Examples of Modern Celebrities Educating Children
First, Liang Qichao: Carefully teach your son to be handsome.
Liang Qichao and his teacher Kang Youwei advocated political reform and reform in the Qing Dynasty. He is the leader and scholar of the modern reformists in China. His works involve politics, economy, philosophy, history, language, religion, culture and art, writing and phonology. , and was incorporated into the "Collection of Ice Room". As a father, Liang Qichao paid attention to comprehensive and meticulous parenting and guided nine children in family education? Mo Wen gains something, but asks about self-cultivation? Make them all eager to learn and all pillars of the country. Three of them are academicians of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, as well as social activists, patriotic officers and veterans of the New Fourth Army. Is it really the A Liang family? Full of handsome guys? !
In China in the 1920s, Liang Qichao always paid attention to the children's future with his superhuman wisdom, extensive knowledge and excellent vision, and set an example. He carefully cultivated every beloved child, not only to cultivate them into learned people, but also to cultivate them into people with noble morality and usefulness to society. ? The human spirit? Liang Qichao, as a patriotic thinker, pays attention to cultivating children's patriotism.
When children were young, he often asked them to sit around a small round table, drinking wine happily and telling stories of patriotic heroes in Chinese and foreign history vividly. Through face-to-face talks and letters, he conveyed his friendship to the children, discussed state affairs and philosophy of life with them on an equal footing, expounded the attitude and methods of doing research, and also poured out the joys and sorrows of life to them, integrating the truth of being a man into it. He warned his children that if they were born in troubled times, they would have to suffer a little to stand up (in fact, more than troubled times). A person's material enjoyment is enough as long as he can maintain his life. As for happiness or not, it is not materially controllable. It is really an abacus to find happiness in suffering. ? He is strict with himself: I often feel that I should take myself as a model of youth personality, or at least be worthy of being a model of your sisters and brothers. ?
Interest is the best teacher. Liang Qichao put special emphasis on fun education in his Godson. He said in the article "Interest in Learning":? Ordinary people always have to live in fun, and life is valuable. If you look sad for decades, life will become a desert. What's the use? He respects children's individuality and voluntariness, carefully grasps the characteristics of each child, teaches students in accordance with their aptitude, and encourages children by opening a lock with a key? When the interest turns to a new aspect, it feels like a new life, such as ascension, such as the emergence of a new lotus? I don't want you to learn from my shortcomings, but at least I want you to learn from my strengths? .
1927 In August, his second daughter, Si Zhuang, had been studying at McGill University in Canada for one year. It was time to choose a specific major. Considering that modern biology was still blank in China at that time, Liang Qichao hoped that she would study this major. Out of respect for his father's opinion, Zhuang chose biology. However, because of the poor biology teaching in McGill University, she was very upset and told her eldest brother Sicheng about it. Liang Qichao was deeply sorry and uneasy about his guidance after learning about it, so he quickly wrote to Si Zhuang. Encouraged by his father, Si Zhuang changed to library science and eventually became a famous library scientist in China.
Liang Qichao not only paid attention to educating children with his own words and deeds, but also paid attention to hiring tutors to train children. After 1924, Liang Qichao's four sons, Si Da, Si Yi and Si Ning, grew up gradually, while their brothers and sisters Si Shun Cheng Si Si Si Si Yong Si Zhuang No.4 Middle School went abroad to study, and only they lived beside their father and in the residence of the Italian Concession in Tianjin.
In order to enrich their children's knowledge of Chinese studies and history, from the second half of 1927, Liang Qichao hired xie guozhen, a student from Tsinghua University Institute of Chinese Studies, as a tutor and set up a cram school at home. The class is held in the study room of the ice room, and the courses include Chinese studies: from the Analects of Confucius and Zuo Zhuan to the ancient prose, some famous works and Tang poems. Write a short essay every week or half a month, copy it down with a small brush and hand it in. History: From ancient times to the late Qing Dynasty, teachers focused on learning. Calligraphy: Copy official rubbings and write two or three big characters every day. Rest for half a day every week. After more than a year's study, several brothers and sisters have greatly improved their Chinese studies and historical level.
