Chapter 1: The year-end family summary is short and fleeting, and the years have passed. In the freezing rain, time has stood in 2023. Taking stock of the past year, 2022, there was too much bitterness and distress in this year.
First of all, from 1 month, the original relocation of the old factory officially began, and nearly X employees in the whole factory must make a choice to stay or stay within the time specified by the factory. If I leave, I can get tens of thousands of yuan compensation from the factory, and if I stay, I may be transferred to X headquarters or a new factory, thousands of miles away. Whether I leave or stay, it will be a dilemma. After careful consideration, I gave up the buyout compensation of more than 10 thousand yuan and chose to work in the headquarters. At the beginning of X, I was assigned to the production line as an operator after reporting to the headquarters. Since then, the nature of my work has changed fundamentally. .
What's more, because I work in the East District of X and my lover works in other places, the management of the child who is studying in high school has become the biggest problem. This child is too disobedient. He often sneaks out to surf the Internet while I am at night, and sometimes goes drinking with his classmates. Once, he was as drunk as a fiddler, and his parents took him to the hospital for infusion. At that time, I was working in East X District. After receiving the call, I got off work at 9 pm and finally arrived at the hospital. Seeing the child lying in the hospital bed, my tears came out. The infusion continued until nearly x, and three infusion bottles were lost. I helped my taller son and stumbled out of the hospital gate, ready to take a taxi home. It was the first half of x month, and it was warm and cold at first. It happened that the temperature plummeted that day, and the wind was mixed with raindrops the size of beans, beating his face like a knife. After returning home, I cleaned up the children's filth and clothes and didn't go to bed until midnight. It still hurts to think about it now. As a last resort, I had to let my lover who worked in other places go home, but when I pressed the gourd float ladle, her employment became a long-standing problem after her lover came back, which is still unresolved. It really makes me exhausted, physically and mentally exhausted, and it is difficult to straighten out these tangled knots, which also has a certain impact on my work.
The trouble is far more than that. In the month of X, the children who studied fine arts went to xx for training and joint examination, and returned in the month of X, without success. The other day, when I heard the news that I failed the exam, I only felt a bang in my head. I was at work at that time, and I was too lazy to move in my chair for a long time. Colleagues saw that I was a little out of order, fearing that I would make mistakes in my work, and comforted me for a while. My wife is busy working for others because she has no parents to take care of her. Fortunately, it was easy to go to work at that time, and I basically took care of the children alone. I have put too much effort into my children and placed too much hope on them. My child did badly in the exam, which really hit me hard. These days, I feel like this gloomy weather in winter.
A new atmosphere in the new year, a new starting point in the new year. A friend just left me a message saying that bad news is good news. Thank you for your kind words. I hope everything will be fine in the new year!
Chapter two: A brief summary of the year-end family. I am fortunate to be a family education hotline consultant. The anniversary of the opening of the family education hotline in xx City is approaching. Looking back on the work and study in the past year, I have many feelings:
First of all, the training and guidance of experts gave me a new understanding of family education. As a rural primary school teacher, X years of working experience as a head teacher has made me deeply understand the importance of family education to children's growth. However, the present situation of family education of rural children is the most worrying. It is the unshirkable responsibility of educators and class teachers to arouse rural parents' awareness of family education and help them change and update their concept of family education. Family education is a science as well as an art. As a class teacher, only by constantly learning, enriching one's educational theoretical accomplishment and becoming an expert in family education can one effectively perform the duties of family education guidance. The knowledge training of expert system has enabled me to master the basic knowledge of family education, improve my theoretical literacy and master the skills of communicating with parents. For example, in the communication stage with parents at the parent-teacher conference, when exchanging opinions with parents, I just sat there quietly, smiling and patiently listening to my parents' endless complaints. "Our children will listen to your teacher, and your sentence is more useful than our ten sentences." "Our children are always dawdling in their homework, and they can't finish their homework until very late every day." "Our children are always lost, either the red scarf can't be found or the pencil box is lost." "Our children watch TV as soon as they get home." . After the parents poured out the bitter water in their stomachs, I wrote three big characters on the blackboard, "Why are children like this?" "How did you do it?" "What should I do?" When these three questions were reflected, discussed and communicated by parents again, many parents suddenly realized that it was I who cultivated their children's bad habits, but I didn't set an example. After the parent-teacher conference, many children's behavior habits in my class have changed obviously. I know, it is their parents who change them behind their backs. Parents are children's first teachers and lifelong teachers, which have the most direct and long-term influence on children. Only by communicating rationally and intelligently with parents can we really promote the healthy development of children. Only then did I really understand the artistic value of listening, as a French educator said: "The most difficult and valuable thing in 2 1 century is to silence the teacher."
