Parents' experience in educating their children 1

Being a good child's first teacher is something that every parent has to experience. From the moment the child landed, we were duty-bound to take up the responsibility of raising and educating him. As a mother of two children, I may have more experience in educating children. Here, I want to discuss the education of children with you. First of all, I want to share my good experience in educating children with you. Second, I want to learn from your experience of educating children better.

First of all, I want to emphasize that since we are the parents of our children, we should not let our parents help us educate the next generation. Because there is a generation gap between our parents and our children, their educational methods and ideas are out of date in today's era. If we want our children to become talents in the 2 1 century, we need to do it ourselves. Although there is a generation gap between us and our children, they are still more receptive to our ideas than their grandparents. Nowadays, many parents neglect to go out to educate and train our next generation for various reasons.

I am a "professional" mother myself. Since I had children, I gave up my job and concentrated on taking care of them at home. While raising him, I didn't forget to educate him well and lay a good foundation for him. When he just learned to walk and couldn't talk, I told him that mom cleaned the house very clean, so you shouldn't put toys casually, which would make the originally clean room look dirty and messy. Although the child can't speak, I believe he can understand what I'm saying and see what I'm doing. Whenever he leaves toys everywhere, I will pick them up behind him and put them back in his toy box. As time went on, he understood that his toys should not be placed on the ground or anywhere else. When he doesn't play, the toys must be put back in the box. From then on, every time he played with toys, he would take one or two out of the box and put them back in the box when he didn't want to play. Although this is a small move, it has made my children form the habit of loving cleanliness. And talking to adults. I told him that I must say "you" when talking to someone older than myself. You, me, him, can only be called by people of their own age or younger than themselves. You must call your grandparents when you see the old man. When you meet people the same age as your parents, you are called uncles and aunts, and when you meet people the same age as your brother, you are called brothers or sisters. This is what a good boy should do. Under my education, my children not only won the praise of neighbors, but also won the praise of school teachers.

My children are more active in their studies. The first thing you should do when you go home is to wash your hands, and then do your homework. No matter how much homework he has, he will finish it carefully before dinner. From grade one to grade four, he didn't form the habit of checking his homework by himself, until he was five years old.

Level, he volunteered to check homework, because he knew that it would be bad for him not to check homework. I'm not too worried about my children's study. It is wise to let nature take its course. For example, he didn't do well in the exam and his grades were not satisfactory. I didn't scold him, but I wasn't indifferent. My children will feel my loss and expectation silently, and they will be more considerate that I am saving his face. At this time, he will make up his mind to surprise me in the next exam and give himself an explanation.

In fact, our children are all "prodigies" in the 2 1 century. They may be much better than other children in some aspects, which requires us as parents to observe and discover more. Personally, I don't agree to generalize. For example, I heard an expert say that children should praise more and criticize less. I think every child has his own personality. If we blindly respect the advice of experts and only say yes to children, it may be helpful to some children, but more children are good or bad. When we find that the child is wrong, our scolding may make the child unacceptable, so there will be vicious incidents such as running away from home and jumping off a building to commit suicide. Of course, we can't always find fault with children, so children won't have a good result. The most important thing is that we, as parents, should communicate with our children attentively, get close to them, discover their advantages in time, correct their mistakes in time and help them deal with difficult problems in time. We can't always put ourselves in the position of parents and ignore children's self-esteem, nor should we always put children's dignity first and forget our responsibilities as parents. For the sake of our children, we should seize the opportunity, constantly change and summarize the ideas of many experts. Give up dignity when it is time to respect children, and hit the nail on the head when it is time to remind children.

Don't be stingy with more good words and sentences when encouraging children. When it is time for children to forgive, we must show 100% sincerity to let them know that we are wrong in this matter, and hope that children can forgive our mistakes. Seeing that children don't need any conditions and reasons, they forgive us. At this time, do we feel guilty in our parents' hearts? Why have we been holding on to our children's braids for a long time and refused to let go?

