Overnight, colleges and universities seem to have changed from ivory towers to endless hell, either because of mental control or physical attacks. Those teenagers as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade were hunted by scum in the growing forest before they could enter the society.
First of all, to determine whether you are a slag-sucking physique, ask yourself three questions first.
First: I can't refuse to let my relatives or friends do things, even if it is very unreasonable.
Second: I care about what others say about me, even people who have nothing to do with me and who are not important to me.
Third: Even if you eat a fast food or buy a bar of soap, you will hesitate and think for a long time.
If you score the above three questions from 1 to 10, the higher the score, the more certain the answer to the above questions and the deeper the depth. If your score exceeds 18, then you are a slag sucker to some extent. If your score is over 24, you are basically a slag sucker. If your score of 30 is correct, please! It is the devil's dereliction of duty not to come to you.
These three problems focus on people's three abilities: self-awareness, sense of boundary and decision-making power. When dealing with interpersonal relationships, you need these three abilities to stay away from scum and protect yourself.
If a person wants to control you mentally, there are nothing more than two things: love and profit. Usually, loving Billy can control a person more and cause more harm. In the traditional family relationship in China, many parents' love has the color of mind control, so that children can grow up in the atmosphere of mind control in the name of love. These children's ability to distinguish mind control is particularly poor, and they are particularly easy to become prey. To put it bluntly, it is a particularly "obedient" child.
Cai Jieting's parents' comments on him are: obedient, gentle and good at studying. It is this obedient and gentle student who is afraid to put forward ideas that he is not interested in in in the face of the topics assigned by the teacher, and dare not communicate face to face with the teacher in the face of the technical difficulties in completing the thesis, and finally choose to commit suicide in a strong sense of self-blame and self-denial.
Tao Chongyuan, who jumped off a building in front of his mother, was able to shout "I want to get rid of Wang Pan", but left a respectful and watertight reply when chatting with Wang Pan's WeChat. Obedience made the tutor regard him as his own son.
Obedience is the educational achievement that many parents are satisfied with, but it may be the direct shortcoming of these flowers being eliminated and continuously hurt in the process of socialization.