Many parents make a mistake in the process of educating their children, that is, no matter what their children do, parents always like to hit them. This is not right. Why is this wrong? There are several main reasons. First, if you keep hitting your child, the child will become more inferior and have no self-confidence. Secondly, if you often hit your child, it will alienate you and your child, and your child will not share anything with you.

I believe everyone knows that in the process of educating children, we should not always scold and attack them, but always praise them to make them better people. Many parents don't understand why they can't be hit. He may always think that a dutiful son can only be born under a stick, but it is not.

Why didn't you hit the child in the first place? Because children's self-confidence needs parents to establish. Children often hope to get praise and encouragement from their parents after doing something, but if you often attack their children, they will become a very inferior person and have no confidence in doing anything.

Once a person has no self-confidence in doing anything, he is unwilling to try new things. He does not have enough leadership skills, and it is basically impossible for him to become an excellent person in the future. Therefore, in the face of children, you must not hit him, but always praise him.

Secondly, if parents often attack their children, the relationship between parents and children will not be very good, because children don't like being attacked by one person all the time. If you keep attacking him, he will be unwilling to share things with you and stay close to you for a long time, because he is not sure here, so he will not get along with you.

Therefore, if parents want to cultivate a good relationship with their children, don't always beat him, but always encourage him and praise him, so that children will be willing to get along with you.

Besides, why not hit the child? Another reason is that if you often attack your child, the child may be confused about you, because sometimes she can still tell right from wrong. She thinks she did the right thing, but you always attack him and say that he did something wrong, so that children will feel that their parents are incompetent and may question their abilities.

Therefore, based on these points, I don't think we should attack children. If the child does something right, we must encourage her and praise her. Don't always educate your children by hitting them, which will make them feel inferior.