You can see the children around you. Children who grow up in a warm environment are different from those who have been beaten and scolded since childhood, especially in dealing with people and talking. Those children who have been beaten since childhood will be particularly lacking in self-confidence, and they may not look directly at each other when talking to others, and they will be somewhat autistic. But those children who grow up in a loving and warm environment may be more confident. Although it is related to the child's own personality, that kind of confidence is really from the heart.
Moreover, parents should not think that only beating their children can make them realize their shortcomings. Sometimes they can understand them through language education. Some parents may easily hit their children, and children may become timid because of their parents' behavior when they are young, but with the growth of age, this will affect their mental health, and children may make some excessive behaviors. So this kind of education is really not desirable in this era.
So childhood really doesn't mean growing up under a stick, and parents shouldn't hit their children. It is ok for parents to be strict when educating their children, but it is really not recommended for everyone to do so, which really has no good influence on the growth of children. Especially in this era when everyone does not advocate beating and scolding to educate their children, parents should also reflect on themselves and learn from those excellent parents the way they educate their children.