In order to help parents learn and master the correct concepts and methods of family education, the Working Committee of the Ministry of Education, together with Capital Normal University and China Education Television, has continuously launched the "Open Class of Family Education". The following are the comments on Family Education Family Education Open Class 10 compiled by me in 2022, which are for reference only and like to collect and share!
In 2022, the evaluation of "Lide Shu Ren Family Education Open Class". 1 In today's society, most children have their own homes. Of course, some families are happy, and some families are not much different from casinos-my family is a typical example.
At my home, you can first see the smell of cigars-cigarettes, and at the same time you can smell the extremely strong smoke-but this is not smoked by my father. Although my dad doesn't smoke, because my dad brought those so-called "brothers" home, they smoked very hard in our house. My dad invited them in to play mahjong and turned our house into a casino.
Not only did my mother not dissuade me, but she also yelled, "Ten thousand, red ~ ~", which made me unable to study in my room.
In the evening, those people finally left. I thought I was saved, so I asked my father, who has always been good at math, about math problems. I just know that my father didn't read it, just reported a number and said it was the answer. I asked my father why, and he scolded me: "Oh dear! How could I have such a stupid son as you! I can't even do such a simple topic! " Mom also said, "Ask dad if you can't do the problem. Then don't study. Go back to your room to study! " "I heard this and stormed in, thinking: how can I be so unlucky! How greedy you are for such a family! Lust for such two parents! They gamble all day. They are just two gamblers. And invite people to smoke at home. Don't they know that smoking is more harmful to smokers than smokers? Turned the house into a casino. If this continues, I am really going crazy! "
Think about other people's families. Parents work hard every day and send their children to cram schools. As soon as they got home, they spared no effort to explain the topic to their children and help them learn. After research. Take them on a trip to relax. By contrast, I really committed a crime in my last life! The two are worlds apart.
Why didn't I grow up in such a warm and happy family, but I lived in a casino? Why can't I be so greedy for my parents? I really hope that my dreams can be exchanged with facts, and the way my parents educate me can be changed! !
Comments on "Lide Shu Ren Family Education Open Class" Today, I went to Ai Jia Department Store to interview how adults educate their children.
As soon as I entered the supermarket, I stared at an uncle with a little brother. I stepped forward and started my interview with a smile. "Hello, uncle, I'm a little reporter from Tianzhong Evening News. Can you accept my interview? " Uncle readily agreed. "Do you think it is important to communicate with children in the family? Do you think paternalism plays an important role in family education? " My uncle said kindly, "it is of course important to communicate with children, because without communication with children, there is no way to understand their young hearts and conduct correct education." I think paternalism should play an important role in the family. " Uncle changed the subject, his tone faded, and he looked at his little brother affectionately. "But I have too little time. Usually, the mother of the child is tutoring him. I can only bring him to play during the break, and I am sorry for him. " I also think of my father who travels a lot, and my eyes are going red. I quickly changed the subject. "Do you think a good boy will be encouraged? Have you ever thought about your child's feelings when you criticize him? " Uncle smiled. "Of course, children should be encouraged more. Children like to be encouraged. He will do things better, but not everyone is encouraged. He should be criticized for not doing well, but he really didn't consider his feelings when criticizing him. " "Thank you for accepting my interview. You are a good father. " My uncle signed it.
Then I interviewed many parents and an American friend. Although he has no children, from talking with him, I know that family education in the United States is really different from that in China. In the interview, I learned that the reason why our parents in China strictly demand our study is related to our traditional examination methods.
Comments on 2022 Lide Shu Ren Family Education Open Class 3 From the moment I was born babbling to now 12 years, my parents' words and deeds have deeply influenced me and brought me countless surprises. Whether living and studying, or being a man and doing things, it always inspires and spurs me in the process of my growth. If primary school is my left wing to success, then my family is the other half. Only by combining the two can I soar in the vast universe. Only in this way can I swim in the vast sea; Let me run on the boundless grassland ...