Secondly, hotline consultation helps others to help themselves.
Every time the bell rings, there is always an inexplicable excitement and excitement. It's exciting to have another chance to practice. I am excited to know if my answer can satisfy the consultant. There is always a sense of accomplishment of "giving a rose and leaving a lingering fragrance in your hand" for the consultation that you think is successful. For dissatisfied consultation, we should constantly reflect, find out the reasons, find out relevant information, accumulate experience and reserve knowledge for future consultation. While helping others, we are growing ourselves.
In fact, the biggest gain is to know so many excellent family education volunteers. I admire the profound accumulation and superb professional ability of expert lecturers. The spirit of young volunteers to study hard and constantly improve their professional quality is worth learning. Every business study and teaching and research activity is a process of dialogue with the wise, which has benefited me a lot. Family education volunteer team is like a big family, which is condensed into a huge magnetic field with its great fraternity and wisdom, attracting every pioneer who is interested in family education. Learning and growing up in this big family is my greatest happiness, and it is my greatest wish to contribute to the great and lofty cause of family education.
Chapter 3: A brief summary of the year-end family. At the end of the year, looking back on the past year, our family of five spent it in joy and peace. It is the present situation of our family to gather less and leave more. In the current favorable situation of reform and opening up, in order to increase the family's economic income and let the whole family live a better life, my wife and I stick to our jobs in the city.
First, the family's economic income and expenditure are stable
In 2022, the gross domestic product reached a new high, an increase of X percentage points over last year. Total household consumption increased slightly compared with last year, accounting for x% of total household income. The prices of daily necessities and food are stable, but this year, the property market is picking up, and rents are also rising, up by x% compared with last year. Families buy bulk commodities including private cars and notebooks. Since there is an "urban wind" two-wheeled electric vehicle, there is no need to squeeze buses during rush hours. In order to keep up with the trend of the times and keep pace with the times, we spent a lot of money to buy a home notebook computer. From then on, we can surf the Internet easily at home. Family net income is basically the same as last year, with x% deposited in the bank, x% for "raising funds", x% for borrowing, and x% for future use.
Second, grateful parents miss their daughters.
Thanks to our elderly parents for their care and support! You are diligent in managing the housework and always think of us. The responsibility of taking care of her daughter falls on her parents. Your daughter is healthy, smart and sensible, and she studies hard. It is inseparable from your usual meticulous care for her. You are reluctant to part with two acres of barren land, regardless of old age and infirmity, still doing heavy farm work in the field. ......
Most of the communication with my daughter is on the phone, and the conversation lasts about x minutes every year. On X, X, 2022, my daughter was once again rated as "three good students". In X, 2022, you and grandma came to Shanghai to reunite with us and had a happy and unforgettable summer vacation. X, in 2022, this is a memorable day, and my daughter has since entered the girlhood. You didn't panic when menstruation came, because we were by your side. We can easily talk to you about the knowledge of physical hygiene.
In order to stimulate domestic demand and promote consumption. During the Mid-Autumn Festival holiday, my wife and I decided to go back to our hometown. This trip accounts for about X of the total family income, mainly used for holiday gifts, cash delivery, bus tickets and so on.
Third, couples strive to realize their dreams.
At the beginning of the year, my wife changed her job. Affected by the financial tsunami in 2022 and the implementation of the supporting projects of the xx World Expo. My wife's former employer moved to a remote suburb. I have to find another job because it is inconvenient to go to work. Soon after, my wife finally found a satisfactory job under the recommendation of her colleagues, and her annual income was the same as last year. I am serious and responsible for my work. I have performed well in the past year, without any quality and safety accidents, and won the trust of the leaders. At the end of the year, I finally got the company's first salary increase, with a salary increase of x%.
In order to respond to the call of the country, implement prenatal and postnatal care, complete our family plan last year and realize our family dream. In October, my wife and I carried out the project of creating human beings, which was a gratifying move. We once again sow the seeds of love, looking forward to, waiting for, and harvesting the fruits of our love in 2022.
