When developing children's early intelligence, parents should talk to their children more, tell them where they went and what they saw, and at the same time inspire them to speak and express, so as to improve their language ability. We should use books to develop children's intelligence, cultivate children's observation and improve their imagination; Children are allowed to play with sand and water, because it is an important means to develop their intelligence. In short, for children's early intellectual training, we should integrate into life, entertain and educate, and tap the factors available around us. Parents should concentrate on teaching, but they should not force their children to study hard. We should consider their characteristics, proceed from their development and reality, and let children learn naturally and interest in learning. There is an old saying in China, at the age of three, you are old at the age of seven. Emotional intelligence and IQ are cultivated from childhood, not overnight. Therefore, as parents, it is a long way to go to cultivate children's high emotional intelligence and high IQ. Parents are very happy that their children can make extraordinary progress in one aspect, but it will be their great luck if they have both. As long as they can seize the opportunity, they will certainly achieve something. Therefore, while we continue to pay attention to whether children's lives are superior, whether they are smart and whether they are excellent in learning, we should also pay great attention to some normal emotions of children, such as sense of responsibility, sense of cooperation, sense of responsibility and social skills, so that they can go hand in hand and promote their all-round development.