1, parents put themselves in their own shoes and respect their children's ideas. Parents are used to thinking from their own perspective, but they don't take into account what many children have not experienced, so they have no experience. At this time, parents should not easily reject their children's views, and they can also lose their temper at will. Parents can kneel down and negotiate with their children in a friendly way, so that their opinions are fully respected. Parents can tell their children what they think is the disadvantage of doing so and what bad consequences it will bring. Let the children think about whether they must do it first. If the child insists on doing it, try it while ensuring safety. If it is really like what parents say, children will understand why parents don't let them do it. While adding their own experiences, they also know the importance of listening to their parents. In the future, children will consult their parents more and become obedient.
2, don't use the imperative way, in a euphemistic way. Many parents are used to telling their children not to do this and that, because children don't understand, so the more parents don't want to do it, the more they want to try, so parents must pay attention to their own methods. Parents can tell their children how to do it in the form of performances, which is not only lively and interesting, but also makes them more acceptable, or parents can find relevant picture books and tell their children how to do it in the form of picture books.
Children need a lot of time to grow up. At this time, children will have many behaviors that parents don't understand. Parents must stabilize their emotions. It's useless to lose your temper with them, but it will also hurt their feelings with their children and leave them with emotional trauma.