At present, due to the singleness of exam-oriented education, the living condition of the only child and the increasingly fierce employment competition, parents are not satisfied with educating their children only in classroom books. As a result, day schools, eloquence training classes, hardship training and decentralization to the countryside have been adopted by more and more parents; There are also a few parents who admire the idea of "Wolf Dad" Xiao Baiyou that "every three days, children enter Peking University". Their purpose is simple: bear hardships and stand hard work, increase knowledge, guard against arrogance and rashness, and expect their children to have wider experience and better interpersonal skills, so as to lay a good foundation for their future life. However, it has also been suggested that not every successful person needs to know what the countryside is like. Some scientists and scholars who "make no distinction between grains" have made great contributions to mankind. At the same time, this deliberate hard work takes up the children's already insufficient spare time, which is suspected of another exam-oriented education. Because children still suffer in a passive environment, understand things and cultivate non-academic ability. In addition, the news that some children have been hurt by the excessive behavior of walking to school has also appeared in newspapers from time to time, which cannot but attract attention. Faced with the above two viewpoints, what do you think of the "hardship" education? Do you have anything to say? People around you or yourself have experienced "bitter medicine and good illness" @ An Xiao, no matter what field you are engaged in, you must have the spirit of suffering. In this way, you will face up to difficulties in adversity and go through five hurdles to defeat six generals. But don't turn these activities into a show, you should feel it yourself. If it is just a formality, it is a waste of time. Swing net @ Fengyang suffers hardships. If you help your children with everything, you really don't know how to cook and peel eggs when you get to college. Tencent Weibo @ Yan Chunjie I can understand my parents' feelings. After I entered junior high school, I found that many of the contents of the senior high school entrance examination were extracurricular knowledge. Therefore, I am in favor of this kind of hardship education. After all, there is no end to learning. Facing the increasingly fierce international competition, in order to meet the future challenges, as parents, they have to plan for their children's future. In fact, it is good for children to suffer. They have no experience and are used to it. Suffering can cultivate resilience. A good medicine for treating diseases can also be sweet. @C Dan said that the children of poor families are in charge early, and I admit that they really suffer more than us. However, this does not mean that success must bear hardships! On the contrary, when moving in the direction of success, we should relax appropriately. It is of little significance to constantly put pressure on children by means of exam-oriented education! Tencent Weibo @ Close Your Eyes In fact, everyone is not afraid of hardship. What everyone is afraid of is suffering. Without the reform of exam-oriented education, suffering education will only increase the burden on students. I don't think it's good to suffer. If children are forced to suffer hardships, it must be passive, and the final result is often counterproductive. Letting children "suffer hardships" blindly completely violates their freedom. There are other ways to cultivate your ability besides suffering! Tencent Weibo @ Free children personally feel that the word "bitter" is wrong. Don't preconceived that some forms of education are bitter. It should be a happy thing to experience all kinds of life. Children tend to be single under the pressure of exams, and they can understand the meaning without engraving the word "bitter". Bitter is sweet. I grew up in the countryside and I know the feeling of suffering. He used to envy the children in the city, but he didn't expect the children in the city to regard it as a way of education in the end. I don't understand! QQ Space @ Isn't the continuous progress of human beings in Qing Dynasty to stay away from poverty? If you suffer because you want to suffer, such behavior is puzzling. QQ Space @ Dust Sealing It's a quality to be able to bear hardships when encountering difficulties, but if you have nothing to do, you are full. Cultivating children's ability to bear hardships comes from daily life, not deliberately making it. What's more, who said that suffering is going to the countryside? (Special Editor: Hailin xi) Related Links Recently, "Wolf Dad" Xiao Baiyou has become a widely concerned figure. The father who believes in the concept of "every three days, children enter Peking University" educates children in a strict traditional way. In the end, his son Xiao Yao and his daughter Xiao Jun were admitted to Peking University at the same time-this is the first time in the history of Peking University; Xiao Xiao, the third child, was admitted to Peking University with a score of 20 1 1, creating a miracle of "one school, three universities". However, some people think that although the traditional beating and cursing education has created the Xiao brothers and sisters, it has also spawned more degenerate children, who are either violent or inferior, introverted and full of fear. This is also a problem that has to be faced squarely.