1. 1, guide students to distinguish the boundaries between friendship and love.

An important symbol of middle school students' adolescence is their hazy desire for the opposite sex. They call for friendship and expect love. The youthful vitality brought by the awakening of sexual consciousness has made their pursuit of emotional life reach an unprecedented peak, and distinguishing the boundaries between friendship and love has become a topic faced by adolescent education.

1.2, cultivate students to learn self-respect and self-love and seek personality perfection.

The awakening of sexual consciousness often induces middle school students to examine the mysterious relationship between men and women with a romantic psychology. In practice, we should combine the contents of sexual physiology and psychological society to guide middle school students to give more social and humanistic connotations to the budding consciousness of sex and love.

1.3, educate students to control their emotions with reason.

The function of reason is that it is a rational force rooted in social moral norms. Emotion under the guidance of reason can get rid of naivety, become mature and be measured properly.

1.4, to guide students to establish their role in society.

The main task of middle school students is to study. Many middle school students dislike learning as the center, and everything is in line with grades. This is a youthful idea, because society must have its certain value orientation and judgment standard, and the senior high school entrance examination and college entrance examination have become a watershed.

2. Basic concepts of family education

Family education is one of the components of big education and the foundation of school education and social education. Family education is lifelong education, starting from the day the child is born (even dating back to the fetal period). Family education in early childhood is "the beginning of life" education, which plays a fundamental role in people's life. After children go to primary school and middle school, family education is not only the foundation of school education, but also the supplement and extension of school education. Its educational goal should be to ensure the healthy development of children's body and mind before entering the society to receive collective education, so as to lay a good foundation for receiving education in kindergartens and schools.

3. The importance of education

Family is the basic cell of society and the first school in life. No matter how the times change, no matter how the life pattern changes, we should attach importance to family construction, family education and family style construction, closely combine and cultivate and carry forward the socialist core values, carry forward the traditional family virtues of the Chinese nation, promote family harmony, promote the love of relatives, promote the healthy growth of the next generation, and promote the old people's security, so that thousands of families in Qian Qian can become an important foundation for national development, national progress and social harmony.

Taboos for educating children

1, avoid one-on-one answers.

Parents should avoid asking and answering when communicating with their children, that is, parents ask questions and children answer. This kind of communication will make children feel very annoyed. This business-like attitude will make children don't want to answer, and this way will alienate children and their relationship with their parents, which is not conducive to communication without distance.

2. Avoid silence.

Many parents don't communicate with their children often, but listen silently. This perfunctory behavior is not communication, but it will make children feel that they are annoying their parents. On the contrary, it will reduce the number of times you speak and become silent. Therefore, parents need to establish a standardized language environment for their children so that they can communicate with themselves and understand their needs; Talking to children more and communicating on an equal footing will promote the relationship between children and themselves, and also enable children to open their hearts and express their thoughts and puzzles in time.

3. Avoid scaring children.

Some parents like to scare their children. Because the child's speech comprehension ability is limited, it is impossible to know whether it is a joke or not. They will think that what mom and dad said is true, so they will have a psychological burden. Therefore, parents need to pay attention to communication methods, and don't scare their children.

Methods of educating children

Respect children's sophistry-feedback effect. Whenever parents point out their children's mistakes, children always find many reasons to prove their innocence. At this time, parents generally call their children's behavior "sophistry" angrily. In fact, this is not sophistry, but a kind of feedback from children to their parents' education.

Analyze and respect children's feedback. When children give feedback on our education, we must first analyze this feedback. Of course, this analysis is not only aimed at children's language, but also includes children's movements and expressions.

In response to children's feedback, we should have a purposeful education. When analyzing the problems of children's feedback, parents can carry out purposeful education on children's feedback. For example, if children don't know the importance of politeness when giving feedback, parents will never do it again. They can tell their children the importance of being polite through examples and reasons, and guide them to be polite children. If the child's feedback is that he doesn't want to know the responsibility caused by the recent wrong words and deeds, parents should encourage the child to be a person who knows his mistakes and corrects them.