Repressive education has done great harm to children, greatly hurting their self-esteem and destroying their enthusiasm for self-improvement and continuous progress. Children are spiritual since childhood, and each child's personality characteristics are different. Parents should teach students in accordance with their aptitude, don't impose their will on their children, and encourage and praise them more. Even if children make mistakes occasionally, they should help them find the reasons for their mistakes and help them correct them. As long as you change, you are a good boy. Therefore, to be an excellent person, we must first have a harmonious and happy family, a democratic and harmonious family, and a considerate and polite parent. Therefore, parents play an important role in a family, which is very important. The way your father raised you must be incorrect. You should point it out to his face. First of all, you should correct your father's wrong ideas and let him know that children should grow up healthily, not by suppressing abuse. I wish your father can realize his own problems and correct them as soon as possible. You have a harmonious family and a happy family.