1, parent-child communication. This is the most fundamental. There may be a generation gap between many parents and children, and they can't figure out what their children are thinking. But as a parent, have you really communicated with your children? Don't oppress children by saying you are an old man or something. This is the last thing children like. You should communicate with children like friends. Respect the parents of children, don't always stare at their weaknesses, and don't compare their shortcomings with the strengths of other children. When in contact with children, parents should try their best to find the advantages of children and encourage them to reduce their resistance to parents.

2. Learn to really care about your children. If you really care about your child, you should be able to empathize with the child, always pay attention to the child's feelings, remember the child's birthday, remember the day when the school held the parent-teacher meeting, give the child a corresponding drum if you do well in the exam, encourage the child if you don't do well in the exam, and never blame the child too much. If you do something wrong, you should correct it and guide your child correctly.

Don't always oppose what children want to do. Some parents always treat their children as children. Don't do it, don't do it. For example, they want to watch TV after finishing their homework. As parents, they should not object. This is also the relaxation space that children need. If you tell him not to read, he will read in his room or something. Reluctantly, he went back to his room, but would he watch it carefully? It's no use at all. Just let him relax. After relaxing, he will naturally go back to study hard.

4. The influence of family and the inspiration of parents. Parents should set an example. The role of parents directly affects children's mental health. Parents must reflect on their personal lifestyle and attitude towards life, pay attention to correcting their bad personality and provide healthy things for their children at any time. Establish a harmonious and happy family atmosphere.