Chapter IV: Year-end Family Summary Briefing In the past year, under your direct leadership, under the wise guidance of your parents-in-law, under the collective care of my eldest sister-in-law and uncle, and according to your instructions and your deployment, I worked hard, worked hard and made positive progress, and achieved remarkable results in various family work. According to statistics, by the end of last year, the bank's bank deposits, stock market value and fixed assets had increased by x%, x% and x% respectively over the previous year, exceeding the target of "the increase of the three indicators should reach x%" set at the beginning of last year. At the same time, our family was rated as "five good families" by this hutong, "the most competent husband" by this corridor, and you were gloriously elected as "the happiest wife", realizing material civilization and spiritual civilization.
My work in the past year is summarized as follows.
First, focus on "serving the wife" and do a good job in daily family work. I mainly achieved "three responsibilities", one is the daily diet of my family. I will buy food and cook on weekdays and improve food on holidays, and I will do it myself; I will always prepare my wife's favorite snacks; Madam, dessert is delicious after dinner, I promise; My wife's pet, Jing Baer, "Tong Tong", I feed her every day. Through one year's efforts, I have successfully transformed the seven things "playing the piano, playing chess, painting, calligraphy and poetry" before marriage into today's "daily necessities and vinegar tea". The second is the daily hygiene of all-in-one families. Washing clothes, bask in the quilt, I do my duty; I am duty-bound to clean the window and mop the floor; My job is to help my wife make up and bathe Tong Tong. The third is the daily maintenance of the all-in-one family. Change the light bulb, repair the water tank, I charge ahead; I have no regrets about moving gas and furniture; Massage my wife and take Tong Tong to the doctor, especially make me feel comfortable. Careful care finally paid off, and my wife praised me and said that Xiao Shao was really like a dedicated Little Swan. I was ecstatic and reverently replied: I live at home and rely on my wife.
Second, around the "wife's will", do a good job in family economic construction. In the past year, I earnestly carried out my wife's important instructions of "improving the family economy" made at the beginning of last year, took effective measures, intensified my work and paid close attention to economic construction, and finally made a difference. The three economic indicators of the family have all increased significantly over the previous year. My main method is:
1, strictly abide by financial discipline. Last year, I faithfully implemented the policy of separating income from expenditure, that is, I paid all the main income such as wages and bonuses, and then returned my pocket money to my wife. The rest of the sideline income is included in the management of extra-budgetary funds and reported to the wife for approval. In the past year, due to my strict financial discipline, I didn't intercept or misappropriate, spend money indiscriminately, conceal my income and set up a small vault, which further consolidated my wife's position as the master of family financial power, standardized the management of family income, and used it for special purposes.
2, strict personal savings, pay attention to self-help. In the past year, I quit smoking, drinking, drinking tea, eating snacks and entertaining guests. In short, I keep my personal expenses to a minimum and have extra pocket money every month. I saved some time to buy some jewelry and clothes for my wife, which not only increased the family's fixed assets, but also brought surprises to my wife, killing two birds with one stone.
3. Actively explore the development of road to riches. First, give full play to one's own strengths, write without modification, and contribute to newspapers and magazines to earn manuscript fees. The second is to deeply understand the main points of "mahjong winning money", master the skills of winning money, make small bets with colleagues and relatives, win more and lose less, and you will lose if you gain. Third, painstakingly study the methods of stock trading and apply for special funds from my wife to join the stock market. The primary market is waiting for him, and the secondary market buys low and sells high, making a lot of money in a year.
Third, based on "wife's preference", do a good job in family stability and unity. In the past year, I have been taking "my wife's preferences" as the standard, listening to my wife's words and everything, constantly standardizing my behavior and enhancing family stability and unity, mainly including:
1, I used to smoke two packs a day, and my wife hated it. Early last year, I made up my mind and vowed to quit smoking. Now that I'm addicted to smoking, I can light a mosquito-repellent incense at most and smell it, so I can satisfy my craving.
The year before last, I visited my parents more than once, and my wife was unhappy. Last year, I actively rectified and corrected the deviation with practical actions. According to statistics, by the end of last year, I visited my parents twice, with a total time of X minutes and a total filial piety of X yuan.
Over the past year, although some achievements have been made in presiding over the daily work of the family, there is still a big gap from the requirements of the wife, such as: the subjective initiative of the work needs to be strengthened, and the work is not forward-looking; There is still fear of difficulties at work. In the new year, I will overcome my shortcomings and develop my advantages. On the basis of consolidating last year's achievements, I will make further progress and make our family's living standard higher and higher, and the love between husband and wife will last forever.
