The first part: demonstration speech by parents of parents' meeting Dear teachers and parents, hello everyone:
I'm Mi Wenxuan's mother. I am glad to have such an opportunity to communicate with you on the education and training of children. First of all, I want to say two words of thanks: First of all, I want to thank all the teachers for their careful training of children in the past five years. The second sentence is to thank all the children present for bringing happiness to my children.
If you ask everyone a question, "Are you busy? What are you busy with? " ? I think there is only one answer: for the children. Busy for children, busy around children. That is, we have been paying attention to our children. But what should parents pay attention to? How to pay attention to children? My experience is: pay attention to children, we must seize their bright spots to guide and motivate them, wake them up with ardent expectations, motivate them, and cultivate their courage and confidence in facing difficulties.
My child is eleven years old this year. For eleven years, it can be said that I grew up with my children. In the process of children's growth, I always think that morality is more important than learning. Everyone must have met such a person. He is very skilled and clever, but he has a bad personality and a narrow mind. In the present words, his team spirit is not strong. And his disharmony will affect his work sooner or later, and even have a great negative effect on his life. So I think a good optimistic personality is very important for children to feel happy in the future. In normal life, I never relax the cultivation of her moral character. I always take time to communicate with her and get to know her thoughts. When her thoughts fluctuate, I will guide her, first find the reasons from myself, and analyze and solve them reasonably and objectively. My child is not the best in the class, nor is her self-care ability and adaptability the best, but she is a confident, cheerful and polite child. She respects teachers, unites classmates and works hard. She is a good boy who dares to be responsible.
As a child's parents, I think we have the responsibility to help the child develop good living habits and study habits, and supervise and help her at any time. In daily life, I pay more attention to the habit cultivation of children. Every morning before the child goes out to school, I will say to her, "Listen carefully and learn to listen, and you will save a lot of time to play." I have let her go home since the first grade. The first thing is to do her homework. When doing it, she should concentrate and be serious. What makes me happy is that my children have developed good study habits, such as the habit of listening carefully in class and finishing homework independently. This makes her always get twice the result with half the effort in her studies.
I remember that near the end of the year before last, the child suddenly had a high fever. I went for intravenous drip after school a few days ago and went to table tennis training as usual at night. As a result, the child's condition became more and more serious. Finally, I went to the hospital for ct and chest X-ray. The child got pneumonia because of fever, and was the most serious patient in the whole pediatric ward when he was hospitalized. Every day from 6: 00 a.m. to 6: 5438+00 p.m., make infusion bags. That's it. When she feels comfortable, she will take out exercises to do a few things, and let me help her read the text and recite the text that the teacher asks. During her stay in hospital, she was always worried that she would not pass the exam, and even more worried that she would fall behind in her studies because of illness. It is because of her learning attitude that she won the first place in the final exam at the end of the year and achieved good results in Chinese. This should be attributed to her good study habits.
In addition, I also attach importance to the cultivation of children's specialties. My daughter has been learning table tennis for five years from XX to today. The study of table tennis is very hard and tiring, and it is not allowed to "fish for three days and dry the net for two days". In the past five years, every Monday to Friday night to 1: 30, every Saturday and Sunday is the training and learning time for children. I train with my children every day, almost without interruption. In this learning process, I just want children to know what "persistence" is. What I want to tell them is: What attitude should we use to do something. In this process, children's perseverance is gradually cultivated, and their attitude towards doing things is becoming more and more serious. Slowly, these qualities permeated every aspect of her life, including her study. I think that's enough.
These are some of my experiences in the process of educating children. I think every parent here has his own unique experience. Let's communicate and learn from each other. I believe that with our joint efforts, all our children can grow up happily and healthily.
Thank you!
Part II: Typical speeches by parents at parent-teacher conferences Dear teachers, Ceng Laoshi and parents:
Good afternoon. I'm Qi Ruijie's parents, at the invitation of Li Haiyan, the head teacher. Today, I am honored to stand here and share my children's family education with you, hoping to give you encouragement.
