We can't stay with our children forever, so the most important task of parents' life is to educate their children well.

And parents guide their children to treat them correctly in a limited time? Win or lose? It is a necessary process for parents.

Really wise parents will teach their children that losing is more important than winning. You have to understand three things!

1, I can't afford to lose when I was a child, and I can't win when I grow up.

Children who can't afford to lose have poor ability to resist setbacks. Such children, when they were young, would haggle over every ounce, be strong in everything and strive for the first place in everything, lest they fall behind others.

When I grow up, once I compare with others, the gap is very big, and my mentality will be unbalanced and go to extremes. Such people can't tolerate others' kindness, only care about their own gains and losses.

Can't afford to lose, and do whatever it takes? Take a breath? It's terrible to harm others and yourself. The child who was afraid of losing lost before the game started.

This kind? Can't afford to lose? How many children are deeply troubled by their psychology and even ruin their lives.

2. Children who learn to lose can win better.

Mr. Lu Xun said: I think the road ahead is very smooth. Why do people not go because of a little obstacle?

Just because you lose your grades and your game doesn't mean you're dead. Nine times out of ten, how can people not lose?

Only by having the courage to face the loss calmly can we get out of the trough and embrace greater success after the loss.

A child who can't afford to lose has a broad life; And a child who can't afford to lose, even a small trip, is a huge disaster.

3. Parents' attitude is the child's traffic light.

Why children? Can't afford to lose? ? From parents? Want to win too much? . Some parents like to compare their children with other children.

Even if the child behaves badly, parents will attack and abuse him. In this way, in the contrast and suppression of parents, many children are depressed and go to extremes.

Bai once said: Everyone wants to win, but not afraid of losing is the real key. Only if you are not afraid of losing can you win. ?

Only when parents are calm about winning or losing can children not be afraid of losing and win.

Educator Li Xigui said? Where to teach children? Pursuing victory? Arrive? Learn to lose? Decide the fate of a child's life. ?