Family education is a part of life education, human education is a systematic education project, and family education is the foundation of all education. Family is the first place for children to receive education after birth, which is also the first classroom in life. Every parent hopes that their children will make a difference in the future, but the key to making a difference is that parents correctly guide their children and let them grow up healthily. Let me talk about my own practices and superficial experiences in educating children:
First, cultivate good habits and achieve a better life for children.
The power of habit is enormous, which affects our way of thinking and behavior all the time. Most of our daily behaviors are dominated by habits, so it is very important to cultivate children's good habits from an early age. To cultivate children's good habits, I think we should start from the following points:
First, cultivate a good schedule and living habits. Our family has a relatively fixed life schedule, including rest, eating, entertainment, work, study and so on. And life is more regular. I want to promote the formation of children's time concept and lay a solid foundation for the formation of good products that consciously abide by collective discipline and pay attention to social morality in the future. Our family pays more attention to hygiene habits, such as washing hands before and after meals, changing clothes regularly, not spitting, not littering, always keeping clean and tidy, and cleaning the room on time. These good habits will have a good influence on his life, and they are also beneficial and harmless to his life development.
The second is to observe and correct children's bad habits as soon as possible. Children are curious about everything new and possessive. For example, when they see their favorite toys, they can't put them down and always want to take them home and have them forever. Sometimes they unconsciously take other people's things home to play, and he knows it's not good. After discovering the situation, we will tell them some realistic examples, tell them the consequences after doing so, and return them to others in time. My experience in correcting children's bad habits is to point out mistakes in time. Because the growing children's ability to distinguish right from wrong is not strong, if the children make mistakes and don't point them out in time, they will become habits again and again, and it will be too late to change them. Only by pointing out in time, letting children know the consequences of mistakes and helping them get rid of them in time will you get twice the result with half the effort.
The third is to cultivate self-reliance in life. Some children go to middle school and their parents have to wash their socks. The responsibility lies not with their parents. All children's problems are 100% parents' problems. To solve children's problems, we must first find reasons from parents. If you never give your child a chance to learn to wash socks, even if he is an adult, he will think that it is natural for his parents to wash socks. Therefore, he must be allowed to undertake housework within the scope of mechanical ability from an early age. Such as cleaning the dining table, sweeping the floor, brushing the toilet, folding the quilt, etc. After dinner, it is not how much housework is completed, but the key is to let him have this consciousness.
The fourth is to cultivate children's self-study habits. According to the different stages of children's growth, we bought some books suitable for children. For example, San Zi Jing, Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Countries of the Eastern Zhou Dynasty, Water Margin, Grimm's Fairy Tales, 100,000 Why, Five Thousand Years Up and Down in China, chinese national geography, Doctor's Observation Manual and so on. Let him have time to study by himself and increase his knowledge accumulation. After such a long time, children will form a good habit of self-study.
The fifth is to cultivate children's optimistic and happy personality. Optimism is a child's confident and enterprising character for the future. Optimistic personality is a good weapon for children to deal with such adverse events as sadness, misfortune, failure and pain in life. If children can't face life optimistically, they will be depressed and lose confidence in their future ideals. In the long run, they will also damage their health. It is the common wish of our parents to make children optimistic and have a lively and cheerful personality. Cheerful and optimistic children's happiness comes from all aspects, such as: cultivating children's extensive hobbies, playing all kinds of chess, participating in interest classes such as sports, painting and music, but this is based on children's willingness. Parents should pay attention to their children's hobbies, provide them with various interest choices and give them necessary guidance. Children have a wide range of interests and hobbies, and naturally have a happy personality. At the same time, friendship plays an important role in the process of cultivating happiness, so parents should deepen their feelings with their children, encourage their children to play with their peers, and let them learn to interact with others happily and harmoniously.
The sixth is to cultivate children's strong sense of responsibility. Lev tolstoy once said: "Without enthusiasm, a person will accomplish nothing, and the basic point of enthusiasm is responsibility." Sense of responsibility is an important part of personal personality, which can make people strive to improve themselves and promote their progress. A person with a strong sense of responsibility will bravely assume the responsibility to his parents, others and society, and he will do his best to do what he should do. And a person who has no sense of responsibility will evade his responsibilities and obligations, and it is easy to drift with the tide and do nothing. Responsibility can make up for the lack of talent, but talent can't make up for the lack of responsibility. For example, cultivate children's serious and responsible spirit and allow them to make mistakes, but they can't let them shirk their responsibilities, let alone help them find reasons to shirk their responsibilities. Parents don't have to make a fuss about their children's mistakes, let alone take full responsibility. As long as children dare to admit their mistakes, parents should forgive them and praise their responsible spirit. You know, making mistakes is also a compulsory course for children when they grow up. Every time a child makes a mistake and takes responsibility, he will improve himself and mature his personality.
