The growth of children needs the warmth of the family, which is equally important from this perspective, but fireworks are different. Father loves mountains and mother love the water. Mother has too many things on her shoulders. You were born, you came into this world, you opened your eyes to see the world, and the first person you saw was your mother. How much children love their mothers. So much so that we compare the party and the motherland to mothers and the Yellow River to the mother river. Mother's kiss, mother's hug, mother's nagging, mother's cooking have you ever been separated from your mother at every step of your life? The mother was worried when the child was far away.

1. Fathers tend to play with children, while mothers tend to take care of children. Therefore, the father's role is more likely to show the children two qualities of "competitiveness" and "independence", while the mother's role is more inclined to give the children two qualities of "fairness" and "security".

2. When playing with children, fathers pay more attention to making rules, and mothers pay more attention to inventing a safe environment for their children.

If the father's upbringing works, children may avoid risks and reduce many personal experiences, which will prevent them from making progress in life.

4. In a family where the father is too strong, children are generally fragile, content with the status quo and unwilling to take risks; If the mother's upbringing works, the child may take part in adventure activities without considering the result, because he has enough sense of security, but there is no "restriction". In a family where the mother is too strong, children will pay less attention to social norms and despise or even trample on the interests of others.

As long as the feeding methods of mom and dad are separated, the growth of children can be in a balanced state.

Parents and children spend only a few years together, and it is precisely these short years that are the key period for children to establish close relationships with their parents. Once missed, no matter how parents compensate, this love is missing in children's hearts. How to compensate children, let them really come out and get satisfied love in their hearts is a long process. What is needed is not parents' guilt, but careful companionship and care.