Every mother in charge will have certain tricks to treat her children. I think Hooke's success is not the way to educate her children, but her own emotional intelligence. Seeing that mother is superman, we will point fingers at other people's educational ideas, precisely because each mother has different emotional intelligence, different ways to get along with children and different ability to deal with problems. Hook is recognized only because she is the most grounded of the other mothers. In short, it is the closest way to our parenting, and of course there will be some mixed behaviors. Hook has great wisdom in dealing with two children and conflicts between them. Her high EQ will exert a subtle influence on children's EQ.