Before answering the question, let's look at a psychological test:
Psychologists have done such a psychological test: psychologists divide children into two groups, A and B, and let them test the same questions respectively. Three days later, the psychologist went to the school again and told the students in Group A: "I did well in the last exam. Take the exam again today. You can't lose to the last one Write well! " He also said to the students in Group B: "Your grades were poor last time! How can this work? We must turn defeat into victory this time! " Results The two groups with the same score performed well in the second test, and the group that was affirmed and praised performed well. The results of the group that took the exam after scolding were very unsatisfactory.
This test tells us that appreciation leads to success and scolding leads to failure. As a psychological need and desire, everyone wants to be appreciated and praised. It can be said that continuous positive motivation is the source of motivation for a person's growth. If a child lives with encouragement, he learns to be confident; If a child lives with identity, he learns to love himself. This is "appreciation"-appreciation affirmation. Once appreciation is used correctly by parents, its charm is endless and it will become the "golden key" for children to pursue success continuously.
Mr. Tao Xingzhi, an educator in China, once said: "The whole secret of educating children lies in trusting children and liberating them. Believe in children and liberate children, we must first appreciate children. " All children are eager to be appreciated by others. Appreciating children means constantly discovering their advantages, encouraging them, gradually cultivating their self-confidence and making them believe in their abilities.
It can be seen that appreciation is very important for growing children. The children were affirmed by their parents' appreciative eyes, appreciative words, satisfied nods, knowing smiles and warm applause. Appreciation can discover children's advantages and strengths, stimulate children's internal motivation and enhance their self-confidence. Thanks for appreciation, let children learn to stand on their own feet; Thanks for appreciation, children have the courage to move forward; Thanks for appreciation, children learn to be strong; It is also because of appreciation that children have achieved success after success.
Give your child more appreciation, even if everyone looks down on him. Parents are the educators and guides of children, so we should encourage, trust and praise him wholeheartedly.
Appreciation is the essence of education, which can bring infinite confidence and motivation to children and keep them moving forward. A famous educator once said, "Children need inspiration just like plants need watering. Without incentives, children cannot survive. " It is not easy to learn to appreciate children. Every parent should seriously study and think about strategies to encourage children and form the habit of appreciating children.