When I was in the first grade, it wasn't like this. At that time, I didn't know how to be humble to others; Do not know how to respect others; Forgive others for their incomprehension. At school, I am a good girl and a little assistant in the eyes of teachers; But at home, he is a little emperor, and his clothes are stretched out to get food, which is simply a matter of wind and rain.
Dolls are girls' favorite companions, and even I, a plump woman, really like them. I remember once, my good friend and I had a big fight over the doll. It was a day of summer vacation. I came to my friend's house to play. I saw an oversized teddy bear doll in her house and liked it very much. I insisted on borrowing it for a long time, but she refused to admit it. I was very angry. After all, since I was a child, no one would object to me, but she dared to say no to me, and her anger was rising. Just hold your horses and borrow it from her again, but I turned it away. I can't bear it any longer. In a rage, I said I would break up with her and run home with tears in my eyes.
When I got home, my mother saw that my face was full of tears, so she came over and patted me gently and asked softly, "What's wrong with you?" I couldn't hold my breath, so I told her exactly what had just happened. I thought my mother would be like me, but I don't know where she came up with a question: "Have you heard the story of Niu Hao and Yue Fei asking for directions?" "Yes, what's the matter?" My heart is full of doubts. Mother smiled and said, "Now that you have heard, don't you think you are as unreasonable as Niu Hao? Do you find your behavior annoying? Do you think you should apologize? " Faced with so many questions from my mother, I was speechless for a moment. After careful consideration, I found that I did something wrong, so I decided to apologize to my good friend. Hurriedly said to his mother, "Mom, I'm going out." Mom probably knew what I was going to do, so she smiled.
My family taught me how to be a man, which is the way for me to grow up. Along the way, my parents were my guides, guiding me in the right direction, inspiring my innocent imagination and carrying my original dreams.
In 2022, "Lide Shu Ren Family Education Open Class", four family styles mean a family style problem. In fact, it comes down to family education. As the saying goes, fish begins to stink at the head, if each of us has a good family education environment, then the present society will be very harmonious.
This is the truth, we all understand it, but this problem may not be completely solved. Just as we have day and night in a day, so does human character. As the old saying goes, nature is good at the beginning of life, and inherent vice is also at the beginning of life. Therefore, it shows that social black and white complement each other, depending on how we grasp it. So every family has a different family style, and every family's door will be different, just as everyone's fingerprints and leaves on the tree will not be exactly the same, so will family style. Some people may say that family style is a family education model. How can there be different family styles? It's like a dragon giving birth to nine sons, and each son is different. The initial education is the same, but everyone knows different personalities and understands different things, so they receive different information, and then his family and his brother's will be different.
I just want to tell you my understanding of family style. As long as I have a clear conscience, I don't have to worry about other people's homes or my own. Maybe most people don't agree with my idea, but I still expect those who agree.
Comments on 2022 Lide Shu Ren Family Education Open Class. In family education, it is particularly important to give children more choices. In daily life, it is particularly important to cultivate children's ability to choose, judge and choose. If children can be given more choices, they will feel respected and trusted, give them confidence and a sense of accomplishment, and make them feel that they can grasp life.
In daily life, we can give them many more choices, such as which clothes to wear today, and let them arrange their own activities if conditions permit. In the absence of conflict of principles, you can try to deal with your child's own life according to his arrangement. Moreover, selective questions can often help parents avoid the embarrassment caused by rebellious children answering all questions with "no": at this stage, for open questions ("... ok?" "Let's ...? "It is difficult for parents to get a satisfactory answer, and children often take" no "as the standard answer. For children, "multiple choice questions" will generally be seriously considered and answered.