Liang Qichao teaches children? Mo Wen gains something, but asks about self-cultivation? , in fact? Heaven rewards diligence? Those who work hard will always get something. Liang Qichao made great efforts to teach his children carefully, in exchange for the fruits of the success of all nine children. Among them, Liang Sicheng, the eldest son, is a famous architect in China and a member of the technical department of Chinese Academy of Sciences, and Liang Siyong, the second son, has become a famous archaeologist in China and deputy director of the Institute of Archaeology of Chinese Academy of Sciences. Even Liang's youngest son has become a rocket expert and a leading figure in contemporary China's missile control system, and has been elected as an academician of the International Academy of Astronautics, an academician of the China Academy of Sciences and a vice-chairman of the International Astronautical Federation? Yeah, where did you grow up? Full of handsome guys? For the children of this family, his father Liang Qichao is indeed? Father loves like a mountain? Ah!
Second, Lu Xun: Understand children, understand children.
Because Lu Xun is good at writing essays, all his jokes and curses become articles. Some people think that he is honest, serious and impersonal. In fact, Lu Xun has both? Looking at a thousand fingers coldly? The other side, too? Bow your head and be a willing ox? On the other side. In his family, he is a generous husband and a loving father. Thanks to Lu Xun's fatherly art education method, Yinghai finally became a talent.
Lu Xun had a son in his later years and naturally loved him. Lu Xun devoted all his fatherly love to the sea. Every night from 12 to 2 am, he must go upstairs gently to check the sleeping situation facing the sea and help cover the quilt. Play with the child when he has enough sleep, pick him up when he is tired and send him to sleep with a lullaby. Lu Xun stayed up all night when his child was ill. As Xu Guangping, Lu Xun's wife, said: He tried his best to share the responsibility of being a father as much as possible. ?
With the growth of Yinghai, Lu Xun chose to take him to the movies. Lu Xun often takes children to watch movies that are beneficial to their physical and mental health, such as Son of Mount Tai, Mickey Mouse and World Scenery. Once, at dinner, Yinghai heard that she was famous all over the world? Seascape waves? When the circus came to Shanghai to perform, it danced with joy. However, considering that most circuses are for wild animals, and afraid of being scared before going to bed at night, Lu Xun finally didn't take him to see them. Yinghai wept bitterly for this. Lu Xun patiently explained the reason to him the next day, and promised to accompany him to see it during the day without looking for opportunities. Lu Xun recorded this in his diary on1October 20th. 1933:? In the afternoon, Guangping and Yinghai and I went to Haijingbo Zoo. ? This incident left a deep impression on Yinghai, and whenever it was mentioned in the future, Yinghai said emotionally. My father's sincere love for me made me realize how to be a good father. ?
Lu Xun regards children as the future of the nation and the hope of the country, and strongly opposes two traditional wrong education methods: one is the rude method of subjugating the country, which makes children submit to Nuo Nuo, humble, dull and dull-eyed, while parents are euphemistic? Be obedient? I thought you were a success in education, but when these children grow up, they will be like a bird out of the cage, never flying or jumping. ? The other way is to pamper it, let it be domineering, let it go with the flow, and let the children become unrestrained? Little bully? Give whatever you want until you leave society. Like a spider that has lost its web, it has no ability at once. ?
Lu Xun advocated that children should know their inner world and their hobbies. He once said: the world of children is completely different from that of adults; If you don't understand it first and do it blindly, it will seriously affect your child's development. ? One day, Lu Xun invited a friend to dinner at home. A plate of fish balls is placed on the table and a small plate is placed in front of the sea. He tasted one for the first time and found it was not fresh, so he said the food was bad. Everyone picked it from the big market and tasted it. They all said it was fresh, thinking that it was a child shouting blindly, so they ignored him. However, Mr. Lu Xun attached great importance to the children's opinions and picked some dishes from the sea and tasted them. Sure enough, the taste changed, and he quickly spit them out. Lu Xun said:? There must be a reason why the child said it was not fresh. It's wrong to erase it without checking it. ?