My children and I are sometimes like friends, sometimes like mother and son, and sometimes like lovers. Like a friend, I will be equal to him and share his happiness and troubles with him; Like mother and son, I will teach him the experience of my elders and tell him the wishes of my parents; Like a couple, I will spoil with him, and I will make him feel like a man. I need his protection, his humility and his love. In this way, my children will grow up happily and healthily every day.

The poor quality of learning is the child's own reason. I have emphasized that as long as one student in the class gets 100, it means that the teacher's teaching level is very high and the teacher is not wrong. But we can't say that our children are idiots if they don't get 100%. In fact, many children are due to family factors. He doesn't listen in class, and his mind is full of clutter. These things may have something to do with what happened in our family. We didn't take them to heart, but the children were upset because of our words or a decision made by their elders. This not only affects children's learning, but also affects their healthy growth. At this point, parents should think calmly. Are our children more concerned about their parents and their home? As parents, we shouldn't blame our teachers for anything. Although I am not a people's teacher, I want to say a word here for our most respected teacher. We are fathers.

A mother only needs to take care of one child, even if it is a child, we may not be able to educate well, but the teacher should educate thirty or forty children in the class. These children have their own advantages and disadvantages, so that teachers can understand them one by one. I think even if we are teachers, it is impossible. What's more, the child's basic education is given by us, and his foundation is not good. How can I get the teacher to change him?

Having said that, it's just my personal opinion. In fact, I believe that every parent knows these vulgar truths, but they just don't have time to take care of their own ideas. I hope that as parents, I will pay attention to children from now on, pay attention to their existence, and build a bridge for their future with teachers. Our children are excellent, and our parents are as glorious and great as teachers. For the sake of our next generation, do it when it is time!

Parents' experience in educating their children II.

Speaking of children's education, I really don't know where to start. I feel that this should be a very warm and relaxed topic, but it is also very serious.

Children are parents' treasures. As a parent, I hope my children can excel and make a difference in the future. However, children nowadays are almost all only children. Our parents want to give the best things to their children and meet all their requirements as much as possible. Therefore, excessive indulgence and overindulgence will make children develop some bad habits.

Therefore, for the education of children around 5 years old, I think we should start with "habits", analyze the characteristics of children, pay special attention to some subtle changes of children, help and guide children in the right way, and create one for them.

Warm and good environment, so as to cultivate children's good living ability and learning behavior habits, and cultivate children to establish self-improvement, self-confidence, unity and healthy thoughts.

My family is almost five years old. As a young parent, I don't have much experience in the process of children's education, but in the process of growing up with children, I think the following aspects still need our parents' attention:

First, seriously answer children's questions and stimulate children's curiosity.

Children's curiosity is the greatest. She is full of curiosity about anything new. When a child asks questions, parents should discuss things around her in standard language instead of naive language and teach her the names and vocabulary of all kinds of things. Children have the most problems. Parents should carefully understand the questions raised by their children and try to answer the real questions raised by their children. Don't perfunctory children, it will suppress their curiosity. But don't rush to instill too much knowledge into your child that she can't understand yet. When I was walking and chatting with my daughter, I accidentally mentioned the word "terror". My daughter asked me what "terror" meant, and I told her that "terror is terrible". It was just after the rain and there was a lot of water on the road. My daughter immediately said to me, "Mom, this road is terrible." I didn't react at that time and asked her why she said this road was terrible. The daughter replied, "This road is full of water. Do you feel terrible? Is it terrible? " I smiled ......

Second, give more encouragement and guidance to children and create a warm and harmonious living environment for them.

Most of our parents realize that children's imitation ability is very strong. Influenced by their surroundings, they often imitate people or things around them, so I feel at home.

The living environment of the court, parents' behaviors and habits will have a great influence on children, which is often said that "example is better than words", so a good living environment and parents' role models will be a kind of "silent education" for children.