First of all, I want to thank my son, who taught me how to be a peaceful parent and how to show equality, understanding, respect and love in communication. Qi Ruijie is ten years old, lively, innocent and lovely, optimistic and open-minded; In the process of child-rearing for ten years, I often feel anxious, impatient and worried, but more happy, grateful and loving.
Listen to children, respect children and be their friends.
Qi Ruijie has a big mouth since he was a child and likes to talk. When the child was very young, we paid close attention to what he said. Generally speaking, we all crouch down, stop what we are doing and listen to him. When he speaks, he doesn't rush to comment, listens patiently, and often asks for his views on the problem in the form of questions, guiding him to think, choose and explore himself, without giving him an answer directly. Don't underestimate listening. In psychology, it is a kind of therapy. Generally speaking, when the narrator listens without interference, he will gradually clear his mind, know the crux of the problem in his questions, and restore his ability to solve problems. Moreover, children feel the attention, respect, understanding and time at this time, and accept the power transmitted by their parents. Moreover, this move can close the parent-child relationship.
Respect children, get along with each other as equals, and be their friends. Respect children, get along with them as equals, make them feel safe, and feel that no matter what he says, he will not attract parents' scolding and criticism, so that children can fully open their hearts. For a while, I may have been busy with work and neglected communication with my children. Compared with usual, when he talks to me, I give more instructions, suggestions and even rude interference, which makes my children very disgusted. One day, he said to me calmly, "Mom, you are not my friend. You can't be my friend. His words made me reflect on myself. Let the children speak their minds with their parents. Children can speak their minds with their parents, so that parents can really understand what their children are thinking, know their ideological trends, and know what is gratifying and what needs guidance.
Be children's friends, take part in children's activities and spend more time with children's friends. Every week, I will take it to climb the mountain and talk to it about my work, study and life this week. I feel: at this time, the child's mind is very relaxed, and many things that he usually doesn't want to say will be said at this time, as long as the method is proper. There was a time when the teacher reported that my son was absent-minded in class, and I was also very anxious. I can't ask why. One day, we were talking while walking in Su Xianling. When talking about this topic, my son told me that "the leaves of the buttonwood tree in front of the classroom are yellow, and it falls from the tree like a butterfly in the wind." I am always fascinated. " What a beautiful scenery. I didn't criticize him. I should and shouldn't. I just told the teacher to adjust a seat for him.
Perhaps influenced by me, he also learned to listen and respect others. Once before climbing the mountain, he wanted to eat a bowl of beef Lamian Noodles, and the noodles needed temporary pulling. I'm getting a little impatient. Seeing this, my son quietly moved a stool to sit me down and said, "Mom, don't worry, I'll tell you a story." In his vivid story, my heart gradually calmed down-although he has so many shortcomings, I really.
Guide children to know themselves, accept themselves, adjust and develop themselves.
Numerous practices show that only those children who know how to know themselves correctly, evaluate themselves and accept themselves happily can better adapt to study and life. Fourth-grade children have learned to analyze and accept themselves. As a parent, you should tell your child his image in your heart.
Teach children how to behave. Every parent wants his children to excel in their studies. However, top-notch children are a minority after all. I think it is very important to study well, and children's own quality education cannot be relaxed. If children are bad from primary school, what's the use of getting good grades when they grow up? The outside world is wonderful. It is necessary to educate children to distinguish right from wrong, not to be infected with bad habits in society, and to guide them to form good habits of respecting the old and caring for the young, respecting teachers, and being honest and trustworthy, and to keep polite expressions such as "I'm sorry" and "thank you" on their lips. Qi Ruijie is a famous naughty boy in his parents' unit. Old people often say that he "climbed a slippery tree". But he is a guest outside, especially at his classmates' home. His parents also like him very much and say that he is civilized and polite, so he often becomes a frequent visitor to other people's homes. He telephoned his family and went to his classmate's house.
Chapter 1: inspirational quotes about unity
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