If you scratch your head, it is not convenient for the elderly or other relatives of both families to take care of him. This is no longer a question of whether you should or not, but you must resign to take care of him. After all, your baby is your own pride. In the case that this nanny often has accidents with her children, I believe you will not trust others, and if you don't have flexible time to take care of your children in your job, you will resign.

But quitting doesn't mean you have to cut off contact with this society. You can leave your job, but you must have something to do and work. First, of course, the cost of raising a child is too high. Even if you have savings, you can't keep up with this inflation rate. You must make more money for yourself and your children, so even if you sell family snacks, insurance, or take orders at home with your skills, you must do it.

More importantly, you can't isolate yourself from society. If you know nothing about the outside world, you and your family members who keep close contact with the society will have nothing to say, even with your children in the future. This is very frustrating and easy to be abandoned by society. Keeping close contact with society will also help you to return to work when your children grow up.

Then when the child grows up slowly, you should also exercise his personal life ability while accompanying him to grow up, such as cleaning the room, doing small housework and cooking noodles to make a side dish, so that you can feel more at ease when you go out to work and he grows up at home.