Therefore, our parents should set an example in treating their children. I think our parents should straighten their seats first. We can't stand on our high horse and make our children listen to you. We should be children's good friends. I often reflect on myself in the process of getting along with my daughter. I try to adjust the way and tone of talking to my child, so that she thinks we are good friends. When she meets something she doesn't know, I will patiently answer it for her. At the same time, I will add "Next time you have to tell me something I don't know", although it is just a simple sentence, which makes her feel that the dialogue between us is friendly and equal, so that the child will tell you everything she thinks and you can understand her better. At the same time, we will create a cheerful atmosphere. Secondly, we should always get along with children with a positive attitude and a happy mood. No matter how many unhappy things we have, we can't vent them on our children, so that children can feel that their parents are smiling all the time, and our life is happy and beautiful. We should set a good example for children, encourage and guide them to cultivate self-confidence, love learning and form good habits. When children encounter some difficulties and impatience, we should not criticize them too much. Although I know that the child is so bad, I will patiently calm the child down, then guide her to find ways to eliminate difficulties and solve problems, and encourage her to be confident and not be scared by difficulties. I think my daughter has made great progress in this respect than before, but we still need constant guidance and encouragement.

The same is true in learning. I didn't push her too hard, but guided her. Coercion sometimes backfires. Just like children learn to read, schools begin to teach children to read from the beginning. As soon as we got home, we asked her to read the words she had learned, deliberately letting her know more words, and she showed some impatience. I gradually realized that my method was wrong, so we created a literate atmosphere for her at home. We talk to her more, let her see and listen, and not only let her know the words, but also the meaning of the words. I feel that she will gradually become interested and know more words.

Third, let children develop the good habit of keeping promises.

Let the children know that everyone should be trustworthy, be a trustworthy person, do what they promise others, and let her know the benefits and importance of trustworthiness. I won't want to do what my daughter promised, and I will be shameless. I said to her, "You can go back on your word, so can your mother in the future, and you can go back on your word if your mother promises. This is only fair. " As soon as she heard that her mother was going to break her word, she began to go back on her word and said, "no, mom, don't break your word. I don't want to break my word either." Not a good baby. Parents are role models for children, and their every move has a great influence on children. If children want to do well, parents must do well first.

These are just some usual educational experiences. Early childhood education is a complex systematic project. Every child is a sunrise full of hope, and every child is a pillar of the future society. I believe that as long as our parents can pay attention to methods and teach students in accordance with their aptitude, our children will be successful and brilliant.

Parents' experience in educating their children 3

Educating children is an important task for the whole family. Educating children really requires parents to move from "self-cultivation" to "family integration" in order to achieve the goal of education. This year, I specially bought MP3 and a set of audio amplifier, downloaded the classic explanations and reading materials on the Internet into MP3, and then played them through the amplifier, so that everyone at home can get in touch with this information and learn at the same time. At the same time, the life behavior of family members is restricted and regulated to a certain extent, and the education of children needs the growth of every family member. At the same time, with the help of MP3 Walkman, my learning process of ancient Chinese will be accelerated. I found that there are many excellent traditional cultural resources on the Internet. Over time, my children and I have greatly improved our literary level.

In the process of studying, I have encountered such difficulties. Sometimes, it is not uncommon to be sarcastic but counterproductive. I've been troubled by this, too Later, I thought about it carefully: parents should not only blame their children, but also reflect on their children to see where the problems are and whether they can make them more acceptable in another way. In fact, as long as you are thoughtful and creative, family education can be very interesting.

After the child has some reading ability, I began to try to write some small notes with different contents for the child, even if there are only a few words. I sometimes put these little notes in the children's pencil box, sometimes quietly put them in the children's toy box, and even put them on the refrigerator door, mirror and pillow. It used to be his goal that children can see and find them wherever they are. When the child accidentally found these small notes, it brought him a surprise, and at the same time, it made him truly feel the attention and love of his parents.

