Lead: share your experience in educating children? Family education is a long-term task and a meticulous work. As long as you work hard, you will see the hope of success and the children's tomorrow! Parents are the first teachers of the children. Everything we say and do has a profound influence on children. Family harmony and strong family atmosphere are objective conditions for a child to grow up healthily. Let children establish an independent personality from an early age, and then pay attention to their mental health development. Although the child is very young, he has strong self-esteem. Adults' words and deeds are always in their eyes and in their hearts, especially in the face of unfriendly accusations or complaints from outsiders, which will bring mental harm to children.

Share the experience of educating children. Eliminate parents' fear of their children.

Junior high school kids? Over the ridge? In the new stage, due to various reasons, academic performance has declined, and parents are anxious and impetuous. There is opposition between children and parents. At this time, parents should calm down and learn to wait patiently for their children's growth. Some experts said:? Children's desire to avoid failure is stronger than their desire to succeed. In order to prevent the smallest possible failure, we would rather lower the level of our efforts. ? This is one of the important reasons why parents' fear makes their children lose their initiative. I hope parents don't have a meal at the sight of poor grades? Interrogation, even painful, lest children lose confidence, parents should ask their children to learn from the process, which is more scientific and ideal than asking for results.

Second, build children's self-confidence

The inventor Edison had a strong thirst for knowledge when he was a child, and he liked to trace back to the source. He asked the teacher? Why is 2+2 equal to 4? Problem, so I ran into a big disaster. He has only been in school for three months and was ordered to drop out. His mother was very sad and determined to educate her son personally, build up self-confidence, teach him liberal arts and chemistry, and cultivate his habit of loving learning and science. Edison's thirst for knowledge was further stimulated. ? Genius? The budding inventor grew up unconsciously and eventually became a world-famous inventor. It can be seen that success comes from self-confidence, the establishment of self-confidence and the common sense of people around you. Fathers don't appreciate their children. Where does the child's self-confidence come from? Edison's mother didn't appreciate her son, so there would be no inventor Edison today. Parents should use a magnifying glass to discover their children's bright spots and help them build confidence in overcoming difficulties. When children need help, parents should master a certain degree of help, never go beyond it, and leave room. For example, if a child asks how to write a word, some parents will report it casually, which is the most labor-saving, but it is unacceptable. It is better to encourage children to ask how to write a word when they meet them. Can't you look it up in the dictionary? Check it first, and then tell your parents. ? With such guidance, children will be happy to look up the dictionary. This not only saves parents a lot of time, but also cultivates children's ability to acquire knowledge by themselves. And this ability is very important in a person's life. Only by letting children jump and succeed through their own efforts can children feel the joy of success and build their self-confidence.

Third, grow up with your children and be their bosom friends.

With the progress of society and the rapid development of science and technology, people have to learn more and more new things. As parents, we should always embody the spirit of seeking knowledge and making progress and set an example for our children. ? Mom and dad are also learning and making progress! ? Let children understand that learning new knowledge and continuous progress are accompanied by life. Secondly, through communication with children, we should try our best to shorten the distance from their hearts, listen to their unintentional words, truly understand our children and educate them to grow up healthily.

Share the experience of educating children. It is very necessary to have a good study and living habit, which should be reflected in the details of life.

To have good habits, we must first let children get used to thinking, give them enough freedom, and don't die too much, otherwise there will be rebellion in spirit. Be sure to start with small things when children are young, observe carefully, find bad behaviors in life in time, and correct and guide them; Give affirmation and encouragement to children's good behavior in life, make it a habit, and let children study and live with good habits.

Second, do a good job of communication with children.

In parent-child communication, we should pay attention to scientific methods: First, we should be good at listening. Only by listening to children's hearts and understanding their thoughts and needs can we give them targeted care and help, and it will also make future communication easier. Children tell you happy things, you should be happy; When a child tells you unhappy things, you should let him vent and show sympathy. When a child tells you a topic that you are not interested in, you should listen patiently to show that you care about his conversation. In this way, not only will children be more willing to talk to you, but also their language skills can be improved. Secondly, parents should learn to be friends with their children. If parents are always on top, it is difficult to make intimate friends with their children and there is no real communication. This requires parents to use their children's minds and talk to their children in a language that they can understand. Besides, be patient. There are great differences between parents and children in age, psychology, thoughts and feelings, and understanding needs a process. If you are too impatient, communication will become a bubble.

Third, we should cultivate children to read a lot.

Reading is a learning method to broaden children's horizons and acquire knowledge. It is also an entertainment that brings infinite fun to children. Therefore, we must first create a strong reading atmosphere for our children. Let reading become a way of life for him, and let children feel that reading is a very happy thing. So at home, there is always a fixed time to read books every night, no matter what kind of books, to give him a head start and create a learning atmosphere. Slowly, children also like online reading. Reading has not only become a living habit, but also become our mentor.

