond education, look at education from a developmental perspective, do a good job in education and study education. Think big, do small. Give up the shackles that restrict the development of education, think about action, wake up the actors by thinking, and be a clean and honest educator.
Education needs wisdom and more care. When Mr. Tao Xingzhi, a famous educator, was the principal, he not only didn't blame the child, but also found four reasons to reward the child and rewarded four sweets. Saving children did not make education more complicated. It also makes "The Story of Four Candies" a classic of Mr. Tao Lao's education life. Teacher Yu Yongzheng, a special Chinese teacher, said with emotion when summing up his educational career: "Fifty years of educational career has taught me to be a child." All these reflect Mr. Yu Lao's intention and affection, and also explain to us the "key" and "secret" of education. When he was the head teacher, when he learned that Qihu was insecure because his father remarried, the children even suspected that his stepmother would poison the food and prepared a pair of ivory chopsticks. After learning the truth, Mr. Yu guided a new mother through many home visits, saved a child and warmed a family.
In fact, education is not the strictness of teachers, nor repeated repression, nor is it another way of corporal punishment. It should be the equal coexistence between teachers and students, the warmth of love from the teacher's heart, and the awakening of students after repeated failures.
? Sometimes, education is as simple as that. The teacher gives a simple trust, a affectionate hug and a kind smile. ......