In addition, everything in the world is not necessarily completely reasonable and ideal. Even so, we must affirm it before we can change it and accept it before we can have a turn for the better. How can you change it if you are not sure of its rationality? If you reject it and oppose it, it will only make the problem more and more complicated and become a deadlock. The same is true between people. If two people are opposed in language or mentality, it is difficult to break the deadlock. If you affirm some strengths and advantages of the other party, he will take a cooperative attitude towards you immediately. You completely deny him, saying that he is nothing, and he will strongly protect himself, so it is impossible to change and change. Therefore, only by affirming the other party can it change the other party, and accepting the other party can it change the opportunity and hold such an attitude.
In addition, our views on any personnel in the world, Confucianism said "the doctrine of the mean, without exception", Buddhism said "the doctrine of the mean, impartial", which is desirable. It is not advisable to completely deny or think that everything is perfect.
The children are still young, inexperienced and inexperienced. Some of their ideas are actually a transitional stage, and there is no conclusion for him. You can tell him, "Your idea is temporary, allowing you to keep it or change it." You can even say, "We were just like you when we were young, but after all, things have complicated causes, so we should treat them with peace and gentleness." This is more mature and objective. People are not judged by emotions or emotions. As long as it is an emotional judgment, it is definitely inaccurate.