Characters and languages have different characteristics. Language is fleeting, and sometimes it doesn't necessarily leave much impression when spoken several times. It's easy to go in one ear and out the other. Writing overcomes this weakness. You can read at any time as long as it is not destroyed.

Look, and every time I look at it, I feel that I am reliving it, and the impression is naturally deeper. Compared with the stormy reprimand and reprimand, this not only takes into account the child's self-esteem, but also is more acceptable to the child.

Not only can children not have more understanding and respect for their parents, but they may force you to make progress with your children. Because with the growth of children's age, the content of notes will no longer be a single praise, criticism, etc., but will gradually expand to recommend a book, introduce a good article, leave a small question that needs to be answered by brains, and even include discussion of a certain point of view. And the content will begin to be rich and colorful, which is also a help to his thinking ability and writing ability training. These come and go, and family education can also add a lot of fun.

I don't know what is right and what is best in children's education, but some aspects of children's education are common, and some things are different according to children's personality and characteristics. In education, we should not only let nature take its course, but also be persuasive and seek a balance between management and no matter what.

Come on! "Don't lose heart, try again." "You did a great job! I am happy for you! " ...... We often give our children such encouragement, and children will make rapid progress with our encouragement. Children need encouragement. We often encourage children to participate in school group activities. When they come back, we will listen to what happened when they took part in the activities and ask him some further questions: What activities did you do today? With who? Are you interested in continuing to participate in such activities? What are the gains and experiences from participating in this activity? Why? In order to arouse children's interest, find problems in time and solve them. So every encouragement we give is a catalyst for his progress. In many aspects of study and life, we give our children a lot of encouragement and appreciation, so,

The child is very confident, and I think it is very valuable to let him have such positive thoughts.

Parents' experience in educating their children

Speaking of children's education, every parent has a lot to say. Although the family situation is different and the education methods are different, the purpose is to hope that their children can grow up happily and healthily. As parents, how should we educate our children? I have bought many books, bought many CDs and consulted many colleagues. Children grow up day by day, and their grades are gradually stable, but I still dare not relax.

It is very necessary to develop good study habits, which should be reflected in the details of life. Everyone in our family has the habit of reading books. When a child was young, he cultivated and exercised his literacy ability early, which laid a very good foundation for his future study. When the child is older, we will help him form the habit of reading and let him spare some time to read every day. In our family, we can often see pictures of a family of three reading books. Moreover, whenever I have the chance, I will buy all kinds of books from the bookstore for him to read. Gifts for Children's Day and Spring Festival are all kinds of interesting or beneficial books. After a long time, children like reading. I have also developed good reading habits. It also played a great role in promoting learning.

From the time my child goes to school, I pay attention to cultivating his study habits and finish the homework left by the teacher after going home every day. Preview the rest before learning the new lesson. Communicate with his teacher in time to help children develop good study habits.

In family life, always pay attention to the formation of habits, pack up the toys you have played, wash your face and brush your teeth before going to bed at night. Sometimes, if a child wants to be lazy, tell him the truth and tell him that it is impossible. Slowly, he accepted this behavior and got used to it.

Naturally developed.

To educate children, our generation of parents need to learn and inherit the traditional wisdom of the Chinese nation. In the past, I was very insecure, that is, I didn't establish a stable and reliable overall value system to educate my children. During this time, in the process of intermittent contact with traditional enlightenment classics, I reflected on my own behavior and ethics, while reflecting on the various manifestations of children's growth. I feel that I have found the clue and direction to educate my children, and I need to grow up with my children under the influence of learning traditional culture.

Don't ask too much of your child, give him some room for free development, observe his advantages and disadvantages, and then give guidance. I think we have all been children and should know what children like. Too much preaching is better than guiding children with our own actions. What children are asked to do, adults must first do it themselves. For example, when my son was watching TV, he unconsciously walked in front of the TV as soon as he saw the wonderful part. I corrected him, and he immediately scolded him: "You always surf the Internet every day, and your eyes will be broken if you play for a long time." In the face of children's doubts, I have to correct myself first and influence my children with my own behavior. I said to my child, "Look, mom has corrected it, and it's only been online for a while, so you should correct it!" " At this time, the child will readily accept your suggestion.

