● Sex education in infancy (0-3 years old). During this period, it is mainly the physical contact between parents and children. Through a series of activities such as hugging and bathing, let children feel love and warmth, avoid children suffering from "skin hunger" and take the initiative to contact others.
● Children's sex education (4-5 years old): let children know their own gender and initially enter the gender role. For example, teach boys to pee standing up and sleep separately from their children. At this time, parents should not let their children wear open-backed pants and take boys into the ladies' room. Of course, girls can't go into the men's room.
● Childhood sex education (6- 10 years old). As children enter school, the scope of social knowledge and activities will be further expanded, and more people will be contacted, so parents should further enhance their children's knowledge reserves. For example, tell children not to touch other people's private parts, and don't expose their private parts to others.
● Adolescent sex education (1 1- 18 years old). At this time, the child is in adolescence, because of the development of the body and the role of androgen, the child will have a good impression on the opposite sex, and the phenomenon of puppy love will increase. Therefore, parents must carry out targeted education for their children. Pay attention to the bottom line education for girls and know how to protect themselves. Pay attention to the responsibility education for boys and understand the consequences of all actions.
Tonger, a college classmate, leads an honest and clean life and never went out to live with her boyfriend during her love. Even if she goes out to play, she lives separately and never gets drunk when she drinks, not because she drinks a lot, but because her father gave her a bottom line education when she was in adolescence. Father took her out for a drink and told her that she could drink whatever she wanted. Tonger was so drunk that when he woke up, he didn't know what happened after he got drunk, and he didn't know how much he had drunk. Later, her father told her that she was drunk after only two cups, and she must remember that her bottom line is only two cups in the future. You can have intimate behavior when making a boyfriend, but you can't break up on impulse.
● Sex education in youth (19-35 years old). Mainly to teach the knowledge of family responsibilities, as well as the sexual loyalty between husband and wife and the education of children.
According to research, sexual psychological activity is the most important psychological activity, which is of great significance to a person's physical, psychological and social abilities from childhood to adulthood and even to old age.
Therefore, parents should not think that their children are still young, which has nothing to do with sex education. In fact, many psychologists have talked about the importance of sex education in their research. Parents should not be shy. Regarding sex education, we can give positive guidance at every stage of children's growth according to the above. Only in this way can children form a correct sexual concept and protect themselves without hurting others.
In the morning, my mother came to talk:
A second-born mother who started writing in the early hours of the morning, I wrote down my heart by hand, and every bit was my parenting experience with my child. I hope my parenting experience can bring you some help. (The picture in this article comes from the Internet. If there is any infringement, please contact to delete it. )