When it comes to reality, we have to talk about the "outdated cases" we have seen and heard. Some friends always ask me if my parents' educational concept is different from that of many years ago. The flow of information is so convenient and rapid, if the cognitive concept is updated quickly, then education will not be the case now.

Therefore, the cruel fact is that the reality has not improved much. People's educational concept is still a simple extension of individualized conclusion.

The mode of education is still "your mode". The purpose of education is "to get into a good university and find a good job." -this is the actual situation of most people, naked face. At present, what you get after 00 is almost the education you received in those years.

The reality is that adults can't admit differences.

From the appearance, this difference may be height and weight; From the inside, it may be personality habits; In the short term, it may be a lack of love and care; In the long run, it may be emotional defects and family of origin's state reproduction.

The first important quality of teaching and educating people or being a parent is the ability to face reality and truth.

Admit that you lack patience and patience, and children have no good role models, which leads to imitation behavior. The trust of society collapsed, and the cognition of minors was extremely divided. How can you blame all this on a minor?

Case 1

Students from a well-known middle school used to be the man of the hour in a well-known primary school. Natural and graceful, handsome. After entering middle school, my grades plummeted. Students don't get along well, crying to call their parents.

Can you infer the reaction of children and parents? Lose confidence? No friends? Catch up? Parental anxiety? Accusations and abuse? You know why? Seeking a famous teacher?

Let's deconstruct the information.

Well-known primary schools refer to the enrollment rate. The enrollment rate means high admission fees, expensive degree rooms or deep social relations. He has this condition and element, which means a good family environment. In the relay race of life, the child's parents laid a lead for him.

Man of the hour means that besides excellent grades, you have to have two or three strengths. Protruding enough to be seen. This major is prominent enough to show that it is not a core competitiveness formed in a short time. It takes at least three years or more, and it takes six years of continuous efforts to acquire "core skills". Persistence and tenacity are one of the essential qualities of a successful person. Children can't persist in painful things for a long time. So let's push back, a six-year-old child, parents must have helped him choose the right project on the basis of respecting his interest.

The child is in excellent physical condition. He studies English, dancing and hosting. Language is one of the most important qualities because one language is the key to another world. Dance is a physical exercise. As an adult, an adult who can relieve stress and comfort body and mind by dancing may be more aware that this skill is not only used in school performances. Hosting is the exercise of expression ability, which includes the integrity of cooperation, logic and background operation.

Natural and graceful, handsome.

What I value or will focus on is "generosity and quality". Generosity is not only an attitude towards material things, but also a supercilious attitude towards others. This is not only the role of parents as role models, but also the result of intentionally guiding him to attend various occasions and live scenes. Take your children to any social occasions as much as possible. Parents set an example to educate their children, and they have good things to share with their good friends. So children will bring the best part to their children. And use it as a benchmark for happiness and behavior.

Quality is the basic empathy and altruism. Knowing that there are different people living different lives in this world, I hope that primary schools and poor mountainous areas will see the hardships of children there and help their mothers to support out-of-school children. Behind this is the goodwill transmission from parents to others. Give love to the children.