Chapter 5: Summary of Year-end Family Introduction Family is the cradle of children's life, and parents are the hands pushing the cradle. In a sense, the future competition is not so much the competition of children as the competition of parents. In order to improve parents' literacy and quality of family education, Guanghua Kindergarten has implemented a harmonious family education project and done a lot of publicity and training. The work is summarized as follows:
First, improve the organizational structure of the harmonious family family education project, hold regular family education work meetings, and carry out the work in an orderly manner.
Second, organize a lecture in parents' school to arouse parents' awareness of attaching importance to family education and guide parents to effectively carry out family education.
Third, continue to carry out the activity of "reading a good book" and recommend family education textbooks as reference books for teachers in all classes, so that teachers can intuitively understand the effects and methods of family education guidance and make a good knowledge reserve for better guiding parents. The kindergarten equipped the teacher with X books.
Four, our park uses large-scale garden activities such as parent-teacher conferences, open days and children's days to vigorously carry out family education publicity and guidance. Up to now, X posters have been posted, more than X leaflets have been distributed, and X questionnaires on parents' training needs have been designed and distributed.
Five, the establishment of the class parent committee, held a meeting to issue certificates to the members of the class parent committee, and organized parents to exchange family education experience and talk about ideas.
6. Carry out the activity of "Love Books Wandering", circulate among parents of all classes in kindergarten, and complete the homework list of "growing up with children". At present, more than X parents have read books and nearly X parents have finished their homework. Recommended to parents on the principle of voluntary return, parents X bought X books this semester.
Seven, kindergarten blog, class blog, as the position of family education propaganda and guidance, establish a family education guidance log, recommend valuable articles, feedback children's information in time, and communicate with parents. Kindergarten blogs and class blogs have published more than X family education logs, and parents have also actively left messages.
Eight, in order to expand the publicity of family education, let more parents know, and let parents know the details of related activities carried out by kindergartens, our garden has specially set up a family education column and produced a family education publicity page.
Nine, the kindergarten held a commendation meeting for the family education work in the whole park on X day, and strongly commended the parents who actively participated in the family education study, the outstanding parents of family education, and the classes with outstanding family education work.
Considering that some families don't have computers, we sent more than X menus to families without computers.
Eleven, give full play to the role of family education instructors, and guide teachers to use blogs and xx groups to guide classes to carry out family education guidance.
Twelve. Participate in family education consultation activities in primary schools and kindergartens in xx District, and consult with parents face to face. Through this activity, it is not only a large-scale publicity and guidance for family education, but also makes the family education guidance city in our garden experience the happiness of being a family tutor, sharing worries for others and helping others solve problems for children and parents.
Summary of the latest family personal work 4. Family education is an important aspect of educating students and an organic part of the whole national education. Family education has the characteristics of early, pertinence and continuity. Family education plays a vital role in the cultivation and formation of students' non-intellectual factors such as behavior, habits, personality and emotion.
First, listen carefully and teach family education knowledge.
We earnestly run parent schools, help parents master socialist educational objectives and related educational theories, and bring scientific education knowledge to thousands of households. This year, we have run two classes for parents, and each class has set four goals: determining the content, fixing the time, fixing the teachers and fixing the teaching plan. Two hours each time, the teaching content appears in the form of special lectures. Combined with the characteristics of first-year students, we talked about two important contents, namely, the physical and psychological characteristics of primary school students, forming habits and paying attention to safety. It can be combined with the reality of students and the current situation of family education, which is realistic and targeted and is well received by parents.
Second, targeted activities.
Parents and students communicate with the class teacher about their children's recent student life, and even have discussions and activities with their children in class, which not only enhances the understanding of parents and teachers, but also further strengthens the relationship between parents and children, making the work of parents' school fruitful.
Third, summarize and commend outstanding students.
In the school activities, I have received strong support from many parents. To this end, parents' schools should commend outstanding parents and students every academic year, and commend parents who are particularly enthusiastic, concerned and supportive of school work.
Fourth, do a good job in the archives work of parents' schools.
We attach great importance to the archival work of parent schools, including the list of parent committees and the list of students in parent schools. Every parent-teacher meeting is recorded, and every parent-teacher meeting must fill out a record form, which contains the contents of the teacher's speech and the attendance of parents.
Five, do a good job in parents' schools, and promote the improvement of school education quality.
Our parents' school insists on classes and activities, and parents actively participate in study and discussion, so that parents can improve their understanding of family education, correct their educational ideas, improve their educational methods, optimize the family education environment and improve the educational effect, which not only promotes the healthy growth of children, but also optimizes the educational environment and promotes the improvement of school education quality.