In order to broaden our horizons and cultivate children's various interests. In his spare time, he signed up for a calligraphy class. He has been studying for several years now, and he is very interested and his grades are good.

Children like to make by hand, and I will provide them with materials and help them as much as possible. Sometimes, watching him make a "work" that is not very wonderful and show it to us smugly, his expression is full of pride. Seeing children dare to do it, making it by hand.

I am happy in the process of writing, and I feel gratified from the bottom of my heart.

In addition, we also like to let our children take part in some physical exercises. If a child loves to run and jump, let him exercise more, which will not only strengthen his body, but also make him happy. Why not?

In short, we hope that the child is not only a child who is immersed in his studies, but also hopes that he can have his own fun while studying hard and is a person who loves life.

Educating children is an important task for the whole family. Educating children really requires parents to move from "self-cultivation" to "family integration" in order to achieve the goal of education. This year, I specially bought MP3 and a set of audio amplifier, downloaded the classic explanations and reading materials on the Internet into MP3, and then played them through the amplifier, so that everyone at home can get in touch with this information and learn at the same time. At the same time, the life behavior of family members is restricted and regulated to a certain extent, and the education of children needs the growth of every family member. At the same time, with the help of MP3 Walkman, my learning process of ancient Chinese will be accelerated. I found that there are many excellent traditional cultural resources on the Internet. Over time, my children and I have greatly improved our literary level.

In the process of studying, I have encountered such difficulties. Sometimes, it is not uncommon to be sarcastic but counterproductive. I've been troubled by this, too Later, I thought about it carefully: parents should not only blame their children, but also reflect on their children to see where the problems are and whether they can make them more acceptable in another way. In fact, as long as you are thoughtful and creative, family education can be very interesting.

After the child has some reading ability, I began to try to write some small notes with different contents for the child, even if there are only a few words. I sometimes put these little notes in the children's pencil box, sometimes quietly put them in the children's toy box, and even put them on the refrigerator door, mirror and pillow. It used to be his goal that children can see and find them wherever they are.

When the child accidentally found these small notes, it brought him a surprise, and at the same time, it made him truly feel the attention and love of his parents.

Characters and languages have different characteristics. Language is fleeting, and sometimes it doesn't necessarily leave much impression when spoken several times. It's easy to go in one ear and out the other. Writing overcomes this weakness. As long as it is not destroyed, you can take it out at any time, and every time you look at it, you feel that you are reliving it, which is naturally more impressive. Compared with the stormy reprimand and reprimand, this not only takes into account the child's self-esteem, but also is more acceptable to the child.

Not only can children not have more understanding and respect for their parents, but they may force you to make progress with your children. Because with the growth of children's age, the content of notes will no longer be a single praise, criticism, etc., but will gradually expand to recommend a book, introduce a good article, leave a small question that needs to be answered by brains, and even include discussion of a certain point of view. And the content will begin to be rich and colorful, which is also a help to his thinking ability and writing ability training. These come and go, and family education can also add a lot of fun.

I don't know what is right and what is best in children's education, but some aspects of children's education are common, and some things are different according to children's personality and characteristics. In education, we should not only let nature take its course, but also be persuasive and seek a balance between management and no matter what.

Come on! "Don't lose heart, try again." "You did a great job! I am happy for you! " ...... We often give our children such encouragement, and children will make rapid progress with our encouragement. Children need encouragement, and we often encourage them to participate in group activities at school.

After you come back, listen to him talk about what happened when you participated in the activity, and ask him some further questions: What activities did you do today? With who? Are you interested in continuing to participate in such activities? What are the gains and experiences from participating in this activity? Why? In order to arouse children's interest, find problems in time and solve them. So every encouragement we give is a catalyst for his progress. In many aspects of study and life, we give children a lot of encouragement and appreciation. Therefore, the child is confident, and I think it is very valuable for him to have such a positive idea.

