In the process of children's growth, parents always have a place for their children to toss. Because you never know what your child will say and do in the next second, which will make you very angry. There are always times when we doubt ourselves: "Did these words really come from my mouth?"

Even more amazing, you will find that these words were often heard from your parents when you were young. In fact, don't think that the only child is easy to make mistakes. In fact, adults are prone to make mistakes. Look at the "stupid words" that parents often say.

Think about the "stupid words" that mom and dad often say.

1. "We can't do it, son. It's up to you! "

Taking children's development as their own hope is a sign of self-loss. Such parents tend to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and in the end they will be thankless. Although the sense of self-loss is common among parents, it is not a healthy psychology.

2. "We'll see."

In fact, many children can understand this sentence. If parents say this, it is basically "I don't agree with what you said, but I can't think of a good reason yet." Therefore, parents should reject their children with another better reason.

"If you don't put these toys away, I'll throw them away."

Many parents have said this, but few people will throw away expensive toys. Over time, this kind of education can not only solve the problem, but also make your words less believed by children.

4. "Bite your finger again, and it won't grow up in the future."

This is not going to happen. But every time a child does something he doesn't want to see, parents will talk to him like this. When children are doing other things, they may turn "biting their fingers" into anything you don't like.

5. "If I say no, I can't."

The consequence of bullying people in one sentence is that they are afraid of being unconvincing. Parents should learn to respect their children's choices, learn to discuss with their children, listen to their suggestions, and teach them patiently instead of threatening them blindly.

6. "How can I have a child like you?"

These angry words, uttered in the mouth of angry parents, are almost minutes. Think about how many things in this world are easy to get back at one time.

When a child makes a mistake, parents should first reflect on whether they didn't realize it or whether the child made a mistake on purpose, so as to attract parents' attention and attention. Instead, label the child with disgust or violence, and then push him to the point of no return.