When we started, he said these extreme words, always trying to refute him, because he felt that whoever heard these words would feel very uncomfortable. But the fact seems to be that the more we refute her, the more vigorously she talks, as if we give her a kind of motivation invisibly.
Therefore, judging from our failed experience, if we want to get along with Spray Zi, we must not say goodbye to her, but when you disagree with her, we'd better find more people to help her analyze rationally and tell her why it is wrong to say so. Of course, this is an attitude towards you who still want to be friends with her. You should learn to put him in other people's shoes. If a person is standing now, spraying her idol for no reason and without foundation, how does she feel inside? I believe that people are not vegetation, who can be ruthless! When she really learns to put herself in others' shoes, she should talk less.
If she is really unreasonable and you can't communicate with her in a rational way, then you can choose to avoid the topic of idols and talk to her as little as possible.
When I was in high school, it was really the time when the stars in Taiwan Province Province of Taiwan Opera were very popular. Many people in our dormitory are from idolize, and of course, they fall when they hold it. At that time, there was a girl in our dormitory who was particularly cynical. All the stars are not pleasing to the eye except her own idol. The most important thing is that she doesn't allow her idol to have a little gossip with the opposite sex. When the scandal comes out, it will definitely spray female stars immediately.
What is the most terrible thing? The most terrible thing is that you and Spray like the same star. Oh, my God, that's a black trick. Very incisive.
None of us dare to say our idol in front of him. If our idols are also her favorite, if their idols are not her favorite, she can spray them with great energy. Later, the only way for us to face her was to mention the topic of stars as little as possible. After all, whether you are your idol or not, you will feel bad to hear others say so.
I remember that there was a fan who especially liked George Hu in our dormitory at that time, and this person was also the biggest sprayer in our dormitory. What impressed me most was the Love Actually series performed by George Hu and Chen Tingni at that time. I forgot whether it was true love in black and white or true love now. Anyway, there was a lot of gossip between the two people at that time, and then he tried to spray Chen Tingni and call him black and ugly or something.
As a huge fan, I naturally want to stop him from blackmailing George Hu. Because the ultimate fans know that as long as this actor has played in the ultimate series, we will regard him as our idol.
It happened that there was a girl in our class who was a small fan of Chen Tingni. That girl is usually quiet and kind to people. He said once or twice before that girls ignored her, but they often sprayed idols in front of others.
Finally, because of her brain-dead behavior, the little girl in our class broke up with her, and everyone in our dormitory is getting farther and farther away from her, because you never know when she will spray others to pieces.
In the face of spray, in fact, we are a little overwhelmed. We can't unite to spray her idol, and we can't communicate with her rationally and normally, so the only way to get along is not to talk or communicate.
Later, it was found that this way of communication was completely inappropriate, because after we snubbed her, she would spray our idol in turn, saying that our idol fans were rude and incompetent, and that they could not stand criticism from others. So we can only choose one way to avoid talking about stars. Even if she talks about this topic, we will change the topic in time and not continue this topic with her.