Parents are good at controlling their emotions, so children are not easily infected by bad emotions, and it is not easy to form cowardice, inferiority and bad temper.

Li Qian's mother is very happy every day. In the eyes of her daughter, she is the kindest mother in the world and is willing to tell her everything. Mother is not without troubles, but she thinks that bringing troubles to her children at work will be detrimental to their growth.

When in a bad mood, my mother will chat with colleagues, read books, think about the happy time with her daughter, cry silently, etc., and then go home when her mood is restored.

In order to keep a good mood all day, my mother will prepare breakfast that everyone likes and carefully maintain the happy atmosphere at home; After coming home from work, my mother will prepare a nutritious and delicious dinner, and the family will tell interesting stories while eating.

Every child grows up in constant self-improvement. When children do something wrong, they need their parents' understanding and help most. Never say sarcastic, shocking, insulting or abusive words like "idiot, idiot, worthless, your life is over" in a rage, which will make children more self-destructive. When children behave badly, we must first restrain our anger and ask about their situation.

2. Give children more freedom

Many children lose their temper because their thoughts and practices are not understood by their parents, or their parents interfere with their freedom of movement. If the child loves to lose his temper, parents should check whether their behavior has restricted him too much and hindered the child's growth.

As parents, we must understand that whatever children want to do is a learning process. Children must go through this process in order to exercise their abilities, understand the rules between things and learn to abide by discipline.

3. Teach children how to vent their emotions

There are many ways to vent bad emotions, such as shouting from a distance, playing the piano, singing, walking with good friends, chatting and so on. In addition, children can be encouraged to participate in extracurricular activities or social practice organized by some schools. For the future development of children, we can respect their wishes and choose to cultivate some specialties from their interests.

When children encounter unhappy things, parents had better not disturb them, let alone urge them to do their homework. Because the child can't concentrate on reading and doing homework at this time, he can be advised to do something else for a change. For example, watch TV, listen to music, keep a diary, or read some classic inspirational books, such as Little Prince, Little Devil, Monkey King and Little Red Riding Hood.

Parents should be strong in their children's spirit.

Parents should let their children know that everyone has unpleasant times and parents often have troubles. In this way, parents can avoid preaching and children can listen more easily. .