? "Everyone is a grown-up child. Life is made up of children and adults, so we should look back at those things that we once loved and were the most real. "

The Rolling Stones didn't get it; Hamlet died for it; Henry. David? Luo Jun wandered in the jungle, but Sinna found it in her own way.

be satisfied

? We are more lonely, overworked and stressed than ever before. Sometimes, we have to put important things aside for a while just to have time to do other things. Leave the office early to watch the children's football match and have a good rest for heart disease; Call an old friend and write a thank-you note in person.

? Before the invention of electricity, we could be satisfied with our goals, peace, laughter, happiness, friends and growth. After all kinds of progress, maybe we haven't changed much.

? The difference between loneliness and loneliness

Audrey was introverted and shy, and she was not good at making friends when she was a child. And his father's departure and his mother's harsh and cruel war fueled his nature.

When Audrey needs friends, she chooses reading, walking for a long time, listening to music and playing with flowers and plants. She tasted loneliness calmly. In Hollywood, Audrey is a lone ranger. He stayed at home most of the time, instead of hanging out in various social occasions and banquets.

? Although Audrey is weak and quiet on the surface, she knows in her heart that she can bear the various arrangements of fate. He knew that he could handle it on his own.

"I used to be alone, and I liked to stay alone in my apartment from Saturday night to Monday morning. This is my way to regain my energy. "

Hepburn's quotations:

"When I was a child, I didn't have the vitality, friends or happiness of ordinary children, and I lacked security. Isn't that why I became an introvert? "

"I am an introverted person. I am willing to be alone and love outdoor activities. I like walking with dogs and enjoying the surrounding green trees, flowers and blue sky. "

"I still feel lonely in the crowd."

"I regained my energy when I was alone."

"In times of crisis, if you are so lonely, that's terrible. Fortunately, I always have a good friend to talk to. I like being alone. It's not boring at all. I am my companion. "

? Find a psychiatrist.

Audrey found a way to recover from gardening. She knows that most people actually need some extra help.

And Italian psychiatrist Andrew? The combination of many emperors enabled him to observe the efficacy of psychotherapy at close range. Her husband's riddle of "constantly fighting disease" benefited him a lot.

? Audrey understands that the result of understanding is mutual appreciation. If a simple psychotherapy can do this, then accept it.

"Some people often lose their temper, and some people seldom get angry. The doctor told me that it is harmful to your health to keep all your troubles in your heart, but you must apologize to the injured person after venting. I really hope that my depression can come out of my ears. "

Hepburn's quotations:

"Whether we realize it or not, everyone has the opportunity to receive psychotherapy, and every psychotherapy method can be applied to daily life. What's terrible about living with a psychiatrist? He is a man who knows better than ordinary people. Isn't that great? We live in mutual understanding, understanding and tolerance. "

"It is important to know as much as possible about your lover's work, which will help your life. Therefore, you should not be afraid. No one is afraid to see a doctor. Of course, if you can overcome the difficulties on your own, it is enviable, but when the problem becomes unbearable, you must seek help from others. We can cope with a cold, but when you have a high fever, you must call a doctor. "

? Audrey reading club

Audrey loves books as much as her childhood. She thinks reading is the most important pastime in her life. He received "Anna? Frank's diary has entered adulthood. In the book, Anna witnessed the tragic scene of World War II through the window of the attic, and wrote down the spiritual changes in suffering. Anna and Australia were only ten years old when the war started. The war almost destroyed Anna.

"Anna happened in another city in Henan, but my experience is strikingly similar to the description in the book, only in the outside world, and there is also a girl's inner world feeling in the process of transforming into a woman, and our transformation takes place in a cage-like world. He described his claustrophobia, but expressed this fear with his love for nature and his longing for life. "

Hepburn's quotations

"Everyone has fear, and I am afraid of things so far away and unknown. They are afraid of death they have never experienced, cancer they have never had, and car accidents that have never happened, but the fear I have experienced is really felt through my eyes, heart and ears. "

"This is my life. I don't know what to read next. I will never go through that pain again. This is an unforgettable and far-reaching experience, and I am deeply influenced by it. "

Learn to accept

? Audrey often expresses her insecurity to others, mostly about her appearance, but her friend and neighbor Yao Ruisi Bleiner never believes her complaints.