Parents should be patient when letting their children make their own choices, because children's reaction ability is different from that of adults. Children can't answer the questions themselves, so they must be given time to react and think. Waiting patiently will show respect for children's interests and choices. Sometimes, we need to repeat the options we provide appropriately, because when children start to learn to think, they may forget what they are doing: whether their attention is sustained or short-lived. In addition, while still including choices, it is entirely possible to clearly explain and deal with one thing. For example, in the process of dealing with something that children have to do but don't want to do, we set some choices in ways and means, and children often choose happily and finish the work.
In short, giving children the opportunity to choose what to do at an early age and bear the consequences will help them build good self-confidence and self-responsibility.
Comments on the Open Class of Family Education in Lide Shu Ren in 2022 6 According to the traditional concept, family education is the education of parents (among them, parents are the first) to their children in family life. According to the modern concept, family education is the interaction and education between family members (including parents and children) in family life.
Family education is one of the components of big education and the foundation of school education and social education. Family education is lifelong education, starting from the day the child is born (even dating back to the fetal period). Family education in early childhood is "the beginning of life" education, which plays a fundamental role in people's life. After children go to primary school and middle school, family education is not only the foundation of school education, but also the supplement and extension of school education.
In order to meet the needs of family education in contemporary society, parents must seriously study the modern family education theory, change the concept of family education and improve the level of family education. Parents' schools shoulder the task of publicizing the Party's educational policy and modern family education theory, helping parents to change their family education concepts, improve their family education level and coordinate school education, family education and social education. At present, parents' schools should focus on:
1, update the concept of family education
In the past, parents' concepts of raising their children to guard against old age, educating their children to get ahead, and honoring their ancestors must be replaced by the concept of educating their children to be national teachers. They should pay attention to cultivating innovative spirit and practical ability, and train their children into all-round builders and successors of the socialist cause with ideals, morality, education, discipline, morality, intelligence, physique and beauty, so as to adapt to the life of the future society.
The traditional concept of moral education must be changed, for example, children must obey their parents unconditionally, and obedience is a good boy; Do not be the first, do not be the last; "One son in a thousand daughters can't sit in the hall" (there is no risk) ... It is necessary to cultivate children's spirit of scientific democracy, self-reliance, self-improvement, fair competition and win-win cooperation.
The traditional concept of valuing wisdom over morality, knowledge over ability and scores over actual level must be changed. We should establish the concept of all-round development, pay equal attention to learning knowledge and developing ability, attach importance to the cultivation of innovative spirit and practical ability, and attach importance to the cultivation of good psychological quality and the development of interpersonal coordination ability.
2. Learn the basic principles of family education.
Step by step, do what you can, don't be demanding, and don't be too hasty. Haste makes waste, which is not only useless, but also harmful.
② Combination of teaching students in accordance with their aptitude and all-round development. We should not only attach importance to the development of children's personality and specialty, but also attach importance to the coordinated development of all aspects of quality.
③ Consistent attitude and unified education. Parents' educational attitude should be consistent and consistent, and should be consistent and unified with school education.
④ Persuasion education should be combined with practical exercise.
⑤ Combination of praise and reward with criticism and punishment.
6. The combination of emotion and reason.
All landowners timely education, perseverance.
3. Exchange family education information and family education experience.
Study new problems in family education. Parents' schools should make greater efforts in communicating school education and family education in order to jointly accomplish the task of cultivating a new generation of high-quality talents.
In 2022, "Lide Shu Ren Family Education Open Class Home-school Co-education" 7 As the saying goes: "Young people are strong, then the country is strong!" Yes, that's true. You see, China is so big and has so many people that it should be very developed, but it is not. We in China are not even as good as a small Japanese. Just like the old saying just now, why is the country not strong, because we are not strong; Why are we not strong? Because most people's family education methods are wrong.
According to statistics, many parents in China regard their children as report cards. For example, most families will have such a situation: if you do well in the exam, your parents will reward you and praise you; And if you don't do well in the exam, they will scold you, beat you, even force you to drop out of school or cause psychological harm to your life. None of this is good! Mom and dad! Please note that we are human beings, not tools to show off and win glory. Make good use of it! Our children also have dignity. Don't treat us like toys. This will make you selfish. If you want to show off us, you must get our permission. I know, it's for our own good, but you still can't think so.
