1. Give children enough love and attention: children need to feel the love and attention of their loved ones, so that they can feel safe and stable in their lives and have confidence in themselves.
2. Encourage children to try new things: trying new things can help children discover their own potential and advantages, so that children can gain a sense of accomplishment and self-confidence from trying. Children can be encouraged to participate in social activities, sports competitions, painting, music and other activities.
3. Affirm children's achievements: whether it is academic achievements, sports competitions, artistic creation, etc. Children should be given proper affirmation and praise so that they can gain confidence from affirmation.
4. Independent thinking and decision-making ability: Encourage children to learn and think independently, and let them make decisions independently, which can make children grow and develop faster, thus improving their self-confidence.
5. Give children the opportunity to speak freely: Encourage children to express their views and opinions at home or at school, so that children can experience the feeling that their words are valued and respected, thus enhancing their self-confidence.
6. Positive psychological hints: In daily life, giving children some positive psychological hints, such as "I believe you can do it" and "you are smart and have the ability to solve problems", can subtly enhance children's confidence.
7. Give children time and space: let children have time and space for independent thinking and decision-making, and let children accumulate experience and confidence in trial, failure and summary.
8. Encourage children to express: Children sometimes dare not express their opinions or opinions because they are afraid of being evaluated or rejected. Parents can encourage their children to express their opinions at home, especially when making decisions and dealing with problems, and listen to their ideas and suggestions.
9. Ways to correct mistakes for children: When parents point out their children's mistakes, they should take a positive approach to help them understand the causes of the mistakes and how to correct them, instead of blindly attacking them.
10. Appropriately praise children: When children do good deeds or complete good tasks, they can be properly affirmed and praised, which can make children more confident in themselves and enhance their self-evaluation and self-feeling.
1 1. Cultivate children's hobbies: let children find things they are interested in and work hard to make them feel happy and fulfilled when doing their own things, and at the same time accumulate self-confidence.
Generally speaking, to educate self-confident children, we need to let them develop the ability of independent thinking, trying and affirming themselves on the basis of caring and free space, and help them establish confidence in life and themselves.