It is very important to educate single-parent children with an optimistic attitude.
1. Parents should adjust their thoughts and psychological emotions to face new problems, dare to face them squarely and solve them step by step.
Don't hide the fact of divorce from your children for a long time, it will add a layer of distress.
You can't hide. Children who don't know the truth hate their parents.
2. Helping children deal with the psychological pressure of their classmates is largely from classmates.
Parents should encourage their children to have several good children in their class, often study together and spend weekends together.
Once the children's group life is normal, many problems will be solved.
3. Observe children's words and deeds and solve children's thoughts in time. Children in single-parent families are often sensitive, and some things will make them have subtle psychological changes.
Parents should pay more attention to their children's words and deeds, find abnormal signs, and talk with their children in time. After understanding the situation, you can guide in time.
4. Create a happy family atmosphere for children. If the family is noisy all day, children are often in a fearful and fearful environment, which is prone to negative emotional and behavioral problems.
Therefore, single-parent families should pay special attention to creating a happy family atmosphere for their children, which is conducive to the formation of children's good character and healthy psychological development.
5. Create a good cultural atmosphere for children. Parents are mirrors for children to shape themselves.
As the father or mother of a single-parent family, we should pay great attention to the great influence that we may have on children's behavior, psychological state and personality characteristics, always pay attention to our words and deeds, and don't show bad habits in front of children.
6. Let children learn to take on family responsibilities. Don't spoil your child because he has lost his father's love or maternal love. Let them do what they can with confidence and boldness.
Let children know about various family situations, and invite older children to participate in the decision-making of major family affairs when necessary.
7. Creating an environment for children's interpersonal communication According to the introverted and withdrawn characteristics of children in single-parent families, it is a good correction method to let children contact the society more and create more opportunities for children's interpersonal communication.
8. Don't pamper and pamper children without principle. After the death or divorce of a spouse, parents are always more and more sympathetic to their children. Everything is under the control of their children. They are willing to work hard, are willing to suffer hardships, and do not let their children suffer a little "frustration." They have no clear respect for others, and often look down on their parents who raised them with great pains.
9. To raise children independently, provide them with more energy support, teach them self-esteem, self-improvement, self-love and self-motivation, encourage them to participate in group activities as much as possible, don't avoid society, take the initiative to communicate with others, and cultivate their healthy, cheerful and optimistic personality.
10, paying attention to gender role teaching In the process of children's physical growth, the study of gender foot color is an important part. A boy without a father or a girl without a mother lacks the most direct model in the study of gender and foot color.
Single parents should pay attention to the replacement of gender resources between relatives and partners, give their children appropriate influence, enrich and grow their gender roles, and cultivate healthy and noble people to meet the needs of social life.
Article source: Phoenix Parent-child, Wu Baiyi's mother, Hengchu. com。