1, mutual humility, mutual understanding, children don't quarrel at the scene. Parents' emotions are very infectious to children, and parents' emotions have a direct effect on the formation of children's personality. A harmonious family gives children psychological stability and enhances their happiness in the family, which is very important for their physical and mental health.
2. Don't lie to children. As the old saying goes, "He is upright. If he has an order, he will do it.": His body is not right, although he disobeys. "Without proper behavior, parents can't exercise their right to education. When children grow up, every move, word and deed of parents have a subtle influence on their character and moral development. Children are actually the epitome of parents' conduct, and parents are his role models for growth. Don't lie to children, but let them establish the consciousness and concept of honesty. Parents should try their best to fulfill their promises to their children. Even if they don't, they should apologize to their children and explain the reasons. For the phenomenon of children lying, we should eliminate children's concerns through conversation, let them realize the harm and consciously put an end to this phenomenon.
3. Keep close relationship with children and create a good family environment. Love is an instinct and the basis of other emotional consciousness. Children are naturally dependent on their parents. Parents should maintain this affection through activities, games and topics with their children after work. The purpose is to create a good family environment, so that children can feel the warmth of family and enjoy the happiness brought by family.
4. Try to answer the questions raised by children. The process of reply is to respect him and treat his performance fairly, and it is also the best way to cultivate and consolidate children's habit of seeking knowledge and exploring. For children who usually like to ask questions, try to care for their curiosity, pay attention to timely guidance, and teach children to use the Internet, books and other ways to solve problems.
5. Welcome children to visit. With the growth of age, children will also have their own good friends. On this issue, we should respect the children's opinions, because he is also a major member of the family and is equal to his parents in personality. When he invites friends to his home, as a parent, he should hold a welcome attitude and respect the reasonable opinions put forward by his children. In this way, children will regard their parents as big friends, so that parents can be more effective in family education.
6, pay attention to observe and praise the advantages of children, do not overemphasize the shortcomings of children. Children will have such advantages and disadvantages when they grow up. My point is to enlarge the advantages and narrow the disadvantages. Everyone knows the importance of encouragement, praise, patience and meticulousness. Therefore, it is particularly important to always remind yourself that in the face of children's mistakes, don't treat them with enthusiasm at will, just deal with them simply. Otherwise, parents will add a new record to their "shortcomings library" while reprimanding their children.
The concept and practice of family education, in the above article, I have brought the finishing for the students. If you can firmly remember our knowledge, you can easily help children learn about education.