How big is the gap! The reason why America is so developed is that most of their parents don't think their children are their report cards. Parents, if we are wrong, please explain; Don't hurt us because of our grades. We are not your report card!
In 2022, "Lide Shu Ren Family Education Open Class" has 8 comments, which is a warm and warm place. I always believe that every classmate has a happy family, a naughty me, a father who loves me very much, an amiable grandmother and a white-haired grandfather. ...
I am 12 years old this year. I am a naughty girl. I love sports. I love volleyball to make myself lively, love life and love sports more. ...
My father is 38 years old. He is a bus driver. Above his square face, he has short black hair and wears a pair of glasses from time to time under his thick black eyebrows. ...
My grandmother is 64 years old. She is an amiable person. There are many white hairs on her black hair. She has small eyes. When she smiles, her eyes are like two thin crescent moons. There are many wrinkles on her forehead. ...
My grandfather is 66 years old this year. His hair is sparse, there are many wrinkles below, his eyebrows below his forehead are white, his eyes are small, his nose is high, and there can be no more wrinkles on his hands. Grandpa is very kind to me, and I love him very much.
This is my home, this is a warm home, a warm home, and a happy home.
Review of "Lide Shu Ren Family Education Open Class" in 2022. When children were very young, my family attached great importance to moral education, and only by being a man can we do things.
We mainly ask children never to lie, don't take other people's things, and don't litter. When we educate, we all do it in an equal atmosphere. Generally, we take a little time every day to pay attention to the growth of our children: Have you finished your homework? Did you have fun at school today? Is there anything interesting? Especially when children encounter setbacks or make mistakes at school, we communicate with her in time, give correct guidance, adjust children's mentality, and make children like school and be happy at school.
While paying attention to children's growth, we should also be careful not to deprive children of time and rights to play. Nowadays, there are more and more training institutions in the society, and parents are more and more eager to let their children become pianists, singers, painters and dancers ... Learning piano today, dancing tomorrow, learning English in the morning and learning Olympic Mathematics in the afternoon makes children not only uninterested, but also bored. Our children also attend training courses, but they are all her favorite, so every time she goes, she is very happy and gets along well with her classmates.
Education is a complex systematic project, and family education requires parents' patience and care. Although we have some educational ideas and experiences ourselves, the education of children is still not enough. We will continue to study hard and learn from the successful experiences and practices of other people's family education, and discuss with teachers and parents to make children become excellent students with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physical education.
In 2022, the mother crab said to the little crab, "Son, why do you always crawl sideways?" Why can't you go straight? " The little crab's aggrieved answer: "Mom, I walk like you." In other words, a mother must live upright, act upright and guide her children correctly.
"No matter where I die, please don't bury me with nobles, celebrities and rich people. Please bury me among ordinary Jewish workers and ordinary people, so that my tombstone can decorate ordinary stone tablets around me and let them decorate my tombstone. " This will was written by Russian Jewish writer Sholom Al Ham. Along with this will, there is a thick notebook full of vitriolic abuse language. For example: "Eat-let the maggots eat you!" "Shout-let your toothache scream!" "Sew-let the sewing needle stab you to death!" ……
It turned out that little Roma lost his mother when he was young, and his father married him a vicious and bad-tempered stepmother. Stepmother often insults him with vicious language. Sholom never talks back, just hides in the corner and writes down the word "vomit" in his stepmother's mouth in his notebook. Later, he became a writer In his works, many curses and bitter words are "borrowed" from his stepmother.
Facts have proved that parents' words and deeds in daily life often unconsciously affect their children. In the family, parents are the "mirrors" of children's lives. What kind of person do parents want their children to be? They should do this first.