Share the experience of educating children. Pay attention to a good family environment and cultural atmosphere to lay a good foundation for children's growth.

Children grow up in the family, just like a small tree growing in nature. A good natural environment is conducive to the growth and rapid growth of trees. Similarly, a good family environment and atmosphere will promote the healthy and happy growth of children. Therefore, I attach great importance to the construction of family cultural atmosphere and the construction of learning families.

Although my house is small, it has a strong cultural atmosphere. In my life, books are my friends and learning is my habit. As long as I have time, I will study and study every day, so that my children can be influenced by me. This influence is subtle, and it is a long-term contact and edification. Now my children love reading, which is probably influenced by me. Why are children affected? I think it has something to do with herd mentality. For a phenomenon, children first follow the trend and then form a habit. Especially living with children for a long time, can he be free from your influence? So-called? Near Zhu Zhechi, near Mexico. Is it black? . Therefore, as parents, it is not only the responsibility of parents, but also the hope and future of children. This should become a law: responsible parents will certainly cultivate successful children!

Parents should give full play to their potential, and every potential is a rare element in their children's growth. Every parent has the advantage of children's learning, and this advantage is your potential. We should turn these advantages into sunshine, air, water, soil and nutrients for children's growth to moisten and nourish their hearts.

I like China traditional culture, such as seal cutting, calligraphy, Chinese painting and flute playing. I think these hobbies are very beneficial to children's growth. Learn seal cutting and practice calligraphy and painting as soon as you have time. Although I may not let my child do this in the future, I think such a family environment must be beneficial to him. The home is full of books, tastes and culture. This kind of breath will penetrate into the child's mind and affect his behavior. Sometimes, I will make a painting with my child to let him feel the charm of traditional culture. Moreover, you can also take the opportunity to educate your children. Once, my child asked me to teach him seal cutting, so I gave him a piece of Yin Shi and told him how to do it. The child took the stone and carved it carefully, but he couldn't. Finally, he said a word:? I didn't expect seal cutting to be so difficult? . I said to him:? Nothing is easy to do, but doing it well requires effort, not just enthusiasm. . In this way, in daily life, I entertain the host and let him understand things.

Second, communicate on an equal footing and form a friend-type parent-child relationship.

What do you think of enterprise management? Communication is more important than power? . I think communication in the family is more effective than scolding. The mistake we are prone to make is that once a child makes a mistake, such as doing homework wrong or doing homework too slowly, our parents' emotions will suddenly become impatient, and some parents will even punish their children. In fact, this kind of education method is wrong. Can't you reason with children and communicate on an equal footing? Only when you treat your child as an independent and dignified education object can your child accept your point of view. We are both parents now. If we were scolded or beaten by our parents when we were young, we don't want to remember now. On the contrary, what we want to remember most is how our parents patiently communicated with us on an equal footing. Therefore, when we educate our children, we should not be too simple and rude. The more you try to deal with the problem simply, the more complicated the child's problem will become. And now children around the age of ten are prone to rebellious psychology. Therefore, equal communication is more effective than reprimanding. I remember once I had an in-depth conversation with my child about his homework and taught him to overcome his carelessness. In the future exams, he worked hard and his grades improved. Equal communication can help him find the crux of the problem and help him find a solution to it. My relationship with my children is very friendly, completely a friend relationship. This harmonious father-son relationship will be beneficial to his growth. We often discuss, play chess, sing, draw pictures and fly kites together. I also wrote an article about it. This article tells the story of me and my children flying kites, telling children that they will encounter setbacks in the process of growing up, learn to face setbacks, walk against the wind like kites and fly high for nine days! It is with equal communication that I can grow up with my child, feel the process of his spiritual growth and appreciate his spiritual world! In fact, on the one hand, I can't grow up without children. Children are also educating me, because children will urge me to constantly improve myself! At this point, I have to thank my children!

Third, strict requirements, emphasizing that we must study hard and pay more attention to being a man.

The education of children should not only focus on learning, but also on all-round development, especially learning to be a man. In learning, it is mainly to cultivate children's good study habits. For example, in composition writing. I first ask children to learn to observe people or things in life carefully. Catch with your eyes and feel with your heart. Sometimes I will teach children how to observe things, grasp their characteristics and describe them in words. My child's composition has never been written directly in the exercise book. I have to draft it first, and then revise it. He basically did it all by himself. In the process of revision, I explain the writing method from the aspects of conception, conception and language expression. In this way, his writing level has been continuously improved. In addition, I also bought some good books for my children to read, to enhance their literary perception.