Second, start from small things and educate children to learn to be human.
Children should learn some principles of being a man and doing things from an early age, so that they will not be at a loss in their later lives and do not know how to get along with others better. In the process of children's growth, every truth will have an inestimable impact on their future, and every truth will make children stand firm in such a fast-developing modern society, thus stepping towards success step by step. So I think children should start from small things and learn the truth of being a man and doing things from an early age.
The first is to regulate children's words and deeds. Let children know that rules are everywhere, some rules can guarantee a better life, and ask children to form the habit of obeying them. For example, if someone comes from home, we will educate our children to say "good" first, and then say "goodbye" after the guests leave; Work and rest according to a certain time. It is inevitable that children are immature and eat and wear more than their classmates. We will educate our children not to compare with others and not to wear their brother's old clothes. In the use of money, give him a fixed pocket money on a regular basis and let him arrange it reasonably. By telling children what is right and what is wrong, they can change their minds and learn to behave themselves.
The second is to educate children to learn to love. You should not only love your parents, your teachers, your elders, but more importantly, you should not be paralyzed in the love of others. You don't know that a drop of water should be rewarded with a spring of water. Only those who know how to sow and spread love can be grateful to their children forever.
Knowing that there is love in your heart can make you happy all your life.
The third is to guide children how to communicate and understand the importance of cooperation. Educate children to live in harmony with their classmates, and a good classmate relationship is the guarantee of loving school and learning. You shouldn't learn from three monks and never drink water. We should learn from excellent students, seek their help in difficult times, and put aside personal interests and give priority to team interests when facing personal and collective reputation choices. Especially in the process of interacting with classmates, we should learn to be patient, learn to suffer losses, and learn to help others. For example, in learning, the difficulties students encounter are often their own negligence. If you explain it clearly to your classmates, you can also deepen your impression. Helping classmates means helping yourself, so as to gain good popularity, get help from others and make yourself more successful.
The fourth is to educate children to understand the importance of honesty and modesty. If you don't keep your word, no one will. Honesty is not only honest with yourself, but also honest with others. Keep your promise.
Say what you say, and never forget to say it. Only by being honest and trustworthy can we win the respect of others. Know how to be a low-key person, don't take all the credit on yourself, you know that only modesty can make you progress.
The fifth is to cultivate children's spirit of hard struggle. Some parents think they are behind the times and don't want their children to suffer, so they pay special attention to their children's food, clothing, housing and transportation. Trying to meet children's material requirements will inevitably cultivate children's habit of being lazy and coveting comfort. This is not true love, but hurt. The correct approach should be to "work hard on their minds and bones."
Third, a harmonious family is an important cornerstone for the healthy growth of children.
Motto "If you don't teach, it's your father's fault; if you don't teach strictly, you're lazy". Parents should remember this. Parents, as children's first teachers, are also a mirror, and their behavior has a great influence on children. Therefore, parents should behave appropriately in the family and resolutely abandon some bad hobbies. So as not to affect the healthy growth and study of children. Harmonious family I think we should do the following:
A harmonious and relaxed family atmosphere is very important for children's study. Although our husband and wife are not well educated and our families are not well off, we all try our best to create the best learning environment for our children's future. Spend more time caring about children's study life, meet their reasonable expenses, and often buy him some books and supplies, which is helpful for his study. Supporting him to participate in social welfare activities will help him to establish the belief of being enthusiastic about public welfare from an early age and should be helpful to cultivate his healthy outlook on life. In addition, we should also pay attention to the influence of our words and deeds on children. At home, husband and wife should live in harmony, treat each other as equals, care for each other, trust each other and understand each other. Even if there are contradictions, sit down and discuss them. This can make children know how to love and respect others, thus enhancing self-esteem and self-confidence. Therefore, we have been running our own home seriously, which is good for children and good for couples.
The second is to communicate with children frequently. Usually try to communicate with children and talk about some topics of common interest. Understand the situation of children at school, as long as it does not affect their study, we generally do not interfere with their preferences. Try to satisfy his hobbies if possible, such as table tennis, skating, playing basketball, taekwondo, violin and so on. Fashion and fashion can also be properly understood. Only by cultivating their ability to distinguish and observe things, being friendly to people and applying what they have learned in textbooks to social practice can they truly master what they have learned. Of course, our parents inevitably make mistakes in the process of educating their children. The way we treat our children is simple, sometimes too tyrannical and rude, and we seldom listen to their explanations patiently. Perhaps inadvertently ignored the feelings of children, which is where we need to improve and improve in the future.
