Why do you say that education should give priority to loving children? I think the main reason is that children are eager for love, and loving children is an education in itself. There is a saying that "some people use their childhood to heal their whole lives, while others use their whole lives to heal their childhood", which shows how much a child's failure to feel love at a young age will affect his later life.
The example of the importance of love in education is more realistic. Children who are not cared for by their parents when they are young will be more or less unhealthy in psychology or personality when they grow up, and it is difficult to make up for this childhood influence when they grow up. Therefore, it is particularly important to educate children about love.
Loving children is not overindulgence, but overindulgence will be counterproductive. Many parents will inadvertently form the habit of doting on their children, which parents do not intend to do. They just love their children a little too much in life and don't find out. Like a broken cocoon butterfly, struggling painfully in the pupa. If you use scissors to help the butterfly break out of its cocoon, then the butterfly will not live long. The same is true of educating children. Spoiling is a wrong way of education.
Create a warm and positive family atmosphere. Most children's education is not at school, but at home, and their parents are their first teachers. Therefore, at home, parents play a role not only as parents, but also as teachers. Since home is a classroom, having a positive family atmosphere is to give children a good educational environment. Children's feelings for love lie not only in their parents' feelings for themselves, but also in their daily behavior. Family love and kindness to pets will make children feel the existence of love.
For children, education must be based on love Only by letting children feel love can children grow up healthily and go further and further in the future.