The education of children should broaden their horizons and make them enjoy it. /kloc-before the age of 0/,love is education. When my son is one year old, he can say goodbye to me happily when I go to work, and then urge me to leave when I should go to work. He knows that I have to cook first when I get home from work, so he doesn't have to stick to me even if he sees me after work. Sometimes he will shout "Mom" and continue to play his game. Neighbors said that they had followed their grandmother for a long time and stopped looking for their mother. I am too lazy to argue with them. In fact, the real reason is that the son has the stability of the object. An object is an object other than a child object. Young children often think that they can see something, so it exists. If they can't see it, they think it doesn't exist. My son knows that his mother left just to go to work, not without her, and will come back to accompany him after work, so he can accept the meaning of "goodbye". Unconditional love as a child has built a "safe island" for children's psychology. With this safe island, he will be independent, brave and strong. My son was born prematurely and lived in an incubator for nearly a month. After returning home, his sense of insecurity is more serious than that of ordinary children. So, he is awake, and I will not leave his sight; If he can't sleep well, I will let him lie on my chest and let my heartbeat help him sleep; I can't sing, I can only amuse him by reading poems or books. There was a time when I read him a perfect composition for the college entrance examination every day.
This is what psychology calls primitive maternal love. During that time, I completely forgot myself. I only loved him psychologically, and he is the only one in my world. Psychologists say that it is better to give love to children than to teach them knowledge. The relationship model between parents and children is the cornerstone of children's personality and emotional intelligence. Don't think that just because a child is young, you can ignore his emotions. Only unconditional love and attention can make children become a sound person.
High-quality companionship can make educational ideas deeply rooted in people's hearts.
Careful parents will find that the behavior habits of the person with their children will deeply affect their children. For example, elderly people with children do not pay attention to hygiene and do not like to wash their hands. After the child gets used to it, if you ask him to wash his hands before meals, he will resist. Many mothers don't like the way their mother-in-law takes care of their children, but in order to be lazy, they are too lazy to correct them, thinking that he will grow up. I don't know that bad habits accumulated over time will become a huge obstacle to cultivating good habits in the future. If mothers want to cultivate their children's good living habits and study habits, they must set an example and start from an early age. My children like reading. From about one year old to one year and seven months now, they have read more than 20 various books, each of which has been read at least ten times. Although my son can't speak complete sentences yet, he has a strong cognitive ability. For example, reading an ancient poem, you give him the book and recite the poem for him, and he can accurately find out which page the poem is on; You tell him a picture book story, and he will know what is in the book as soon as he looks at the cover. He also likes painting, singing and dancing, and can sit in a chair and listen carefully for half an hour. Of course, these are all achieved by high-quality companionship. I will take every parent-child reading seriously, even if a story is told dozens of times, it will be as vivid as the first time; The way I take him out to play is the process of my son exploring the world. We take pains to repeat all kinds of signs and animals we see from home to destination. Take my son to the square dance in the evening to let him feel the rhythm. Children long for the warmth of their mothers. He likes your company. The company has quality, and education has quality. You inject the habit you want your child to cultivate into your unconditional love, and your child will naturally feel happy and satisfied when studying.
Encourage children to think positively. Children after one and a half years old actually have the ability to think. Although I can't express it, my brain has begun to ask 10 thousand why. At this time, parents can consciously cultivate their children's thinking ability. For example, teaching children to recall. I took my child to the playground the day before and gave him repeated projects or things on my way home. The next day, I asked my child: Where did we go to play yesterday? What did you play? What happened? Ask questions and guide children to recall. Although he won't say it, under your guidance, he will go through yesterday's picture in his mind.
Such as teaching children logical thinking. Once my son wanted to drink milk powder at noon. I teased him and said: Mom has no money, so we can't buy milk powder, so we have to tighten our belts. Then I repeated it with causality: because my mother has no money, she can't buy milk powder; Because I can't buy milk powder, I have no milk powder to drink. The son inexplicably repeated the words "milk" and "money". Later, my husband and I discussed buying an electric car. Because I have a car at home, it is very convenient for me to take my son out after I buy an electric car. My husband said we would have no money. The son who happened to be playing heard this and began to play a little temper on the ground. I picked him up to coax him, and his mood has been very low.
When sleeping at night, he said to me with a bottle: money … milk … I suddenly realized that my son might have understood my conversation with my husband. Last time I told him that I had no money to buy milk powder, so the little man had his own abacus. I quickly told him: it doesn't matter, mom has money to buy a car and can let you drink milk powder. The son immediately narrowed his eyes with laughter. Only after this incident did I know that children have their own way of thinking. If we consciously cultivate their logical thinking ability and keep their whimsical nature, we can protect children's ability to think actively. Our education is not to instill knowledge, but to let them learn to think.
In short, I have always insisted that to cultivate children, we must cultivate ourselves first. A child is a mirror, which can magnify the advantages and disadvantages of parents. Our education does not require him to learn much established knowledge, but to let him learn to think, learn to explore and achieve a true self.
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