Family education has attracted the attention of most families. Parents call for their own parenting experience from all over the world, but they don't know that when we teach together, we should be careful to avoid the wrong concept of excessive self-cultivation Don't lose the degree of family education because of the urgency of parenting education. What is over-cultivation? Click on a short video to see the professional analysis of the psychologist. With the development of economy and society and the improvement of parents' educational background, families pay more and more attention to children's cultural education, which is a good situation. Good family education will benefit children for life, but some parents are eager for quick success and quick success, which leads to many misunderstandings in family education. Ignoring the harm of family atmosphere to children, the family atmosphere is good, parents love each other and cooperate tacitly, and children are extroverted. 2.

Children are born to follow the trend. 3. Too much doting on children, thinking of children in everything, will cultivate selfish temperament when they grow up, which will be harmful to children. 4. Pay too much attention to their achievements, but don't care about their all-round development. Many parents have the wrong view that "you can't lose at the starting line". Regardless of whether the child has hobbies or not, forcibly enrolling in many extracurricular interest classes will cause psychological burden to the child. Many parents are eager to become talents. I hate that I can't teach everything to my children at once, so I buy all kinds of panacea that can make children smart. I am keen on advanced education. This method of quick success and instant benefit is harmful to the growth and success of my children.

Educational psychology tells us that children's physical health is directly proportional to the improvement of cognitive work ability. Therefore, the education of children can only be carried out step by step according to their physical and mental health development. Parents should attach great importance to communication with their parents, such as the head teacher's visit, parents' meeting, contact cards at home, etc., so as to grasp the children's performance in school immediately, facilitate the problem-oriented implementation of teaching activities, and avoid the derailment of family education and school moral education. Everyone has been shaping children's professional skills in family education, such as art painting and song calligraphy, but they have neglected the most important point-children's moral education.

Imagine that a person with excellent professional skills and bad personality may commit crimes with high IQ, while a child with good qualities, such as self-confidence, cheerfulness, courage, high emotional intelligence and honesty, will not have much better professional skills. Therefore, in family education, parents should be the first learners and cultivators, and in the cultivation of children, the shaping of character should be the first. There are more and more parents around me, for the sake of children's better, entering the classroom teaching of learning and training. In this case, their little change makes children more and more confident, so parents must first change the status quo if they want their children to get better and better.