Third, Chen Jingrun: Let the child's personality stretch freely
Chen Jingrun is not only a genius in mathematics, but also has unique ideas in educating children.
The son's name is Chen Youwei. ? Chen Youwei? The name was given by Chen Jingrun. It is his and his wife's respective surnames, and Wei hopes it can make great contributions to mankind. Chen Jingrun is also ambitious.
Chen Jingrun's method of cultivating his only son is to treat his son democratically. Family democracy, father-son democracy, mother-child democracy, let the child grow up freely and make his way of thinking more individual. Chen Jingrun believes that children can only be successful if they have personality, and artists, politicians and scientists all succeed by the development of personality.
Chen Jingrun hopes that his son will become a scientist in the future. Chen Youwei is born smart. Whenever he picks up a toy, he dissects it strangely-take it apart to see it clearly. A toy costs tens of dollars, and a mother will pull her face down and severely criticize her son. At this time, Chen Jingrun always stood beside his son cheerfully and said, It is good for children to be curious. His ability to take apart toys proves that he is curious and can study problems. It is right for his parents to support him. ?
After my son went to primary school, he often talked with Chen Jingrun about his own affairs, study, work or communication with his classmates. Chen Jingrun listened carefully, and then praised or criticized and corrected the children. Soon, he gained the trust of his children and became friends with his son.
Chen Jingrun believes that the education and cultivation of children should vary from person to person, and the ways and means of education should be different under different environments and personalities. This is what makes this world-famous mathematician different.
Now his son is about to graduate from primary school, with good academic performance and good conduct, and is preparing to take the senior high school entrance examination. Chen Jingrun and You Kun said happily that educating children should be flexible and phased. Children's growth is inseparable from educational methods.
This is an experience that parents can learn from.
Some Suggestions on Modern Children's Education
1. Listen patiently
When impatient and aggressive parents face unruly children, the most direct reaction is usually swearing. But it doesn't solve the problem at all. The key to disciplining children is to find out the reasons why children make mistakes, start from the source and remove the reasons.
At this time, parents should calm down, be more patient and ask their children what the reason is. When parents' minds have been focused on understanding their children's thoughts and trying to help them solve problems, they may find that their children's behaviors are actually excusable and release a lot of negative emotions.
Put down your body.
Negotiating with children Some parents always like dignity in front of their children and are used to treating them with the above attitude, but this will often intensify contradictions and tell them not to force them. At this time, parents may wish to put down their posture, not always order their children, but negotiate with them. It might be a good idea to say the least.
For example, if the child wants to jump on the sofa, but the parents have something to consider, they can let the child jump on the bed in the bedroom, or let him jump later, or try to take the child to the park to jump after the parents have handled the matter.
3. Let children experience the consequences
It's no use shouting if children always don't listen to adults. Then, under the premise of ensuring safety and no adverse consequences, can parents also let their children teach themselves? Self-inflicted consequences? Taste. Through their own practical experience, children will be able to deeply understand how correct and important their parents' teaching is.
A good way to educate children in modern times
First, always have an appreciation attitude towards children.
In the process of interacting with successful parents, you will feel that their appreciation of their children sometimes moves you. For example, excellent children have their own nicknames at home. When parents call, you will feel that nicknames belong to their parents through their voice and intonation. People will be eclipsed when they call. They never scold or complain when talking about their children. Even if their children are unattractive and sometimes do poorly in exams, they never complain and help them analyze problems calmly. Appreciation is not unrealistic praise and encouragement, but a kind of silent support from the heart, a kind of tacit power. In the contact with successful parents, you can feel that parents have an inexhaustible motivation to appreciate their children from beginning to end.
Second, it is principled, and it is not easy for people to change their views because of things.
Parents clearly know what their children should and should not do, and make rules. Never change easily. For example, when it's time to do your homework, you must do it. When it's time to study, you must study. It won't change because today is a weekend or because today is a special situation. Respect parents, don't lie, be honest, and offenders will never be soft. This is the bottom line of being a man.
Third, be good at running your own family.
