1, be yourself. As parents, you have no right to interfere with your children and let them become what kind of people. It's just that children can make some changes on the basis of persuasion, and let them know that gentleness can be done, but weakness is absolutely not. In the face of things, weakness can't solve any problems. You can treat others gently at ordinary times, but when you are bullied, the most important thing is to fight back bravely. Therefore, letting children know that they are all right is only a fly in the ointment, and it is also a kind of respect for children, so that their self-esteem will not be damaged.

2, active guidance, you can give many examples to let children know that such a gentle personality is not good. When we treat others gently, if the other person can't understand you, it may not be good for you in turn. Then, in the face of those who bully you, you should be brave, not weak, but gentle. Besides, boys just need to be braver and more masculine, so as to protect their families and friends, so that after your children listen to you,

3. tenderness is not a weakness. It just means there is no need to be gentle all the time. In the face of difficulties, you can't solve them gently. We can't decide to cultivate our own character, but we can make our children change. As parents, we should encourage children to be brave, not weak, and face any setbacks and difficulties.