Simply letting children obey will make them lose their opinions. Young and frivolous should have some sharpness. The child is very young. Why should he blindly obey? If a child makes a mistake in principle, he can be reminded to correct it. If the child doesn't make a mistake, some small things can be ignored and there is no need to make him obey. After a long time, the child will become particularly excellent, and if he wants to rely on others everywhere, others will become the people who control him. After a long time, children will lose themselves, and such children will live very tired when they grow up.
To make children obey is to limit their freedom, and children will lose their sense of competition. Grandma told her child to obey, and the idea she instilled in her child was to make him a good baby. Grandma will be happy if the child is a good baby. After a long time, children will observe words and deeds and become a pleasant child. Children please others everywhere, and they will lose themselves if they cater to others. He just wants to please others, but he doesn't know how to please himself or how to work hard. After a long time, children just want to sit on the side of the road and applaud others, and they don't want to participate in the competition, so they lose their sense of competition.
Children with flattering personalities suffer a lot and have no independent thoughts. A child with a pleasant personality, his mind is to please others and give all the good things to others. In order not to make others sad, he would rather make himself sad. After a long time, he will be unbalanced and feel wronged. He has no independent thoughts and always revolves around others, so the flattering child is very poor and doesn't know what he wants. When educating children, don't let them blindly obey, but encourage them to stick to themselves. As long as they are right, they should stick to it.