A good family atmosphere is the foundation of children's growth. Look at the family of successful parents, and the family atmosphere is harmonious and warm. There are few disputes between parents, and children feel warm and dependent in such a family. Mothers usually play an important role in the family. They keep the house clean and tidy. It doesn't matter how expensive clothes you wear or how expensive things you use. The key is to dress children and adults neatly.
Fourth, be reasonable, behave steadily, and be simple and low-key.
Parents are very reasonable and considerate. Views on problems are often very eclectic, not extreme and stubborn, with steady manners and elegant speech, which will not give people the feeling of arrogance, and rarely boast about their family and income in front of others.
5. Care but don't spoil your children.
They are very concerned about their children, but they can flatly refuse their unreasonable demands, never regret it, and will not tolerate their mistakes.
Sixth, parents cooperate tacitly.
On the issue of educating children, they echo each other and cooperate tacitly. A good COP must be a bad COP. Parents should not undermine each other and blame each other. This is a big no-no. I have seen it with my own eyes. A child disobeyed his mother and had an argument with her. Father severely reprimanded him for this behavior. The child cocked his head and refused to accept it. His father used to kick him. The child cried, but the father did not compromise. Seriously point out his misconduct. Mother told her the truth at once, and the two of them cooperated tacitly. Soon the child will no longer be stubborn.
Seven, work hard and be practical.
Parents' attitudes towards life and work will exert a subtle influence on their children. Look at the successful parents. They not only educate their children to succeed, but also work diligently and conscientiously. I also did a good job in the unit. It can be said that work and life are correct.
Eight, pay regular attention to children's learning.
Every day, I will spend a certain amount of time paying attention to my children, which can be fixed regularly. When my children finish their homework, they should check it again. I have time to study with my children, even if I don't study, I will stay with them. They all have their own desks at home. There is a period of homework reading time every day, and parents will lower their voices or turn off the TV so as not to affect their children's study.
9. I am not proficient in the Internet. I have never entertained myself on the Internet except looking up information on the Internet.
It may be hard to believe that most successful parents are not proficient in the Internet and have no good feelings for it. May be busy with housework at ordinary times, no time to go to Internet cafes. They hardly spend time and play games on the Internet except consulting relevant materials and completing necessary materials at work. In contrast, some parents go online for recreation whenever they have time, which is in sharp contrast. Children love to play games, and many of them are influenced by their parents.
Ten, pay attention to children's healthy diet and cook well.
They are very concerned about the health of their children's diet. They make a reasonable and healthy diet for their children. Those things have additives, and those things are not good for children. Obviously, they cook in person most of the time and seldom buy ready-made ones. A carefully cooked dish.
Eleven, never let children make friends.
Let children only communicate with children who know each other well among friends. They never make friends at will, and rarely see how they make friends. Parents strictly restrict their children from making friends. Never let children associate with children who have bad hobbies and love to fight and play. They let their children associate with the children of colleagues or friends who know each other well. Both parents are familiar with each other, and the children are naturally not bad.
Twelve, never contact with complaining parents.
They are independent, seldom complain, and can understand others. There is little or no close contact with the parents of children's classmates, so that children can always maintain a relationship with their classmates in class? A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water? The state of. Always put learning first, and never dilute the main task because of other things. Never contact complaining parents, and always keep a healthy and upward attitude.
Thirteen, strict with children.
Strictly speaking, it's not about beating and cursing, but about controlling children's behaviors and habits and paying attention to her little by little. If there are any deficiencies, correct them in time. For example, strictly control children's play time. Is the industry so idle? This is the unchangeable creed of educating children.
Fourteen, understand the child, don't ask too much of the child.
Evaluate your children objectively, don't give too high expectations and don't be pessimistic. Instead, set goals according to children's actual abilities. A successful father said, I don't expect my children to be the first in the exam. I just want her to strive for the best result through her own efforts. If she can't get into Tsinghua, she will get into a big school. If she can't get into a university, it's not bad to get into a local college. All she has to do is work hard. In fact, the father is trying to pay attention to the process, not the result.
Make friends with children and listen to their voices.
Successful parents respect their children very much, and they will listen to their voices. Whenever children talk to them, they will put down their housework and listen carefully. Even if what children say is trivial, it is an important part of their lives.
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