"Audrey has many strange ideas. For example, he feels that his chest is not full enough and his feet are too big. In the past, we were together. Every time he falls into those thoughts again, he will say, why don't I have a pair of feet like you? This is ridiculous because he is perfect enough. "

? One day, Audrey came to Yaoruisi's door without makeup, looked up and said, "Have you noticed that my face is square?" In our eyes, he is perfect, and he seems to believe our vision, but in the face of Yao Ruisi, he just stubbornly thinks that his face is too square.

? "People will choose an idol when they are young and expect to grow into their idols. I hope to grow into a combination of Elizabeth Taylor and Ingrid Bowman, but I don't look like anyone. "

Hepburn's quotations:

"I am a person who wants to be perfect once I have it. I always feel that I am too thin and my chest is too flat. There is nothing to show off. To make matters worse, I can't let go. "

"I never consider what the audience wants me to look like in film reviews. I don't care much about my appearance, because I think I'm too ugly. I'm afraid no one wants to marry me. "

"The greatest success in my life is to be true to myself and accept my own weaknesses and the shortcomings of others. Although I am far from being a perfect person, it is not too bad. "

? Looking for a quiet place

In the heart of Australia, Switzerland has always occupied a special position. As a neutral country, Switzerland made Audrey feel the invasion of war, just as her mother chose her native Holland.

? The land of peace is a farm in18th century. This stone pile occupies all eight bedrooms and is surrounded by a white fence. Audrey spent the rest of her life here. There will be no more than 500 people in this quiet village all year round. Audrey keeps in touch with her family every day, and the farmer occasionally has a few cows. The village is located on the outskirts of the city, surrounded by Alps, vineyards, orchards and Lake Geneva.

For Audrey, this price is worth two Oscars, and Peace House is the home she wants.

"When I first came to this place, it was spring. The fruit trees were lush and full of vitality, and my heart almost stopped beating. I said I belong here. "

? A simple life

? At home, Audrey concentrates on shopping, cooking, reading and gardening, which is the real content of his life.

? Robert Walters is an equally emotional person. She is Audrey's best companion. She said that many friends think we are unsociable. We spent every day at home very calmly. In the afternoon, we will take the dog for a walk in the vineyard, and if the weather permits, we will swim in the water with three or five friends. This kind of life gave Audrey the greatest happiness. For Audrey, life is reflected in the details.

"Life is like sawing a tree and Liu Lang in a museum. After you appreciate it, you begin to seriously ponder what you just saw and thought. You may look for the answer in the book and keep it in mind, because you can't absorb everything at once. "

? Establish faith

? Audrey, like her mother, was educated by the Christian church from an early age. Her belief is based on humanitarianism, goodness of human nature and growing nature. Her belief comes from her love that she is willing to give anything to improve the status quo.

Perhaps this is why all love is always in his garden, and there are flowers everywhere.

Hepburn's quotations

"Anyone who doesn't believe in miracles is not a realist."

"Although I am not a believer in the Christian church, I believe in the power of the human spirit."

"My only religion is my belief in nature and life."

? Serve others.

? Like everyone else, Audrey likes the feeling of being loved, but love is not only accepting its meaning, but also profound. As a wife and mother, he is selfless and caring. As a friend, he is frank and friendly, and as a star, he combines all the above characteristics.

His mother often instills tolerance in him, and Audrey's heart is the best gift he can give to others.

? Hepburn's quotations:

"Mom always reminds us that we still have to do something to serve others and give love. I think this is more important than just asking. "

"I am a person who is naturally eager to be cared for. I have shown this characteristic since I was a child. At the same time, I am also eager to give my love and look forward to all my friends. I have a puppy, a kitten, a pony or a baby hug. This kind of plot is strong and light. "

"When no one needs you to make a cup of tea for him or your care, your life is over."

"When you can't give anything, you begin to feel old, and it seems that you will come to the end of your life. At this time, you will feel lonely, not the kind of peace I like, but the lament of aging. "

"So, people are not afraid of aging or death, but of loneliness and lack of care. Why do people suffer? That's because he lost his balance in the feeling of having and losing, so he felt lonely. "