First, the establishment of early emotional ties:
The period from 0 to 6 years old, especially before 3 years old, is an important period for children to establish emotional ties with their parents. During this period, spending more time with children and establishing strong emotional ties can promote the emotional development of children and parents in the future, and lay the foundation for their future psychological growth and the establishment of trust and love with others.
Second, simple enlightenment education:
Families in different situations have different enlightenment education, some are strict and some are loose. Some parents want their children to win at the starting line. They have given their children a lot of initiation courses. They have been exposed to various environments and things for a long time and with high intensity, and often need to adapt to new unfamiliar environments and courses, which is not necessarily a good thing.
Because children are still young, too much exposure to new things and knowledge is very tiring, and it may also cause children's resistance. Therefore, we advocate relaxed enlightenment education and give children more time for family companionship and free play.
Third, reasonable control of children:
Disciplining children and telling them the standard of behavior, that is, what can and cannot be done, can cultivate children's discipline and make fewer mistakes in the future.
The management of children must be authoritative and reasonable. If parents have an argument when controlling their children, remember not to discuss it in front of them. It is best to discuss in the absence of children to establish the authority of both parents. In addition, it is necessary to avoid excessive punishment and cultivate children's sense of discipline by means of rewards.
Fourth, define family rules:
In family education, it is also important to establish clear family rules. It is suggested to hold a family meeting every once in a while to let children know where the boundaries are, to ensure that they can be restrained and make them feel safe. There shouldn't be too many family rules, so you should state them in affirmative sentences. Violation of family rules requires clear punishment.
Five, usually take the initiative to encourage:
In family education, children's self-worth can be better established through positive encouragement, so that children are willing to participate. Parents should set an example and create a good family atmosphere to educate their children.
Sixth, give children a certain choice:
Some parents are rather "male chauvinistic" when educating their children, often focusing on their own ideas and ignoring their children's feelings. This practice is very unfavorable to children's development, and it is easy for children to feel inferior, get no support, and be easily knocked down when entering the society.
Therefore, in family education, children should be given a certain range of choices, which shows that parents trust and respect their children. By providing choices, children can have some free space and cultivate their self-confidence and self-worth.