2. If the child monopolizes the favorite food, parents should take the food away and distribute it fairly, and can't let it go. At first, children may cry and beg, but parents must not give in and insist. With compromise, children will know that there is another chance next time. Therefore, parents should be cruel, persistent, patient and determined to stick to it.
3. Parents should set an example: obedience and doting in family education have entered a misunderstanding, and the lazy, selfish, arrogant and incompetent character cultivated by doting will inevitably affect children's school and social life.
Parents should set an example by themselves. There is a joke that a couple take care of their son in every way, but they are critical of their parents in every way. One day, the couple's bad attitude towards their parents was seen by their son, who shouted loudly, which I still remember. His parents asked him what he remembered, and his son said, "I remember how you treated your grandparents, and I will treat you when I grow up." Parents are speechless. It can be seen how important it is to keep the surface unchanged and the shadow unchanged.
5, cultivate a good sense of communication: to let children learn to enjoy, we must first consider the elders. When eating, good food should be given to the elders first, and comfortable seats should be given to the elders; Thank others for serving themselves; When others are inconvenient, we should provide help as much as possible, and gradually realize that it is pleasant to help and care for others.
6. In addition, children should be encouraged to participate in cooperative games, help them understand that selfishness is an unwelcome behavior, guide them to feel the pleasure of respecting, helping and humility others in play, and learn to control their irrational emotions.
7. Don't put him in enjoyment: desire is the root of selfishness, and selfishness is accompanied by endless desires. For children, parents must not put him in a special position to enjoy and satisfy their desires without fulfilling their obligations. Let them know that satisfying their desires is as important as fulfilling their obligations. If there is something delicious, they should not enjoy it alone, but should take the initiative to share it with others. In housework, they often think about what they should do for their parents. In this way, children will develop the habit of respecting the elderly and caring for others, instead of just thinking about themselves.