The third is to strengthen nutrition and ensure children's physical and mental health. The child is in the period of growth and development. In this process, they need to consume a lot of nutrients. Three meals a day should be constantly changing. Breakfast should be nutritious, and protein, sugar and fat are indispensable, such as milk, soybean milk and eggs. Our parents should try their best to do these things well. You can lead your children to participate in some beneficial outdoor activities on weekends. Such as playing basketball, climbing mountains, etc. When conditions are good, the whole family goes sightseeing in other cities during the holidays, which not only exercises the body, but also helps to broaden the child's horizons, enrich his knowledge and help him understand the feelings of various people. Accept the influence of nature and know the vastness of the world. Understanding the rich connotation of life can also directly provide children with a variety of rich writing materials, so that children can learn things that they can't learn at school. Improve moral cultivation and enrich spiritual life.
The fourth is to care about children's learning and correct bad learning methods. In learning, children will feel inferior if they make slow progress. At this time, parents should not care too much about their children's grades. As long as the child really works hard, don't care too much about what he really can't master. Parents should study together with their children and make progress together. For example, when their children are studying, parents should also read or write materials for them.
The atmosphere of learning. After each exam, open the test paper with your child, analyze every wrong question and summarize the failure experience, so that you won't make the same mistake in the next exam. Only in this way can we have a common language with our children and become real friends.
Fifth, actively cooperate with schools to educate children. We pay more attention to active cooperation with schools and support teachers' work. I know that school education needs the support of family education, so I will seriously cooperate with teachers' requirements, such as school activities. In addition to actively encouraging children to participate, I will never postpone activities that require parents' participation. This not only sets an example for children, but also supports the work of teachers, and also gives children a good learning environment.
Fourth, appreciate education, improve children's self-confidence and set up lofty ideals.
Appreciation is an encouragement for children when they encounter difficulties, a reasonable tolerance for children when they make mistakes, and a driving force for sailing forward in calm days. As the first guide for children, parents should really give them spring-like comfort, not arrogant whips. No child is willing to live up to his parents' expectations. We should encourage, encourage, remind, trust and respect children in our study and life, improve their self-confidence, and make them set up lofty ideals in the process of growing up. To improve children's self-confidence, I think we should start with the following points:
First, encourage and praise children more. I think this is the most important point. Think about ourselves. If we get sincere praise from leaders or colleagues in the unit, we will be very happy and motivated. So are children. We should actively discover their strengths, find their every progress, even small progress, and encourage them in time, so that children will be full of interest in learning and have more confidence. On the contrary, if they are always cynical, they will be afraid of learning, lose confidence and even feel tired of learning. It's no use criticizing at this time, and the child is exhausted. In adolescence, it is more difficult to produce rebellious psychology. Don't blame children for pursuing perfection. After all, children are children. Don't use adult standards to ask children. Think rationally. Should we do better than children when we were young? Don't we like to play, eat snacks and even get into trouble often? Why should we let our children do things that we couldn't do when we were young? We always treat children unintentionally and unequally, always demand children by adult standards, and often ignore children's self-esteem when criticizing. Knowing this, our criticism may be less.
The second is to be patient with children. It takes three generations to make a gentleman. The future of children's growth is bright, but the road is tortuous. Parents are eager for success, but they must be patient enough. Don't lose faith in your children. You should be allowed to repeat, even if you fail the exam temporarily. Nothing is smooth sailing in the world, and so is the growth of children. Give him enough time and space to grow.
The third is to fully trust and respect children. To be a qualified parent, the first thing is to trust and respect children. Even if everyone in the world looks down on my child, we should hug and kiss him and be proud of the life we have created. Don't expect too much from your children. Don't force children to study, achieve and get rewards every day, as long as they try their best. On the basis of his original progress, even a little progress should be praised and encouraged.
Show his potential. Never compare a child's shortcomings with other children's strengths. Respect children's hobbies. Children do many things badly. Parents should be good at helping their children and find the best solution to the problem. Don't scold and curse them, it will make them lose confidence and degrade themselves.
Self-confidence is the cornerstone of children's success in learning and the pillar of success in life. Strong self-confidence will make him self-reliant, brave and indomitable. Self-confidence is not innate, but cultivated through life practice and study. It is necessary to cultivate children's excellent qualities of self-confidence, self-reliance, self-improvement, autonomy and courage. Our parents should pay attention to these aspects of their children from an early age, and work together with them to change their delicate and cowardly personality, cultivate their self-confidence and self-reliance and realize their lofty ideals.
Children are the continuation of parents' lives, and we have the responsibility to educate children and let them grow up healthily. Expect them to live a happy and colorful life ...! ! ! "
Thank you! !
Teaching plan for preventing strangers from being safe 1
Activity objectives:
1, know that you can't leave your teacher or parent