It turns out that parents always think that children are just children and have no independent personality. Discipline children must be strict. When children are disobedient, we can educate them by beating and cursing to get them on the right track. Now more and more parents realize that children are not parents' accessories, but independent people. Although their psychological development was not so complete when they were young, they must respect their personality, which is also the way of family education advocated now. This family style strives to create a more harmonious and equal parent-child relationship for children, so that children can grow up in a relaxed and pleasant family environment and feel the love and respect of their parents. In fact, this is very beneficial. Mainly from the following two aspects.

First, parents' respect for children is more conducive to the development of children's mental health. As we all know, children with moderate self-esteem will have moderate self-confidence when they grow up. Parents can set some appropriate rules in the process of educating their children. When children do something wrong or encounter setbacks, parents can use rules to ask their children to take some appropriate punishment methods of non-scolding. For example, don't let children play with toys or write comments. But these rules must be recognized by children, and children know that they will face these punishments if they do something wrong. Then these rules can make children know themselves correctly, instead of succumbing to the authority of their parents, just being afraid and obedient. When children can correct their mistakes every time they experience something, they will have their own confidence. When I grow up, when faced with more tests, I will not give up easily, but will know what I should correct and continue to meet the challenges, and my psychological development will be healthier.

Second, parents' education and equal treatment of their children can help children adapt to society better when they grow up, because parents and children communicate more equally, which can make children realize how to establish good interpersonal relationships earlier. Children will realize that the relationship between people is not pressure and obedience. But in communication, in communication.

Children will apply the communication methods they have learned from their parents to their interpersonal relationships. This also promotes the communication between children and their peers, so that children have healthier social adaptability and better social relations.