The temperature in July remained high, hovering around 37℃, and various trainings in summer began one after another, as if challenging the high temperature in summer. There are many names: music, calligraphy and painting, dance, composition, piano, English, abacus, writing, taekwondo and so on. It is dazzling and confusing. The summer vacation that should be full of fun has been replaced by more training and long class hours. The parents' expectant eyes and the teacher's ruthless preaching all turned into heavy pressure on the child's tender shoulders, and the innocent smile on the child's face almost disappeared. More children go back and forth between several long classes in one day, and parents are non-stop. They are all busy picking up and dropping off their children, buying learning tools for their children and preparing various nutritious meals. Children are still in a childlike dream, rubbing their hazy eyes and eating carefully prepared breakfast, and they will be woken up by their parents.
"For the overall improvement of children, it is always good for children to learn more. If they don't learn more, they will not keep up with the times in the future! " Parents began to accept this kind of voice silently and stared at the overloaded children numbly. The children often pursed their mouths without much hearty laughter: "Why didn't I play on holiday?" "I don't want to learn ××" ... All kinds of training are full of children's free space, and the fairy tale world is crowded with people. The concept words in the image of "learning from the mountains and learning from the sea" are packed, leaving only one word-tired.
Write my father's 500-word love composition on strict father education in strict father.
Oh, my God, it's already dark. A bright moon is high in the sky, and golden stars are shining. There are seven stars in the sky connected together like spoons. That's the Big Dipper. The Big Dipper is hanging in the sky, guiding the lost people. Looking at the Big Dipper in the sky, I seem to see my father and his deep fatherly love.
When I was in kindergarten, I once saw several people around the table. Out of curiosity, I got into the crowd. A boy brought a brand-new remote control car. The car has stripes and an antenna on it. I really want to play with that car, but the little boy won't let me play with his car. Well, what's the big deal! I want to drive his car home to play and let him worry! Hum! After school that day, I went home by the little boy's remote control car.
When I got home, I put down my schoolbag, picked up the remote control car and sat on the ground, having a good time. Dad came back and saw me sitting on the ground playing with a remote control car, talking and singing:
"Where did you get your remote control car?"
"Like my classmates."
"Is it borrowed?"
"no ...no."
"How dare you steal!" He took off a slipper, picked me up around the waist, and hit my hip hard with the slipper in his right hand: "How dare you steal! When you grow up, you will go to jail for stealing! I stole the needle when I was young and the gold when I was old ... "I endured the pain and didn't shed a tear. I just wrote countless "hates" in my mind.
In the fourth grade, I fell in love with the internet again. When I got to school, I secretly took out my pocket money and went straight to a remote Internet cafe. I surf the internet there and will never be found. But the sly dad found me. He rushed into the internet cafe and saw me sitting in front of a computer, staring at the assault plane, plane, cannon and tank on the computer, and immediately pulled me up from my seat. He gave me a hard slap in the face. I clearly saw a lot of helplessness in his eyes. At that moment, I seemed to understand something.
In a blink of an eye, I went to the fifth grade. Once, my father and I took a bus together. The seats on the bus are full, even the aisles are full of people. The bus passed by station by station, and many people came over. One of them is an old lover with a crew cut and a blue T-shirt, black jeans and Adidas sneakers. As soon as he got on the bus, he began to look around. Finally, he fixed his eyes on a woman with straight hair, fashionable clothes and a black leather bag. Suddenly, he reached into her wallet. Ah! He's going to steal! I patted the woman dressed in fashion: "Please look after your bag, or someone will steal something." The young man glared at me and pulled his hand back. After getting off the bus, my father gently punched me on the shoulder: "Good boy! This is my son! "
Looking at the photo album from the big dipper. I seem to see strict father's love again. Strict father's love, like the Big Dipper, showed me the way forward; Strict father's love, like an umbrella, sheltered me from the wind and rain; Strict father's love, like a dress, always brings me warmth. ...
Whether free education is good for growth or strict education is good for growth, there are successful talents in both environments.
It depends on the child's personality characteristics. If it is an introverted and shy baby, the former education method is more appropriate. If it is an extroverted and unscrupulous baby, the latter method is more suitable. The best parenting environment should be a close combination of the two, that is, to ensure the free and smooth development and growth of children under the premise of strict principles.
Will children suddenly become * * * when they are strictly educated? Please don't worry, as long as you master your child's temper, make a timetable for your child, and then show your child the time on the timetable. The schedule can be adjusted appropriately and discussed with your child. Parents are the best mentors for children!
Poetry that is a metaphor for strict education of children Parenting education experts have repeatedly mentioned Reading on a Winter Night by Lu You, a poet of the Southern Song Dynasty:
The ancients learned nothing, and the young were not old.
What you get on paper is so shallow that you never know what you have to do.
The whole poem is about strict father educating children.
"Strict education can better promote people's growth" Argument 1: Strict education can make students have an objective sense of heteronomy and help improve their sense of self-discipline.
Objection 1: It is China's current national education policy that quality education replaces strict education.
In fact, this kind of debate focuses on the scene, and it is also important to give examples. Quick thinking, extrapolate, other people's views can only refer to.
The benefits of strict education As the saying goes, strict teachers make excellent students, so do parents' education of their children. Being strict with children will make them more measured, will not mess around, have better self-discipline, pursue perfection, be serious about things and people, and manage their lives better.
Strict education for children should conform to the development of the times, and family education should also keep up with the development of the times. There is even a sense of being ahead, because today's education is to train tomorrow's talents. Under the condition of market economy, in order to survive and develop, people need a good spirit of cooperation on the one hand and a strong sense of competition on the other. It is difficult for people without real talent and learning to gain a foothold in society. According to the needs of the times, parents should pay attention to cultivating children's quality in six aspects: (1) thinking should be "alive"; (2) Moral character should be "beautiful"; (3) knowledge should be "wide"; (4) Ability should be "strong"; (5) the will should be "firm"; (6) The body should be "healthy". These qualities are the basic conditions for the survival and development of society today and in the future.
Will children suddenly become * * * when they are strictly educated? The child's spirit is not tough enough, fragile and easy to collapse. If the education method is too strong and rude, it will cause the effect of similar mental breakdown, that is * * *.
Is it corporal punishment to educate students strictly? The educational behavior of educating students should not be equated with corporal punishment. Corporal punishment is only a simple physical and mental injury to students. Strict education of students does not constitute the above conditions, so it is not corporal punishment.
If the severity of education is also regarded as corporal punishment, then the education of teachers will lose its meaning, and students should educate teachers instead.
Strict education for students is only a corrective action taken by teachers for some minors! Education without education is a failure education.
But there seems to be no legal guarantee for the strict education of students now, so it is best not to try. People will not criticize you for making 10 students bad, but strictly educating a student will get you into trouble.
What exactly does "such a strict education" mean? I was afraid that I would be scolded when I went home, so I walked home slowly and dejectedly. On the way, I met an old friend. Seeing me depressed, he came up to me and said, "Why do you look depressed?" I reluctantly smiled and said, "Alas, I didn't do well in the exam. I am afraid that I will be scolded by my parents when I go home. " He took my hand and we sat in a small chair by the side of the road. He once comforted me, but as soon as I sat down, I told him that I didn't do well in the exam. He didn't say a word when I spoke. When I told him, he felt that we relaxed a lot, and he felt that we also relaxed.