1. How to make a good connection between children and children, so that children can go to school smoothly, and understand the difference between children in large classes and students in the first grade of primary school: parents should realize that when children enter the first grade of primary school from large classes in kindergartens, their bodies, languages, cognition, emotions and sociality have undergone tremendous changes, such as rapid growth in height, a lot of weight gain, clearer articulation, more clever ideas, more courtesy to others and more sociability.
2. Understand the difference between kindergarten education and primary education: kindergarten education and primary education are different in objectives, contents, forms, environment, teacher-student relationship and evaluation. Kindergarten education involves education in daily activities, with game activities as the main form. Each class has nurses and educators who are responsible for children's life and study. Primary education, on the other hand, has a strict work and rest system and classroom discipline, and many things have to be handled by children themselves. Children's main task in school is not to play games but to study, and they have to take various exams at the end of the term. The huge difference between the two stages of education requires parents to pave the way for their children and make a good connection.
Second, actively participate in various educational activities in kindergartens.
Kindergarten teachers are specially trained and have rich knowledge and skills in early childhood education, and all kinds of activities organized are extremely valuable, so you should make time to participate.
3. Participate in parents' activities in kindergarten on time: Kindergartens and classes will introduce some preparations for children entering primary school to parents through parent-school lectures, family education consultation, family tabloids, parents' meetings, parents' gardens, family contact books and other forms. Parents should attend in time, listen, watch and read carefully, and use these opportunities to ask experts, directors and teachers specific questions about their children's enrollment.
4. Take the initiative to participate in kindergarten visits: In the next semester of the big class, kindergartens and classes will organize children to visit nearby primary schools and invite parents to go together. Parents should arrange their own time to attend, learn more about the campus facilities of primary schools, teachers' teaching methods and the study life of primary school students, and create conditions for educating their children at home. I like to participate in children's activities in kindergarten. At the end of the big class next semester, kindergartens and classes will hold grand graduation ceremonies for children, which is very important for children and better than holidays. At that time, teachers will also invite parents to participate. Parents should take time out to watch their children's activities, and it is best to participate with their children, help them show their intelligence, and let them learn to thank teachers for their care and teaching, and thank their children for their love and cooperation, so as to prepare for their children's new life in primary school.
Third, find and grasp all kinds of opportunities for family education.
In family life, there are opportunities to educate children at any time. Parents should be good at discovering and grasping the education in life and make all kinds of preparations for their children to enter primary school smoothly.
(1), cultivate children's urgent school mood.
5. Encourage children to look forward to going to primary school: In order to make children look forward to going to primary school early, parents can always actively encourage their children in their daily lives. For example, say to the child: "Hey, your pants are short and you are tall; Your shoes are smaller and your feet are bigger. You really want to be a pupil. Congratulations. I find that you have become very capable now, just like a primary school student. Congratulations. Never stimulate your child from the opposite side, for example, say to your child, "If you don't obey, go to primary school, and a teacher will punish you." This will make children afraid of going to primary school and unwilling to go to primary school.
6. Teach children with daily necessities in a timely manner: for example, mark the date of children's school on the calendar or desk at home, such as September 1, count down with children every day, and calculate how many days are left before going to primary school, which can not only enrich children's mathematics knowledge, but also stimulate children's mood for school.
7. Field trip to primary school: Parents can take their children to the gate of a nearby primary school to see the situation of primary school students going to and from school, teach their children to read the school name and house number of the primary school, and get to know the buildings and bus stops near the primary school, so as to develop their spatial awareness and enhance their perceptual knowledge of the primary school.
8. Play elementary school games with children: Parents can also play elementary school games with their children at home. First of all, their parents will play the roles of "teacher" and "student", and have a dialogue in languages such as "hello teacher", "hello classmate", "stand up" and "please sit down". Then the children will play their favorite roles and let them know how to be civilized and polite.
9. Tell your children the story of your primary school: let them see your photos, used books, stationery and schoolbags in primary school, and let them think that I want to go to school as happily as my parents.
(2) Stimulate children's strong interest in learning.
10, set an example for children who love reading: children are easy to imitate. On the one hand, parents should set a good example for their children to read books and newspapers at home, on the other hand, they should often take their children to libraries and bookstores to let them witness others' reading and learning, and then give them some change to guide them to choose their favorite books and queue up to pay for them themselves. In addition, you can also take your children to visit relatives and friends, let them see how their younger brothers and sisters learn and influence them with the good behavior of their peers.
1 1. Tell stories to children often: parents can tell their children only the beginning and middle parts of the story, and let them read books to find answers at the end, and then let them be the "story king" at home and tell the whole story to the whole family. Children like new and bright things. Parents can use beautiful books, stationery and schoolbags to stimulate his interest in learning.
(3) Cultivate children's good study habits
12, providing a quiet learning environment: children's attention is easily distracted and their self-control ability is not strong. Parents should provide a quiet learning environment for their children. When children are reading and writing, on the one hand, parents should not let their children see or touch things unrelated to learning, and children are not allowed to eat snacks while reading and play with toys while writing; On the other hand, don't let children hear voices unrelated to study, don't let children watch TV while reading, and listen to the radio while writing, so that children can understand the truth of concentration when studying, thus cultivating their good habit of concentration. If the family housing is large, you can prepare a small study room or study area for your child, name it after your child, decorate this small world with your child, and eliminate the interference of various bad factors on your child's study.
(4) Improve children's independent living ability.
13, cultivate self-care ability: parents should pay attention to cultivate their children's ability to put on clothes, sleep and make beds. If the child is afraid of the dark when sleeping alone, parents can prepare a dimming desk lamp for the child. When the child just goes to bed, turn on the light and let the dim light accompany him to sleep.
14. Cultivate the ability to organize things: Parents should also pay attention to cultivate their children's ability to organize books, stationery, schoolbags, desks and bookshelves, so that children can live and study independently.
15. Cultivate children's independence and decision-making power: when guests come to visit at home, parents can encourage their children to open the door and carry water for the guests; When parents take their children out to the supermarket for shopping, they can ask their children to be guides, suggest which area to go to first, allow their children to choose what they like, and cultivate their independence and decision-making power.
16, often play "word solitaire" game with children: In order to let children master all kinds of useful information about independent schooling, parents can play "word solitaire" game with their children before and after meals. First of all, the words about the life of primary school students can be integrated into it. For example, when parents say "green scarf", inspire children to say "red scarf"; When parents say "school emblem", guide children to say "school uniform"; When parents say "teacher", guide children to say "classmate"; When parents say "class dismissed", instruct children to say "class dismissed"; When parents say "to speak", let the children say "raise their hands first".
17. Words that inspire children to associate with family life environment: For example, when parents say "community", "road name", "house number", "telephone number" and "mobile phone number" respectively, encourage children to say the specific name, road name, house number, telephone number and parents' mobile phone number of the community where they live. Thirdly, words about traffic rules can be integrated into it, such as when parents say "green light", inspiring children to say "OK"; When parents say "red light", let the children say "stop"; When parents say "traffic police", instruct their children to say "pedestrians".
How to connect children well is not only a matter for kindergartens and primary schools, but also plays an important role, among which the role of parents can not be ignored. Therefore, parents need to do their own work in connecting children, so that children can enter primary schools happily and go to school smoothly. If you have any suggestions, you can also leave a message to share with us.