Although praise and encouragement are important, sometimes criticism is indispensable. In children's study, sometimes he will feel unhappy when his exam results are less, but we will not severely criticize him for it, sometimes help him find out the reasons and sometimes remind him what to do. Therefore, he has been afraid to tell his parents because of his low test scores.

Teacher Xu, an education expert, said that if family education is limited to how to train children and ignores the real needs for improvement, then such family education will hardly achieve the expected results. Parents' quality is not high, how to have a good family education atmosphere and how to cultivate the next generation with physical and mental health? Parents often lament that the older their children are, the less they know. Yes, when the child was young, you directed the child's words and deeds as an elder everywhere, and never really understood the child's feelings. When children grow up, you will get farther and farther away from them, and a generation gap will also arise. It is difficult to pass on correct concepts and experiences to children, leading to the failure of education. However, if parents can accompany their children to grow up from the beginning, treat them with children's eyes and always maintain a childlike innocence, then, as children grow up, you will find that while children gradually understand the world, you also gradually understand their books and enter their inner world. At this time, you are getting closer and closer to your successful parents.

This is our little experience in the process of educating children, but there are also many shortcomings. In the days to come, we will also learn and teach, explore in practice and make continuous progress in learning, so that children can grow up healthily and happily and become excellent people.

Parents' experience in educating their children

Every winter and summer vacation, I always hear many students complain. The main content is that parents pay too much attention to grades now. To tell the truth, as a teacher, I also very much hope that my students can get good grades in the exam, but I also know that judging a child's quality can't be judged entirely by his grades. In fact, the improvement of a child's ability is more important to his future success. In my communication with many parents, I often tell them such an example.

Ye Shengtao was a famous educator in China in the last century. However, his son, Ye Zhishan, did not go well in the process of studying.

Ye Zhishan didn't get good grades in primary school. He stayed in the third grade. Later, after hard work, he was admitted to a provincial middle school which is famous for its rigorous style of study and excellent students' performance. Ye Zhishan studied in this school for a year, but he failed four subjects in the final exam. According to the school regulations, such poor grades can't be promoted to the second grade. Therefore, Ye Zhishan is very sad.

Ye Shengtao didn't say anything when he learned about the situation. He believes that learning a course well depends mainly on whether he can apply what he has learned and benefit for life, and can't be measured by exam results alone. He knows that his son doesn't want to learn by rote, and the Chinese and English exams are mainly to recite the whole paragraph or even the whole text. It is understandable for his son to fail in the exam. From the conversation with his son, he felt that his son's language expression ability was not weak and his knowledge was not narrow. So, he didn't blame the children, just said, don't be sad, change schools. After many investigations, Ye Shengtao admitted Ye Zhishan to a private middle school. This school is completely different from provincial middle schools. Instead of doing exercises and homework all day, it has enough time to read extracurricular books, sing songs and play the harmonica. Great changes have taken place in Ye Zhishan since then.

Ye Shengtao was very happy with his children's extensive interest and encouraged them to say, "Very well, I will read more books without words in the future. This "book without words" is to learn knowledge and skills from society and nature through observation, experiment and thinking. Useful knowledge is not only in the classroom, not only in those textbooks, but also in social life. "

Ye Shengtao likes reading books and reads everything. Children can pick up the books on the shelf at will, as long as they want. He often asks some questions in order to exercise his expressive ability. Under the education and influence of his father, Ye Zhishan, a child who spent four grades in primary and secondary schools, finally achieved success in life-becoming a famous children's popular science writer.

The story of Ye Shengtao's godson tells us that students' academic performance is just a pile of gold, while students' ability is the finger that turns the stone into gold and the wealth that children benefit from all their lives. Therefore, as parents, don't just focus on children's scores, but focus more on improving their abilities.