The first example of educational failure
The first teenager, Jia Ming, 16 years old. He's almost a freshman, and he's suspended from school 1 month. I am addicted to the internet and want to be a wandering singer.
Jia Ming's father, private enterprise manager, bachelor degree. In the interview, my father mentioned his feelings of hard struggle: before and after going to college, I didn't drink a glass of milk and didn't wear a pair of leather shoes. The economic conditions were not very good and life was very bitter. But I keep telling myself in my heart that everything will be fine as long as I work hard.
Dad wants to pass on his life creed of struggle and persistence to his children. When Daming proposed to be a wandering singer and backpacker, dad insisted on "correcting" the children. Think that learning is the only way out.
The second example of educational failure
The second teenager, Zhao Zhang, 18 years old, senior three, puppy love, dropped out of school for 4 months, and kicked his parents out of the house.
Zhao Zhang's father is a state-owned enterprise worker and a junior college student.
In the conflict with his parents, Zhao Zhang tried to commit suicide and jump off a building many times.
In the face of reporters, Zhao Zhang said this:
"They (parents) usually say that he dare not do what you want him to do. In fact, every time he said this sentence, he said,' You jump, you let him jump. Do you think he dares?' Every time he finished this sentence, I thought, if I go home again, I will be a grandson. "
He said: "The reason why I don't go to school is not because I have a girlfriend, nor because I can't adapt to the high pressure of school. I just release all my emotions. "
But Zhao Zhang's father didn't want to believe his son's reasons. "Zhao Zhang is doing well in life, study and other aspects. Since the discovery of puppy love, the distance between us has suddenly opened. "
In Zhao Zhang's memory, my father seldom laughed. "He quarrels when he is with my mother, and watches TV when he is with me."
The third example of educational failure
The third teenager is called Zeqing, 14 years old, a junior two student, who dropped out of school for two months.
Zeqing's mother, medical worker, undergraduate. Zeqing's father, an employee of a public institution, has a bachelor's degree. Zeqing's grandfather and grandmother are both retired professors of Hubei University. As the documentary specifically shows-his family has made considerable achievements in society.
However, the relationship between Zeqing's parents and husband and wife is not very harmonious. They often tell Zeqing that the family has no money and is poor. Zeqing doesn't make money if he doesn't go to school. He wants to motivate Zeqing to study hard.
The fourth example of failure:
The fourth family, the hero is Yang Xia, 25 years old, a shipyard worker, unemployed. Stay at home, don't go to work, don't talk about girlfriends, surf the internet for a long time, and are not interested in anything.
Xia yang's father is an ordinary migrant worker and his mother is a nanny. The way dad loves his children is to go out to work to earn money and give them better conditions when they are young.
Xia yang's father put forward a difficult problem: "I am from the countryside. In order to make money, I have to leave my children and let them stay." But those parents, they all have units and titles. If I have these conditions, my children should be well educated, but I don't understand why their children have become like this. "
I believe everyone who has seen this documentary will have the same idea as me. All these "problem children" with different situations have one thing in common-the family education model needs to be improved.