Emotional management of children is an important part of parents' education. In the face of children's emotional storms and wrong behaviors, parents need calm communication and patient guidance to help children better understand their emotions and behaviors, so as to grow into more independent and confident people.

Emotional Storm: Calm and Restraint

In the face of children's emotional storm, parents need to be calm and restrained to avoid rushing to persuade. Leave the child alone for a while and give him room to calm down. Communicate with him after he is emotionally stable, and you will find that he is more willing to listen and understand.

Take a detour: go through a wall

When a child tries to solve a problem but takes a detour, parents often stop and trigger an emotional rebound of the child. But put yourself in the shoes, children need to try it themselves to understand whether the method is feasible. Under the premise of ensuring safety, let them experience and hit a wall, and then give guidance, so that they will be more willing to accept and cherish the lessons.

Deep understanding: ask patiently

Children will inevitably make mistakes when they grow up. Simple accusations will only intensify their resistance and make them more stubborn. In the face of children's mistakes, parents should deeply understand their motives, ask patiently and help them analyze the consequences. In this way, children can not only realize the seriousness of the problem, but also learn how to control their emotions and avoid repeating the same mistakes.