In a patriarchal society, how to break through people's conventional ideas and cultivate two daughters into world-class wrestling champions? What methods are worth learning?
First, parents respect each other and unify their educational ideas.
Although the male-dominated Indian father has absolute authority, Mahavia, the father played by Aamir Hussain Khan, does not act arbitrarily, but discusses his thoughts with the child's mother. In the case of his wife's opposition, he made a compromise and put forward the practice of temporary training for one year, which finally won his wife's consent. Although the wife was disappointed with her daughter afterwards, she also showed her firm support and support for her husband's educational ideas and methods.
Second, education needs the guidance of long-term goals.
Father Mahavia has always had a belief in his heart: to train his children into world wrestling champions and change India's view of women. And always use this belief to guide children. "There will be no tactics tomorrow, and the runner-up will be beautiful tomorrow, but it may soon be forgotten. Only the champion can be remembered and become an example for all Indian girls. Let people know that capable women can do it! "
Especially on the eve of his daughter Gita's coming to the World Championships finals, he said to her: "The silver medal will be forgotten, but the gold medal will not. If you win tomorrow, you won't win alone. Millions of girls like them won with you. All girls who are considered inferior to boys, those who are forced to do tedious housework, and those who are married and have children, tomorrow you will not only compete with Australian players, but also those who despise women. "
Long-term goals will help us give up short-sightedness and quick success; Long-term goals will strengthen our faith in the face of setbacks; Long-term goals can really help children become themselves.
Third, education needs to demonstrate itself and set an example.
Father Mahavia is not only a guide, a coach, but also a sparring partner! He can get up at five in the morning and run with the children. He can wrestle with children when necessary, even if he is old; When laughed at by his neighbors, he can walk down the street with his daughter on his high horse; He can win games for his daughter, franchise cinemas to analyze the strengths and weaknesses of his opponents, and design tactics for his daughter overnight. ...
It was the father's personal demonstration that cultivated the daughters' tough character and perseverance. How many people in our family education can really play a demonstration and exemplary role?