Parents want their children to be dragons and their daughters to be phoenixes! But how to educate is very different. Because each parent's own culture, quality, self-cultivation, family environment, growth experience and other factors are different, the education methods and management methods for children are also diverse and quite different. Some people think that dutiful sons are born under sticks, while others let themselves go, saying that nature is big; Others pin their thoughts and ardent hopes on children and impose their will on them. Back to your question, I think to be a good mother and parent, we must first make friends with our children and understand their thoughts. When children have something to tell you directly and share their secrets with you, then you have succeeded and are already the best mother in their eyes! Secondly, parents are children's first teachers and lifelong teachers! When children first came to this world, they saw their mother's face the most and heard their mother's voice the most. From small to large, children are always attached to their mothers, talking and doing things, and their parents are the objects they imitate. Third, find the advantages of children and praise them in time to correct their shortcomings. The method should not be impatient and the attitude should not be blunt. Small things can be slowly and patiently reasoned, and big things must not be vague. Fourth, the spring breeze sneaked into the night to moisten things silently, and education could not be achieved overnight. It is a trickle, starting from an early age. Cultivate children's good habits and hobbies, and guide children's correct concepts and healthy psychology. Fifth, love is not coquetry, but strictness. Love children but don't spoil them. Be strict but you can't replace them with your own ideas. We should respect the idea that children have children. Adults should dare to admit their mistakes and correct them. Adults have the world in their eyes, while children have the world in their eyes. Playing is a child's nature. If this is erased, the child is not a child.