If it is harmless but impressive trial and error, I am still willing to try. After all, the effort is small, but the effect is good. Whether the value of trial-and-error education is worth it is a matter of opinion. Personally, I think it should be decided according to the cost of trial and error education. If there is really no substantial harm, you can also let your child experience your persistence and then consider the authenticity of your family's words.

Children's personal experience

For example, if the child insists on wearing a skirt in winter, I will let the child try it and let her understand the harm of wearing a skirt in winter. No matter what adults say, this kind of thing is not as good as children's own experience.

Decide the way according to the actual situation of the child.

Blind trial and error experiments are not recommended, and the way should be decided according to the actual situation of your child. For example, children with good health and physique can do some experiments about children wearing skirts.

Give children appropriate pressure to try to make mistakes.

Children with strong pressure resistance can also do some trial-and-error stress experiments for their children. Different children use different ways and means, don't blindly pursue trial and error, but consider their own children's actual situation to determine the cost of trial and error.

Control the range of trial and error

We must try trial and error education within the controllable range and within the acceptable range of children, instead of blindly following the trend.