Correct guidance
Although the rebellious children have a strong sense of self, they still need the guidance of their parents at this time.
Establish an equal relationship
Parents should establish an equal relationship with their children during their rebellious period.
Listen patiently.
In addition to educating their children, parents will also have their own work and life, but they still need patience and calm down to listen to their plans and wants, so as to reduce the outbreak of family conflicts and avoid conflicts with their children.
Determine the cause of (sth)
Children's emotions and behaviors change for a reason. Children in rebellious period are often more impatient than before, and it is difficult to listen to their parents' advice. At this time, the first thing parents should do is not to correct, but to find out what the reason is, and then guide and coax them back to the right track.
Correct affirmation
Parents should first affirm their children's correct behavior, praise the appropriate side, and then express their opinions in the parts that children need to correct. Usually, they are more likely to listen to their parents' advice when they satisfy their self-esteem.
Resist and dredge
For children's rebellious behavior, what parents should do most is not to correct their mistakes blindly, but to resist and guide them like Dayu's water control, and to induce them without hurting children's independent consciousness.
Positive and optimistic attitude
Adolescence is a crucial period for the formation of children's character. Parents should treat their children's rebellious behavior with a positive and optimistic attitude. Excessive suppression and bedding will only increase children's psychological pressure and cause bad consequences.